Scorpio man and Taurus woman experience?

Relationship or friendship, what was it like...

We're opposites with them. Its either AMAZING or SH*T, there is no in between. Their positive traits cancel out our negative and vice versa. We make each other better people at the end of it. That was my experience anyways.

Posted by deelia
We're opposites with them. Its either AMAZING or SH*T, there is no in between. Their positive traits cancel out our negative and vice versa. We make each other better people at the end of it. That was my experience anyways.

This...

That a mature Taurus woman would not test a man like a Scorp? Idk do mature Scorpio women do that?

From my pov, no need to throw obstacles at a person, life does that the best. All you got to do is sit back wait and observe. All things become clear in time.

I don't really have the details here... I could easily agree that you are putting to much pressure on the relationship depending how much time has passed.

Wouldn't really recommend expressing yourself via text, or making some big ta do about it either. Pressure could easily be the culprit here regardless of time. It sounds like your trying to force something here. Not to great for Taurus energy, best to let things flow naturally, I can understand that might be harder form Scorpio energy that tends to obsess on things.

I find that when I know how I feel and want to express something, the right time will always presents it self, so I don't worry about it. To do otherwise feels like I'm fighting the universe to make something happen, which never works out for me.

You say once you go silent you get results, but you can also look at it like once relieve the pressure she wants to come around.

@warangel1

Walk with her, don't pull her hand on the adventure she's not ready to take. Taurus don't play mind games, she meant what she said but she also likes you very much at the same time. When a taurus doesn't care and WANTS to move in, we don't make the effort anymore. But don't let her make the first move (like texting or asking out on dates) we like a man that takes the lead, knows what he wants, sees his future, is stable, caring, and most of all has security that we need. You lacking somewhere in that why she doesn't want to jump the gun with you

She sounds like she is playing hard to get! HAHA, typical Taurus. She pulls away when you pull in, and pulls in when you pull away. She may like the challenge, I think you should pursue her until she tells you very specifically that she is not into you. Maybe she is testing the waters to see how strong of a man you are to really go after the woman you WANT. Taurus love manly men. Keep trying, but dont annoy her. And if she rejects you, on to the next! But at least you can say you gave it you all and live with no regrets 🙂

I dont think you should get her flowers for vday.... I dont know, I mean, I am putting myself in her shoes right now, and if she keeps pushing you away, and then you get her flowers she might push away even more. Especially if you are going to do it in public. If you really want to, I (emphasis on the I) would rather you do it in private. I am not speaking for all tauruses here but I do not like PDA, I get nervous and uncomfortable. I think you should also stop worrying so much about how long she is taking to really open up to you and just enjoy the process. Its about the journey, not the destination. Right now focus on building a memorable journey with her, instead of just skipping to the committed relationship part, she either doesnt like you, or she likes you but wants to take things REALLY slow.

@warangel what is her chart placements?

Posted by WarAngel1
Here are my placements:

Sun 17??44' Scorpio
Moon 7??29' Leo
Mercury 5??42' R Sagittarius
Venus 7??47' Sagittarius
Mars 25??43' Leo
Jupiter 7??05' Virgo
Saturn 24??14' Virgo
Uranus 21??05' Scorpio
Neptune 19??03' Sagittarius
Pluto 20??15' Libra
Chiron 11??12' R Taurus
Ceres 6??01' R Aries
Pallas 16??31' Aquarius
Juno 27??01' Cancer
Vesta 8??38' R Taurus
Node 5??29' R Virgo
Lilith 14??00' R Virgo
Fortune 6??22' Libra
AS 16??38' Capricorn
MC 5??06' Scorpio

The funny symbols are retrograde symbols from what I can tell.

Funny symbols? The capital R? Lol

I agree with hot beefy... Never gone wrong giving my Taurus guy food... Especially chocolate/candy.

And second whoever said not in public.

Posted by WarAngel1

Posted by Hotbeefy
Taurus = food.

