MadhuLibra
@MadhuLibra
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Need urgent help!!Taurus man driving me crazy!!
He wants to have sex but only if it wont hurt me in the end if he says he cannot date me.. He doesnt want to hurt me..but he isnt even ready to commit..i am confused if he will ever feel for me?? Or we will just have sex and it will end there??
Honestly guy tells you he will not date you and just wants to have sex. You want to date him? Lol
Does not sound like a smart idea... Now does it...
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Does not sound like a smart idea... Now does it...
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He says he is trying to love me like before..but he cannot forget the past where i treated him like a criminal..
And he says if ever i feel i am being used for physical reasons then he will stop talkin about it.. He would prefer being a close friend than losing me because of physical intimacy
And he says if ever i feel i am being used for physical reasons then he will stop talkin about it.. He would prefer being a close friend than losing me because of physical intimacy
Posted by Hotbeefy
Then don't do it. When he cannot forget, he won't forget it. Main problem as a Taurus. 😐
Best to go back as a friends (like better to be safe than sorry).
Be glad he told you this, otherwise you both wouldn't figure it out and will be much more worse than usual.
Will he never forget?? Even if i say sorry with all my heart ? And make up for all the things i did??
He still cares for me..and is always there for me..
I am sooo confused as to what he wants _—_—
So he's trying to love you like before but doesn't want to date you or be Bf/Gf but he has ZERO problem with putting his dick inside you.
Awww that's so sweet of him...
Awww that's so sweet of him...
Posted by AgentP911
So he's trying to love you like before but doesn't want to date you or be Bf/Gf but he has ZERO problem with putting his dick inside you.
Awww that's so sweet of him...
I guess you are right_—_—
But i seriously love him a lot _— is there no way to win back a taurus guy? _— i do not want to lose him now
Treated him like a criminal? What did you do that was so unforgivable? If you really kept refusing him like you said and he kept being possessive and pushy with the whole dating thing regardless, I don't think that you have anything to apologize for. He kept being naggy and you insulted him in public. You made up later. Doesn't sound like the end of the world to me.
Posted by Theatrum
Treated him like a criminal? What did you do that was so unforgivable? If you really kept refusing him like you said and he kept being possessive and pushy with the whole dating thing regardless, I don't think that you have anything to apologize for. He kept being naggy and you insulted him in public. You made up later. Doesn't sound like the end of the world to me.
I see your point..but he has a cancer moon and hence he is very sensitive.. Way more sensitive than me..
Posted by Libralicious72
He's had to suppress his feelings for you to protect himself... It's a case of bad timing for you both...
If you are intimate with him you're likely to set yourself up for an almighty fall...
Perhaps it's best if you have a heart to heart, tell him again how you're feeling, then leave it with him... In the meantime you can continue your friendship with him and give yourselves time to see if anything more develops between you...
It's risky to think that if you are intimate, that the feelings he had for you will return...
I have made my feelings very clear to him...infact he is even ready to let go his physical desires to not hurt me later
Posted by MadhuLibraPosted by Theatrum
Treated him like a criminal? What did you do that was so unforgivable? If you really kept refusing him like you said and he kept being possessive and pushy with the whole dating thing regardless, I don't think that you have anything to apologize for. He kept being naggy and you insulted him in public. You made up later. Doesn't sound like the end of the world to me.
I see your point..but he has a cancer moon and hence he is very sensitive.. Way more sensitive than me..click to expand
Cancer moon or not, he's not too sensitive to want to put his dick in you. Just because he said 'oh we can stop if you feel hurt' doesn't make it ok. What the others posted above is sound advice. If you've had a heart to heart and this is the conclusion or result then that is all for now. I wouldn't sleep with him as that's a whole new can of worms!
Posted by AgentP911Posted by MadhuLibraPosted by Theatrum
Treated him like a criminal? What did you do that was so unforgivable? If you really kept refusing him like you said and he kept being possessive and pushy with the whole dating thing regardless, I don't think that you have anything to apologize for. He kept being naggy and you insulted him in public. You made up later. Doesn't sound like the end of the world to me.
I see your point..but he has a cancer moon and hence he is very sensitive.. Way more sensitive than me..
Cancer moon or not, he's not too sensitive to want to put his dick in you. Just because he said 'oh we can stop if you feel hurt' doesn't make it ok. What the others posted above is sound advice. If you've had a heart to heart and this is the conclusion or result then that is all for now. I wouldn't sleep with him as that's a whole new can of worms!click to expand
Thank you so much for making me realise that i need to cut the crap and ask him to be in limit atleast till the time he decides what he wants..
