no contact after breaking up in good terms

Hello! I dated one month and a half with a taurus guy, I am a saggittarius. From the beginning he was not that available and wanted to see me home not going out.. but I coud see that he really liked me but got scared somehow. I communicated to him what I was looking for: a person to share moments to know each other better doing thinghs together more often, not just spend time in bed.

He told me that he is still hurt form a ten years relationship, that he liked me but he has not the right mind for a relatonship so we decided to stay "friends" as we see each other at work sometimes.

suring the summer break I started no contact and during this month he just liked some of my pictures on instagram and that's it. I met him at work and he stopped me while ài was with other collegues to ask me how I was doing, and that was nice.

Do you guys think he will come back somehow? Do I keep not contacting him?

thanks!

I say that is you wanna keep the option of you guys dating again open that you should treat him like a friend.

im a sag with a Taurus

but just naturally for me If I have liked someone but the timing wasn't right and we were able to accept that we just cant be in a relationship at the present moment I would still be myself. I would reach out say hi, talk about things, send them funny memes. I would never be sexual but I was be flirty. there is no point in pushing him because he knows you like him. you should just be yourself and maybe he will come around.

but don't compromise the things you want.

if he try's to get you to come over or he try's to come over. in the sweetest way say you can, no need to explain yourself. he already knows what your looking for.

good luck

The only thing is that I really care for him, so for now, it would hurt me a bit to contact him like nothing happened.. do taurus men wait for the other people to make the first move even if he wants to call me? Or is silent because he simply doesn't care?

You've agreed to be friends so he is being friendly.

If it hurts you to be friends, don't be.

He's already told you he is not ready to be in a relationship like you want, it would be foolish to not take him at his word.

I am the same as this guy. I am upfront and tell someone when I'm not emotionally available. He is being friendly and probably really likes you as a person.

Posted by ddeegg
The only thing is that I really care for him, so for now, it would hurt me a bit to contact him like nothing happened.. do taurus men wait for the other people to make the first move even if he wants to call me? Or is silent because he simply doesn't care?

well if it hurts you, then yes, you should definitely set some bounderies. regardless if he cares or not, his actions speak. he might not care, he might not reach out, he might care, and he might regret not reaching out later. I hope that whatever happens is what is best for you and your happiness. with time, which is all you need, you will get better, feel stronger and if the universe allows it, maybe can be friends or link up in the future.

in my experience my Taurus will be in his head a lot before he makes any action.. and even sometime he will push his feels aside so he doesn't have to deal with what he is feeling.

me as a sag. im action. I do what makes me feel good. if I wanna reach out I will otherwise I work with what I have the power to work with to better myself. I hope you can do the same.