Give some homemade chocolate for her. Something creative.

I bring sweet treats from all over the city for both her, her family, and those she works with because the whole place IS family! 🙂

I have not brought anything homemade for her yet, good idea though! I LOVE chocolate!

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Hmmmmm ugh I dont know, I wish I can be more help, really. But I am only 20 years old. I'm a kid, and I dont like PDA and I would be flustered if someone gave my flowers on VDAY who wasn't my bf. Maybe arrange a get together with some other people as well as inviting her, flirt with her a little, smile and look into her eyes... Its just so hard to tell because I dont know if she really likes you or not, so you dont want to creep her out or make her feel uncomfortable ya know. Honestly, do whatever your HEART REALLY wants, if you think its time to prove to her your feelings, then get her flowers, and if its chocolates, make sure its very expensive top of the line, famous chocolates. And yes, a card sounds VERY NICE. Tell her something very personal, like write a little side note expressing your feelings for her, telling her how beautiful she is (with detail), and how special she is a person. Tauruses LOVE a genuine person, and if she doesnt have the same feelings for you back by now, with a sincere handwritten card, she might now!!

If she clings to her group, she is either uninterested in having privacy with you, she likes the mystery, or she wants you to chase her...

Warangel- can we be friends? :-)

Hope everything works out warangel1, if you need any more help with her, maybe I can help

🙂

@Warangel1 Lol, all three! Wow, sounds likes this Taurus lady is making you work extra hard for the prize. Good luck

My moms Taurus cousin was married to a Scorpio. He was killed years ago(wrong place at the wrong time, unfortunately), and she still has not found anyone. I believe he was 41 when he was killed, and they had been together since she was 15 and he was like 16-17.

My mom talks to her constantly, and just yesterday my mom was telling her that the guys now are just nowhere near to filling his(scorpio) shoes, and the Taurus agreed. She says she's having a hard time meeting anyone even close to comparing to him, and it's been about 7-8yrs since he's passed.

Also, my sisters ex was a Scorpio, and two of my cousins are dating Scorpio guys. Idk, but I always felt Scorps were NOT the providing type of guys, however, the Taurus Scorpio husband was like the ideal provider. They were a very round-the-way type of couple, from what I remember, yet she never had to work a day in her life, AND he left her with atleast a million, if not more. None of that seems to mean anything though, since she still misses him and can't seem to really find anyone that comes close to what they had.

With the male Scorpios I've met, it's as if there is an instant attraction but it never quite develops into anything more than that.

Posted by WarAngel1
I guess I'm in the 'hot and cold' boat right now with a Taurus woman. When it's good, I feel it's great. When it's bad, I don't know which way to move with her. I've shown her lots of attention early on and I see that she is into me but tries to hide it.

She's a workaholic because she is running the family business but sometimes I feel she is hiding behind that excuse. When I cornered her, she got upset with me and reminded me that she likes to take things slow so I've responded in kind and let off the gas.

She says she feels bad that she can't give me the attention I want or deserve right now. When I went cold myself afterwards from being passionately warm, it's like her attitude changed for a few days towards me. She could feel that she almost put out the fire and made sure I wasn't going to walk away right then and there.

I know she is testing me and my loyalty on some level but I don't think a mature Taurus woman would treat someone who likes her very much like that unless there's something else going on.

Thoughts?

Hey warangel, sounds like there could be interest but she's not 100% sure about you yet. Maybe she's scoping you out, seeing what you're really all about. I pretty much think everyone else hit the nail on the head with their suggestions. Just to reinforce what other have said, don't push a Taurus. Stay flirty, let her know how you feel, but never apply pressure. Like mysteriousTaurus pointed out, PDA's not really our thing, but I have to stress it's especially a bad idea if a Taurus lady is unsure about you...so, charm her but don't make a big show of it. And at the same time, don't be too subtle either. Sometimes we convince ourselves people are just being nice. For all you know, she might think you have a fleeting crush, so stay patient. Lots of luck to you, hope Valentine's day brings you clarity 🙂

Is it possible she's talking to another guy also? This would be someone shed like more than you but doesn't mean shes not into you, she's just into him more and is keeping you around in case things fall through..
See when we have our heart set on something we fight until its clear to us that that person isn't interested. This would be the only mind game wed ever play on someone, but we don't mean it. So don't get offended.

