Live for the moment?

A little question that's had me pondering!

During a conversation with my Taurus guy, he said he "has trouble planning" (we were talking about his house move), and he said that he very much likes to "live for the moment". I answered this with, "oh no, I really enjoy planning things" and "I love to have something to look forward to". ..... That was just about it

but..

Me being an aqua, aren't we supposed to be flighty and living for the moment, and aren't Taurus the opposite of that? Or have I just read that wrong.

So my question is I suppose, are Taureans a live for the moment type sign, and I've had upside down for all this time? Because my guy is Taurus, I've always treated him gently.. never been to flighty, and been carefull to plan days out etc... I'm thinking.. was that not the best thing to do?

There are probably other pieces/planets involved that explain this. What is his and your Mars/Ascendant sign?

I agree though, Aquas are more "live for the moment" where Tauruses like to plan. I know I do...just as you said..I look forward to things I plan. I also like surprises every now and then to keep it interesting.

My Taurus also doesn't like to plan, he goes silent when plans are mentioned. It's a bit weird, but I'm slowly getting used to it.
Maybe plans disrupt their set little schedule? It could be the change of location that your one doesn't want to think about, not so much the making of a plan.

Ummmm I'm guilty of that too 😢 I think we only plan once our mind is completely and a hundredly percent sure that that is the road we want to take and it takes a while to get there too 🙂

Personally I don't like planning either, I've never planned a weekend or a trip or nothing. I do what I do just like that, bam 'lets go here?' awesome tonight, after work, i'll call into work on our way, grab a couple of things and that's that, planning is sooooo much fusssss euuuuuwwwwwwww plus people who like to plan everything have this thing for sticking to the plan? what's that all about? and then of course they get frustrated when something doesn't happen as planned, the further off-track something is, to me the better 🙂

Long-term is kinda different in the sense that you know what path you'll be walking and that's that and if it doesn't happen like that a plan is merely to set you on your way somewhere...