Taurus and Romantic gestures.....

is that just something I should consider never happening?

my love language is the acts of service. I'm not as affectionate as some people but I show my love by doing things, taking care of things, and thoughtful gestures like love notes and thoughtful - needed - gifts.

but when shall I receive?

How much should I express my love of flowers until he finally buys me my first bundle of flowers?

When will he take me to a nice dinner so I can wear one of my many beautiful dresses that I've said over and over I have nowhere to where them? will he ever surprise me?

yes he tells me all the time how amazing I am. how he can't tell me he loves me enough. and yes its very reassuring in our relationship? yes I'm happy. and I adore him..... but will he ever just be thoughtful in action?

Classic case of two people who have different "love languages" trying to please each other with their own love language.

Simple: tell him what you like. Be direct Sag ?

That's really weird because Taurus is all about actions.. but I would say more practical.. but who better than Taurus to take you out to eat? ??‍♀️ We love food, so something is not adding up. Is he a homebody? Introvert? Maybe an aspect in the chart is hindering this? I don't express often unless I'm truly in love so if he's doing this he's head over heels and comfortable with you.. hence maybe stopping the "action" part. But I'd tell him or talk to him and say you need these things too.. shoot I wanna wear my damn dress that's been in my closet too and I ain't got nobody lol.

Quick question: what's his venus?

Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Posted by jane84
Classic case of two people who have different "love languages" trying to please each other with their own love language.

Simple: tell him what you like. Be direct Sag ?

how do I tell him I want him to be more thoughtful?.... its going to Segway into I want you to give me "things" and that isn't necessarily what I'm looking for but that how that conversation will end up through explaination.

like he says things,

like ill say "I have so many dresses but never anywhere nice to wear them" and he will respond "well ill have to take you to a nice dinner then" - yes please,..... waiting forever.

like he knows I love candles and he says "I really wanted to go and get you those candles you like" - never did tho.

Never never puts forth the effort. he just teases me with the thought that something thoughtful might be coming and it never does.

its that a normal bull thing?

Posted by TaurusInShania
That's really weird because Taurus is all about actions.. but I would say more practical.. but who better than Taurus to take you out to eat? ??‍♀️ We love food, so something is not adding up. Is he a homebody? Introvert? Maybe an aspect in the chart is hindering this? I don't express often unless I'm truly in love so if he's doing this he's head over heels and comfortable with you.. hence maybe stopping the "action" part. But I'd tell him or talk to him and say you need these things too.. shoot I wanna wear my damn dress that's been in my closet too and I ain't got nobody lol.

you come out to dinner with me girl, we can wear our dress together 😉

we go to eat but it predictable places, nothing overly dressy or fancy. its like any place he can request a chicken sandwich (his favorite)

are you thinking I should cut back on doing things for him?

Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by TaurusInShania
That's really weird because Taurus is all about actions.. but I would say more practical.. but who better than Taurus to take you out to eat? ??‍♀️ We love food, so something is not adding up. Is he a homebody? Introvert? Maybe an aspect in the chart is hindering this? I don't express often unless I'm truly in love so if he's doing this he's head over heels and comfortable with you.. hence maybe stopping the "action" part. But I'd tell him or talk to him and say you need these things too.. shoot I wanna wear my damn dress that's been in my closet too and I ain't got nobody lol.

you come out to dinner with me girl, we can wear our dress together 😉

we go to eat but it predictable places, nothing overly dressy or fancy. its like any place he can request a chicken sandwich (his favorite)

are you thinking I should cut back on doing things for him?

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Nah don't cut back... we like "routine" honestly he's probably not aware it's an issue... take the iniciative and you surprise him.. say you've made reservations as so and so on this date.. real fancy cause you wanted to try something new... and while you there he may say he likes it or you say you like it and we should try more spontaneous things like this Hun... I would love to do some new things with you like wine tasting and such what you think? Maybe you need to just lead some for him to "get it"

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Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

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That's my placements lol... and we are boring BUT... we love spontaneous adventures! We just don't know how to do it! If someone does it for me? I'm game. Just a thought.

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Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by TaurusInShania
That's really weird because Taurus is all about actions.. but I would say more practical.. but who better than Taurus to take you out to eat? ??‍♀️ We love food, so something is not adding up. Is he a homebody? Introvert? Maybe an aspect in the chart is hindering this? I don't express often unless I'm truly in love so if he's doing this he's head over heels and comfortable with you.. hence maybe stopping the "action" part. But I'd tell him or talk to him and say you need these things too.. shoot I wanna wear my damn dress that's been in my closet too and I ain't got nobody lol.

you come out to dinner with me girl, we can wear our dress together 😉

we go to eat but it predictable places, nothing overly dressy or fancy. its like any place he can request a chicken sandwich (his favorite)

are you thinking I should cut back on doing things for him?

Nah don't cut back... we like "routine" honestly he's probably not aware it's an issue... take the iniciative and you surprise him.. say you've made reservations as so and so on this date.. real fancy cause you wanted to try something new... and while you there he may say he likes it or you say you like it and we should try more spontaneous things like this Hun... I would love to do some new things with you like wine tasting and such what you think? Maybe you need to just lead some for him to "get it"

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Damn she got to it before I could... lol

Basically what I was going to say. You have to initiate it. I did the majority of the time with my ex. Imagine that? A Libra having to lead?? Lol

But it was true. Anything new we did was because of me. But he was normally open to it IF he was comfortable with it. If it was a place he wasn't then it was difficult to get him there. But eventually I could. You'll have to show him the pics of the place, reviews...etc. ?

