Should I write him off?

Hey all...A little update:

Things were going well or so I thought...he went on a trip for work and I havent heard from him in 5 days? He messaged me when he got there and called me before he got on the plane. I wrote him back and nothing! He hasent even checked his facebook ( wich is where we chat when hes away...Whats confusing is that he usually keeps in touch when hes away! Also theres some chick who seems to be quite in love with him on facebook...were not official but im wondering where all this is going! I really like him but the lack of consistancy is driving me a little bonkers! And this dissapearing act has made me take a huge step back...any insight?

well, hm. ultimately, ur just gonna have to play the waiting game and really try not to jump to conclusions. it will only lead to trouble when he finally gets back to u. u will have been stewing on ur insecurities and paranoia and it is likely to boil over into ur conversation.

i think u should take a step back to remain objective and keep perspective. it's true, u guys aren't an official item so he is not obliged to tell u anything really. if it's just dating, or FWB, he has the right to see whoever he wants... as do u. he doesn't have to divulge the details either. i'm sure the feelings of jealousy are rising within u which is why i urge u to take that step back. u are allowed to feel it but, at this point, u don't have the right to use it against him or call him out.

i'm sure ur head is spinning this web of scenarios right now. my taurus man is the same in the fact that he contacts me almost every day. we haven't gone for more than 2 days without talking. however, when those times occurred it was because he was really busy with work (and maybe because he was spending time with another female too). nah, it didn't bother me. he had that right. hell, i was spending time in the company of other men myself.

in my experience, i'd be wary of inconsistency on his behalf. taurus are usually very consistent and rather habitual creatures. i still emphasize not to jump to conclusions or assume anything cuz u don't really know.

Understood. he got back and txted me last night...then I told him i was confused hadent heard from him and that he kinda dissapeard. his responce was that he did disapear and he thought he had told me. (smart ass) then I told him that in the 2 years weve been talking hes never done that before! then I told him that paired with the return of his little friend on facebook could only lead to me drawing my own conclusions. then he just said that even though i scare him, my charachter makes him laugh and told me he might be working out today ( something we do together) so i told him he could always call me and that at least i dont send crying home to mommy like the rest of them. I think im going to pull WAY back on this one...let him keep the contact ( if he wants to). Its 3 months and I feel like its moving backwards sometimes! hes admitted to pulling back when its time to get close out of fear...but since hes not the best communicator, its confusing as ish!

WOW its amazing how we can create thies webs of senarios when we dont rember to relax! hes back now and its like nothing ever happened...wanted to see me but i was buissy and if I dont hear from him today im likely to tomorrow. I know there are other girls and there is nothing I can do about it so why sit around freaking myself out? I was all wound up and now im back to still waters lol. Im deffinatly taking a page from Ninjas book on this one. Actually Ive subscribed to the "Ninja's taurus experiance daily review" lmao Keep em comming girl!