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New to the boards, question about taurus man
I apologize in advance if this comes off as blunt, because I really can't think of a way to clean it up, but I'll do my best:
a. he is w/a girl, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you, hell he would probably sleep with you, but right now - he is NOT leaving his girlfriend
b. if he does leave his girlfriend, it likely wouldn't be for you, now with that being said, he would probably be with you, again, he'd probably sleep with you, but it's been my experience that if a man leaves one woman for another woman who KNEW he was with someone while he was "courting her" he will not have a high regard for that, and will string her along ... again, everybody is different, but this is my experience with this, and I have plenty...
c. if he DID leave his girlfriend for you, would you want to even be with him— There is an old saying, "If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you" or something along those lines.
My advice would be to tread very lightly in this situation, and if you really do like him, you should make it perfectly clear that while you do enjoy his company, you are not going to get involved with someone who is already in a relationship, and this should not be seen as a threat or an ultimatum, it simply "is what it is." Further, you can let him know that if there comes a time that he is no longer with his girlfriend, and you are single, than he is more than welcome to take you on a date, but until such time, it's probably best that you keep your communications to a minimum.
I'm not judging you, I don't know you, but again, I would strongly caution you going down this path, because very infrequently does anything good/long term come from a situation like this; however, there are some people who must experience these types of things on their own, and if that is the case for you, I wish you the best of luck, and hope that you turn out to be the exception and not the rule in this case.
a. he is w/a girl, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you, hell he would probably sleep with you, but right now - he is NOT leaving his girlfriend
b. if he does leave his girlfriend, it likely wouldn't be for you, now with that being said, he would probably be with you, again, he'd probably sleep with you, but it's been my experience that if a man leaves one woman for another woman who KNEW he was with someone while he was "courting her" he will not have a high regard for that, and will string her along ... again, everybody is different, but this is my experience with this, and I have plenty...
c. if he DID leave his girlfriend for you, would you want to even be with him— There is an old saying, "If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you" or something along those lines.
My advice would be to tread very lightly in this situation, and if you really do like him, you should make it perfectly clear that while you do enjoy his company, you are not going to get involved with someone who is already in a relationship, and this should not be seen as a threat or an ultimatum, it simply "is what it is." Further, you can let him know that if there comes a time that he is no longer with his girlfriend, and you are single, than he is more than welcome to take you on a date, but until such time, it's probably best that you keep your communications to a minimum.
I'm not judging you, I don't know you, but again, I would strongly caution you going down this path, because very infrequently does anything good/long term come from a situation like this; however, there are some people who must experience these types of things on their own, and if that is the case for you, I wish you the best of luck, and hope that you turn out to be the exception and not the rule in this case.
I forgot to add, that while he is a Taurus male, I think that my above advice is essentially across the board for any man. I will say that Taurus (male & female) tend to be very loyal, so if he's saying he's made a promise to his girlfriend and isn't leaving her, he probably won't - she may leave him, but he likely (90% ) will not leave her ... again, just from my experience in these types of situations.
Posted by USCTaurusGal
I forgot to add, that while he is a Taurus male, I think that my above advice is essentially across the board for any man. I will say that Taurus (male & female) tend to be very loyal, so if he's saying he's made a promise to his girlfriend and isn't leaving her, he probably won't - she may leave him, but he likely (90% ) will not leave her ... again, just from my experience in these types of situations.
USC is right on with this statement. I think they have a very hard time leaving people. My husband has said before that he's always been the one dumped. I'm not sure why this is, but it will take something HUGE to finally leave that person. We've had our ups and many downs over the past 10 years and he's still stuck around. He never brings up moving on/breaking up.
I would step far away from this situation. If he wanted to be with you and not this other chick, then he would. You obviously cannot be friends with this man.
Good luck and I wish you only the best! 🙂
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