secrets...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by phEnyxBull876 on Saturday, November 22, 2014 and has 8 replies.

How Secrets Affect Your Emotional Well-Being

Discover that feeling annoyed or angry when someone keeps secrets is natural. It can stem from feeling mistrusted or excluded, which may impact your sense of security and trust in relationships. Understanding these feelings can help you communicate better and build healthier connections.

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@phEnyxBull876
12 YearsTaurus

How does knowing someone keeps something from you make you feel?

Makes me annoyed and angry and like there's some reason I can't be trusted or I'm judgmental, which is so not the case.

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11 Years10,000+ Posts

The people I heard that are secretive. Hm everyone hides something. Guess it depends on what it actually is..

Hm like your with your lover for long time.. but somewhere you manage to ignore cheating factor signs..and next thing you know the other woman is pregnant with your mans baby.. haha fuck that is something I wouldn't tolerate of course.

But if its like oh i went to jail for drug related things but got out and will never do that shit again. Then I may forgive it and move on...

IT just depends..I am a hot tempered person. So I have to prepare myself mentally and physically. And keep myself composed. Lol

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11 Years10,000+ Posts

Your past life is particularly important to me.

Your present life is extremely important to me.

Your past and present life will determine your future with someone.

Can you forgive and forget once you know the secrets..

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@Theatrum
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I don't really care. I let them tell me whatever they want but I never ask for info.

Prefer keeping some things unsaid myself. I don't see it as keeping secrets.

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@phEnyxBull876
12 YearsTaurus

Posted by RainDancer88
I want to know every secret. I will protect every secret. I cannot promise I will be forthcoming with baring mine, but I'd try.

If it's my lover, I want it all. I want his heart, his needs, his failures, and his darkness.

I need to be his diary if I am to love him. I'll never force him to tell me, but i'll always try to dig deeper.

Blame it on scorpio venus. Blame it on what you will.

I have Gemini Venus, and I completely agree with you. It irks me to no end to be judged by past people's (bad) actions. Just because you attracted crazies in the past doesn't mean that is me! And I am not one to use knowledge against people for no reason. I just want to be a part of you...like a literal part of you. The diary example is perfect.

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@Geminlove
12 Years

Posted by phEnyxBull876

Posted by RainDancer88
I want to know every secret. I will protect every secret. I cannot promise I will be forthcoming with baring mine, but I'd try.

If it's my lover, I want it all. I want his heart, his needs, his failures, and his darkness.

I need to be his diary if I am to love him. I'll never force him to tell me, but i'll always try to dig deeper.

Blame it on scorpio venus. Blame it on what you will.

I have Gemini Venus, and I completely agree with you. It irks me to no end to be judged by past people's (bad) actions. Just because you attracted crazies in the past doesn't mean that is me! And I am not one to use knowledge against people for no reason. I just want to be a part of you...like a literal part of you. The diary example is perfect.

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You both have libra moons though...? That could be it, i wonder how a bull/bullette feel if their bf/gf/SO's "diary" was another person and not them?

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@phEnyxBull876
12 YearsTaurus

That's easy, Geminlove! Hate it. :p

And you're so right, it could definitely be the Libra moon. My strange, at times obsessive, need for balance and fairness gets the better of me more often than I like.

But it's definitely the taurus sun/Gemini Venus combo that just doesn't like to share. 😉

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11 Years

Posted by phEnyxBull876
How does knowing someone keeps something from you make you feel?

Makes me annoyed and angry and like there's some reason I can't be trusted or I'm judgmental, which is so not the case.

I feel the same in such a situation, especially if that person has gone through the effort to make you comfortable, trusting, and is SO KEEN to hear all your private stories.....then just throws up this wall of fear when you try to get them to open up in return.