I recommend taking her to the movies if you can't cook for her at home...ask her out for v day and if she finds an excuse then thats her nice way saying she's not interested.

We are so hard to read but we are most definitely straight up so if you ask you will get an honest answer. Like I said in my first answer, there's something about you that's lacking what she wants or needs in life. For example I was really feeling this guy until we talked and I found out he wasn't good with kids and got scared holding and talking to them and I was turned off to the point that when he texts I text back one or two words now lol.

Also, share some Scorpio knowledge.... I'm also seeing a Scorpio male and idk if he's into me...

He's gone back to ignoring me again (were sex buddies) but I know he's into me, well at least used to be into me...we used to text everyday about anything and everything and now I'm lucky if he texts me once a week. Now he only texts me when he want sex and when he comes over he doesn't cuddle me like he used to, last time he came over he said "cuddle me, I know you want too" and he's gone arrogant since I told him I have feelings for him. This is the third time he's given me the cold shoulder and I hate it. I've already confessed my feelings to him twice and want to know if I'm being strung along.

I know he's possessive of me and stalks my Facebook and does all that weird Scorpio stuff to me...

im patient but I want to know if this is something worth waiting for?

@warangel, the romantic inclinations towards you are definitely there. Having said that, I know that when I'm not going for it 100% I appear a little aloof, and create distance till I figure out exactly what I want. She's just not totally committed to the idea of you yet... but the operative word is "yet". She may still come around. You need to balance that Scorpio determination with Taurean patience, throw in some private moments where you turn up the charm and either she'll be smitten or she'll make up her mind you're not the one.

And yes, would love some Scorpio insight on deelias question 🙂

The chocolate thing is a nice idea. I'm a Scorp and I made a bar of chocolate for a Taurus male and used candy to spell his name on top of the bar. Luckily it was only four letters long! I sent him a text to ask if he liked chocolate and he said yes and asked why so I sent him a photo of the bar. I couldn't give or post as too much distance. He seemed to really like it and said he was humbled and flattered. It was a cute thing to do rather than weird. I was going to give it to him when I saw him next but he was a dick so I ate it!

Posted by deelia
Is it possible she's talking to another guy also? This would be someone shed like more than you but doesn't mean shes not into you, she's just into him more and is keeping you around in case things fall through..
See when we have our heart set on something we fight until its clear to us that that person isn't interested. This would be the only mind game wed ever play on someone, but we don't mean it. So don't get offended.

I recommend taking her to the movies if you can't cook for her at home...ask her out for v day and if she finds an excuse then thats her nice way saying she's not interested.

We are so hard to read but we are most definitely straight up so if you ask you will get an honest answer. Like I said in my first answer, there's something about you that's lacking what she wants or needs in life. For example I was really feeling this guy until we talked and I found out he wasn't good with kids and got scared holding and talking to them and I was turned off to the point that when he texts I text back one or two words now lol.

This is a good point.

If you think she's worth the wait then wait. Do you have anything else to do or anywhere else to be?

@WarAngel, curiout to know how things worked out for Valentine's day?

I have a feeling shes not yet completely comfortable to open up with you. Or her Gemini moon must be clashing with her Taurus sign, the socialite nature of Gemini clashing the laid back nature of Taurus, can give her stress to her way of communication. (this is from my experience) I don't know, sometimes Taurus with Geminis in their chart placements often live in their heads, and sometimes forget to give attention to what other people feels, she probably does not know you feel that way and you should probably say it to her straight. (This may sound stupid this is only by experience you may ignore this reply 🙂 lol )