should i be concerned?

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missy75147514
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15 Years

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ok i just got into a huge fight with my taurus guy the other day...its a long distance relationship but we do talk 3 times a day...i got mad at him bc his female best friend slept over "him and his parents" house for the weekend without telling me...he told me that nothing happened and that shes a good friend of the family...the thing that really got me upset was how he was sneaky about it...anyway when we argued he was very moody and telling me how he can do whatever he wants when he wants...he really hurt me that i took him off facebook and instant messenger. i just want to know does a taurus man look back?? will he miss me and contact me again?? bc we used to talk 3 times a day and i havent heard from him in 2 days...how long does it take for their anger to go away cause right now hes in a bad mood? im a libra, hes a taurus.
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haha, i see this combo a lot. must be the shared venus thing.

my taurus guy got involved with a libra chick too but there are so many miscommunications and misunderstandings and he now thinks she's crazy.

his response to u sounds very typical. to try and control a bull in any way, shape, or form is a major faux pas. they will not budge or respond well at all! look, if he really likes u he will come back around on his time but don't push him. u must wait it out. deleting him from ur social networking was not a good idea as it made u appear unstable. he will assume ur going to fly off the handle with impulsive actions like that in the future. u have a right to be upset if he was sneaky about it but it's all in ur approach. they're pretty calm, level-headed creatures and are often understanding of ur feelings. i've been upset with my taurus once and it didn't turn into a mess because i stayed calm and collected. i didn't go into attack mode. they don't usually mean to hurt. just be cool & pick ur battles.
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Ahh classic libra flightiness. I know it's hard, but you've gotta ground yourself when you approach problems. Once you do, that fairness and conscious reasoning will help you out in situations like this.

The girl is a family friend, it's not like they could've done anything at his parent's house, no less. Furthermore, if he was being sneaky about it, could it be because you've been displaying some signs of jealousy? Stability is something libras crave at the end of the day. You essentially put him on the spot and asked him to pick between siding with you and a best friend. Bad move.

They're a stubborn bunch, might want to apologize to him first for overreacting.