Posted by AgentP911Posted by MadhuLibraPosted by Theatrum
Treated him like a criminal? What did you do that was so unforgivable? If you really kept refusing him like you said and he kept being possessive and pushy with the whole dating thing regardless, I don't think that you have anything to apologize for. He kept being naggy and you insulted him in public. You made up later. Doesn't sound like the end of the world to me.
I see your point..but he has a cancer moon and hence he is very sensitive.. Way more sensitive than me..
Cancer moon or not, he's not too sensitive to want to put his dick in you. Just because he said 'oh we can stop if you feel hurt' doesn't make it ok. What the others posted above is sound advice. If you've had a heart to heart and this is the conclusion or result then that is all for now. I wouldn't sleep with him as that's a whole new can of worms!click to expand
Thank you so much for making me realise that i need to cut the crap and ask him to be in limit atleast till the time he decides what he wants..
I don't believe he was ever in love with you, maybe just infatuated with you.
I can't stress this enough, [Some] Tauruses who move fast...may burn out equally as fast.
Does he have a Venus in Aries, I'm curious.
Your best bet....
If you were feeling a little indecisive, you should have simply told him you were interested and wanted to take things slow.
This would have benefited the both of you.
This infatuation would have eventually blossomed into love.
His impulsive tendencies would have been properly guided with a more solid foundation.
After all, he's still a Bull.
It seemed as if you were just blowing him off in the beginning with no real explanations.
So therefore, no real courtship, no genuine communication, no real understanding.
He may have just FWB-Zoned you.
It could be due to a myriad of reasons,
1) Your indecisiveness may be making him feel uneasy about pursuing a long term relationship with you.
2) He lost interest, and the chase is now over.
3) There may be some hidden resentment there, and now the tables are turned.
Whatever it is....
He no longer sees you as a long-term possibility.
I can't stress this enough, [Some] Tauruses who move fast...may burn out equally as fast.
Does he have a Venus in Aries, I'm curious.
Your best bet....
If you were feeling a little indecisive, you should have simply told him you were interested and wanted to take things slow.
This would have benefited the both of you.
This infatuation would have eventually blossomed into love.
His impulsive tendencies would have been properly guided with a more solid foundation.
After all, he's still a Bull.
It seemed as if you were just blowing him off in the beginning with no real explanations.
So therefore, no real courtship, no genuine communication, no real understanding.
He may have just FWB-Zoned you.
It could be due to a myriad of reasons,
1) Your indecisiveness may be making him feel uneasy about pursuing a long term relationship with you.
2) He lost interest, and the chase is now over.
3) There may be some hidden resentment there, and now the tables are turned.
Whatever it is....
He no longer sees you as a long-term possibility.
I'm sorry to say but I think the peak for his level of interest in you is over. I believe he truly cared about you, at least in the beginning stages. Until you hurt him twice . probably three times if he had knew about you dating another guy while he was pursuing you.
It's hard for a Taurus to let go. He might still have some feelings for you but I cant help but think his feelings now may not be as intense as before.
It's hard for a Taurus to let go. He might still have some feelings for you but I cant help but think his feelings now may not be as intense as before.
Lmao.
My ex taur and I when separated our ways... he cried.
I don't know how could a taurus just walked away with a heavy heart for me. Or was it something that I said
I can't do it anymore and I was sorry... oh yeah. inject those medicine he needs and let the bull get hurt.
hahaha. Only brave woman can stand this bull. lol
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I don't believe he was ever in love with you, maybe just infatuated with you.
I can't stress this enough, [Some] Tauruses who move fast...may burn out equally as fast.
Does he have a Venus in Aries, I'm curious.
Your best bet....
If you were feeling a little indecisive, you should have simply told him you were interested and wanted to take things slow.
This would have benefited the both of you.
This infatuation would have eventually blossomed into love.
His impulsive tendencies would have been properly guided with a more solid foundation.
After all, he's still a Bull.
It seemed as if you were just blowing him off in the beginning with no real explanations.
So therefore, no real courtship, no genuine communication, no real understanding.
He may have just FWB-Zoned you.
It could be due to a myriad of reasons,
1) Your indecisiveness may be making him feel uneasy about pursuing a long term relationship with you.
2) He lost interest, and the chase is now over.
3) There may be some hidden resentment there, and now the tables are turned.
Whatever it is....
He no longer sees you as a long-term possibility.
Is there a way to know that my taurus guy hasnt FWB zoned me and needs time to be sure that i actually feel for him and womt back out later on ?
OP,
You have to understand taurus harem first or else he will conclude you were assuming. Cancer women are very
attached even the 1 month fling affair. I can't really understand you guys...
You have to understand taurus harem first or else he will conclude you were assuming. Cancer women are very
attached even the 1 month fling affair. I can't really understand you guys...
Yeah... Don't shag him. Then you're not a FWB!
Have some respect for yourself. If you dont have it, nobody will. Dont allow him him to treat you like this, just for sex.
Posted by MadhuLibra
Is there a way to know that my taurus guy hasnt FWB zoned me and needs time to be sure that i actually feel for him and womt back out later on ?
He has FWB-zoned you.
That was my point.
Expressing your emotions will fall on deaf ears.
He's a Bull.
He's fixed.
He's stubborn.
It's not the verbal forms of expressions that wins us over.
We need tangible proof in order to see you as long term possibility.
Consistency. Reliability. Loyalty. Instinct.
Your patterns of behavior showed neither.
Why see a potential flake as a long term possibility, when he can enjoy being a hedonistic Bull right now and shagging you at his leisure.
Not to be harsh. I truly hope I'm not being offensive.
Just reviewing the history between the both of you and laying out the aftermath.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by MadhuLibra
Is there a way to know that my taurus guy hasnt FWB zoned me and needs time to be sure that i actually feel for him and womt back out later on ?
He has FWB-zoned you.
That was my point.
Expressing your emotions will fall on deaf ears.
He's a Bull.
He's fixed.
He's stubborn.
It's not the verbal forms of expressions that wins us over.
We need tangible proof in order to see you as long term possibility.
Consistency. Reliability. Loyalty. Instinct.
Your patterns of behavior showed neither.
Why see a potential flake as a long term possibility, when he can enjoy being a hedonistic Bull right now and shagging you at his leisure.
Not to be harsh. I truly hope I'm not being offensive.
Just reviewing the history between the both of you and laying out the aftermath.click to expand
_??__??__??__??_ i didnt value him when he loved me like hell..he was ready to die for me..and now when i love him he sees me as FWB _??__??_ i love him so much now that i do not want to lose him _— i do not know what to do.. How to win him back _—_??_
I am shattered _—_—
Posted by AgentP911
So he's trying to love you like before but doesn't want to date you or be Bf/Gf but he has ZERO problem with putting his dick inside you.
Awww that's so sweet of him...
best post of the day
Posted by MadhuLibraPosted by TaurusBull1977Posted by MadhuLibra
Is there a way to know that my taurus guy hasnt FWB zoned me and needs time to be sure that i actually feel for him and womt back out later on ?
He has FWB-zoned you.
That was my point.
Expressing your emotions will fall on deaf ears.
He's a Bull.
He's fixed.
He's stubborn.
It's not the verbal forms of expressions that wins us over.
We need tangible proof in order to see you as long term possibility.
Consistency. Reliability. Loyalty. Instinct.
Your patterns of behavior showed neither.
Why see a potential flake as a long term possibility, when he can enjoy being a hedonistic Bull right now and shagging you at his leisure.
Not to be harsh. I truly hope I'm not being offensive.
Just reviewing the history between the both of you and laying out the aftermath.
_??__??__??__??_ i didnt value him when he loved me like hell..he was ready to die for me..and now when i love him he sees me as FWB _??__??_ i love him so much now that i do not want to lose him _— i do not know what to do.. How to win him back _—_??_
I am shattered _—_—click to expand
Yeah well shit happens. Lesson learnt. I think your dramatics are clouding the situation. If you step back, breathe, read what the others have written here, and just accept friends WITHOUT benefits for now.
You never know what the future holds. Maybe his stubbornness and your FWB zoned arse will remain as it is or maybe in time he might see it differently. Maybe in time to might see it all differently. Who know?
I can't see why you're getting your knickers in a twist about a fella you didn't appear to be so bothered about in the first place but have now flipped to an extreme for no real reason.
Have you got Venus in Scorp??
I bet you have. Come on, you can tell us...
Posted by DMVPosted by AgentP911
So he's trying to love you like before but doesn't want to date you or be Bf/Gf but he has ZERO problem with putting his dick inside you.
Awww that's so sweet of him...
best post of the dayclick to expand
Ahhhh I aim to please :-)
Posted by AgentP911
I can't see why you're getting your knickers in a twist about a fella you didn't appear to be so bothered about in the first place but have now flipped to an extreme for no real reason.
Have you got Venus in Scorp??
I bet you have. Come on, you can tell us...
LMAO!
I will agree this statement.
She didn't appear interested and now she's showing her declaration of undying love.
If this Bull does have a Venus in Aries, she doesn't stand a fighting chance.
His feelings for her may have already fizzled out.
Even if she offered to hold the 'coochie' hostage as a way to initiate the chase all over again...
Nah.
She's just wasting her time.
My gut instinct tells me he could take it or leave it at this moment.
Bulls have pride. The chase is over. Game Over. The cards are in.
She can play if she wants to, but don't expect a happy ending.
Exactly TB!
My ??1 (or $ 1.50 or ?
My ??1 (or $ 1.50 or ?
Posted by AgentP911Posted by MadhuLibraPosted by TaurusBull1977Posted by MadhuLibra
Is there a way to know that my taurus guy hasnt FWB zoned me and needs time to be sure that i actually feel for him and womt back out later on ?
He has FWB-zoned you.
That was my point.
Expressing your emotions will fall on deaf ears.
He's a Bull.
He's fixed.
He's stubborn.
It's not the verbal forms of expressions that wins us over.
We need tangible proof in order to see you as long term possibility.
Consistency. Reliability. Loyalty. Instinct.
Your patterns of behavior showed neither.
Why see a potential flake as a long term possibility, when he can enjoy being a hedonistic Bull right now and shagging you at his leisure.
Not to be harsh. I truly hope I'm not being offensive.
Just reviewing the history between the both of you and laying out the aftermath.
_??__??__??__??_ i didnt value him when he loved me like hell..he was ready to die for me..and now when i love him he sees me as FWB _??__??_ i love him so much now that i do not want to lose him _— i do not know what to do.. How to win him back _—_??_
I am shattered _—_—
Yeah well shit happens. Lesson learnt. I think your dramatics are clouding the situation. If you step back, breathe, read what the others have written here, and just accept friends WITHOUT benefits for now.
You never know what the future holds. Maybe his stubbornness and your FWB zoned arse will remain as it is or maybe in time he might see it differently. Maybe in time to might see it all differently. Who know?
I can't see why you're getting your knickers in a twist about a fella you didn't appear to be so bothered about in the first place but have now flipped to an extreme for no real reason.
Have you got Venus in Scorp??
I bet you have. Come on, you can tell us...click to expand
I dont know whats in my venus _—_— and that guy always stood by me..his nature won me over..but my stubbornness and me insulting him in front of everyone made me lose him..
Anyway i will wait for him..like he waited for me..
Oh Jesus, I'm not the Ayatollah of this shit!!!
Posted by AgentP911
Exactly TB!
My ??1 (or $ 1.50 or ?
Damn girl, I stand corrected BUT maybe it's a pride thing I'm getting with your Leo Moon. You can't understand why he still isn't falling at your feet, so to speak. Big ego but not in a bad way.
Posted by AgentP911Maybe _— but what chance do i stand with him? Has he moved on? Or does he still feel for me and just has retreated into his shell?
Damn girl, I stand corrected BUT maybe it's a pride thing I'm getting with your Leo Moon. You can't understand why he still isn't falling at your feet, so to speak. Big ego but not in a bad way.
No one can answer that question but him!
However, if you chill, follow the advice provided then time may help you answer this question.
However, if you chill, follow the advice provided then time may help you answer this question.
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But in few months he confessed his feelings for me..He was head over heels in love with me.. But since i was dealing with my past i kept refusing him..and he still kept loving me.. But few months back i dont know what happened to him...he became very possessive and started asking me to date him... I tried resolving the issue but he kept forcing me..And it took to my head and i insulted him front of all my friends _—_— but he still kept helping me in different ways behind my back...never backed away from supporting me even when we werent talking..Slowly as the matter started fading out i again started talking to him..And we became good friends again.. ..After we started talking again i could feel he isnt that close to me as he was earlier..but i didnt mind it much..But the thing goes like while i wasnt talking to taurus guy, i started dating another guy _— whom he hated alot..
But i didnt confess to him then that i was dating him..
Last week our college was on a trip for 10 days and during that time i broke up with the other guy due to a fight and then i realised i was in love with my taurus guy..
And i used to like him since long but was being manipulated by other people who didnt want to see us close..
And in the last 2 days of the trip the taurus guy asked me for a kiss but i tried refusing but as the taurus guys are stubborn he was persistent with his request and i lost my control and kissed him and then we got a bit intimate and touchy...
Later after the trip we had a discussion over it.. He says he is hurt over what i did to him and hence is not able to decide and feel for me like he did before..
He was mad after me..but now he wants me to be physically close to him..he says its upto me..
If i can get physical with him without getting hurt he would love to do it..
But he doesnt want to lose me as a close friend.and he is ready to stop the intimacy if i feel used by him..but he doesnt want to lose me..
It is driving me crazy..he doesnt want to lose me as a friend.Does it mean he doesnt feel for me anymore and wants me only physically? What if i get physical with him and give him time to decide will he commit?what to do?