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Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

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How many Taurus Sun/Taurus Moons are there in this world... they are like everywhere!!? Lol

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by TaurusInShania
That's really weird because Taurus is all about actions.. but I would say more practical.. but who better than Taurus to take you out to eat? ??‍♀️ We love food, so something is not adding up. Is he a homebody? Introvert? Maybe an aspect in the chart is hindering this? I don't express often unless I'm truly in love so if he's doing this he's head over heels and comfortable with you.. hence maybe stopping the "action" part. But I'd tell him or talk to him and say you need these things too.. shoot I wanna wear my damn dress that's been in my closet too and I ain't got nobody lol.

you come out to dinner with me girl, we can wear our dress together 😉

we go to eat but it predictable places, nothing overly dressy or fancy. its like any place he can request a chicken sandwich (his favorite)

are you thinking I should cut back on doing things for him?

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Don't "cut back." Don't try to manipulate the situation. Just show him and tell him.

Posted by sagittariusxo
is that just something I should consider never happening?

my love language is the acts of service. I'm not as affectionate as some people but I show my love by doing things, taking care of things, and thoughtful gestures like love notes and thoughtful - needed - gifts.

but when shall I receive?

How much should I express my love of flowers until he finally buys me my first bundle of flowers?

When will he take me to a nice dinner so I can wear one of my many beautiful dresses that I've said over and over I have nowhere to where them? will he ever surprise me?

yes he tells me all the time how amazing I am. how he can't tell me he loves me enough. and yes its very reassuring in our relationship? yes I'm happy. and I adore him..... but will he ever just be thoughtful in action?

As a Taurus dude myself .. We'll don't expect much but I guarantee you 200% if you're loyal we will be there no matter what, minus the flowers

I agree with jane. Say something along the likes of "you would make me so happy if...x"

X = went to a fancy restaurant now and again

= surprised me with flowers

Etc

Then it is not about the things. It is about the act of making you happy. And nearly all men strive to make their partner happy.

Posted by jane84

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

How many Taurus Sun/Taurus Moons are there in this world... they are like everywhere!!? Lol

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😛

Posted by SugarandSpunk

Posted by jane84

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

How many Taurus Sun/Taurus Moons are there in this world... they are like everywhere!!? Lol

😛

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its like Double the love / Double the confusion

Posted by jeane
I agree with jane. Say something along the likes of "you would make me so happy if...x"

X = went to a fancy restaurant now and again

= surprised me with flowers

Etc

Then it is not about the things. It is about the act of making you happy. And nearly all men strive to make their partner happy.

its so not about things. I have all the "things" that I need, I none materialistic. its the thought.

im afraid though because my Taurus can be so sensitive to things. I just don't wont him to be like "well you made me feel like im a bad boyfriend" or "you make me feel like I don't make you happy" and his tone can change to one I do not like. direct, stern or dismissive to the conversation.

I guess I will never know.

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Posted by sagittariusxo
is that just something I should consider never happening?

my love language is the acts of service. I'm not as affectionate as some people but I show my love by doing things, taking care of things, and thoughtful gestures like love notes and thoughtful - needed - gifts.

but when shall I receive?

How much should I express my love of flowers until he finally buys me my first bundle of flowers?

When will he take me to a nice dinner so I can wear one of my many beautiful dresses that I've said over and over I have nowhere to where them? will he ever surprise me?

yes he tells me all the time how amazing I am. how he can't tell me he loves me enough. and yes its very reassuring in our relationship? yes I'm happy. and I adore him..... but will he ever just be thoughtful in action?

As a Taurus dude myself .. We'll don't expect much but I guarantee you 200% if you're loyal we will be there no matter what, minus the flowers

Feed us, fuck us and let us sleep is the true Taurus motto and they'll be like putty in your hands. They're simple creatures.

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i mean i know how to make my Taurus happy.

he tells me all the time he loves me and that he is happy. says he thinks about me all the time, wants me all the time and misses me all the time.

he does protect me and take care of me, and makes sure im safe because im a wild-free spirit wonderer. he loves to feed me and love to sweet talk me but what about guestures. how do i know he really knows me, does he listen to me? does he know what i really love besides him? like flowers?

i buy flowers all the time and place them all over my house. they just make me happy, my heartful and brings calmness to my life i feel but im always buying them for myself. $ 7.99 bundle of flowers and he has never just brought me some to replace my old. its kind disappointing in a way. i want to be thankful for him and something he does for me other then the same things we do for eachother.

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Posted by jeane
I agree with jane. Say something along the likes of "you would make me so happy if...x"

X = went to a fancy restaurant now and again

= surprised me with flowers

Etc

Then it is not about the things. It is about the act of making you happy. And nearly all men strive to make their partner happy.

its so not about things. I have all the "things" that I need, I none materialistic. its the thought.

im afraid though because my Taurus can be so sensitive to things. I just don't wont him to be like "well you made me feel like im a bad boyfriend" or "you make me feel like I don't make you happy" and his tone can change to one I do not like. direct, stern or dismissive to the conversation.

I guess I will never know.

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Im afraid the communication bridge is one you have to cross sooner or later. A relationship can't last if you are walking on egg shells. It may be that your relationship hasn't evolved to that stage yet where you can both be brutally honest with each other because you both know it won't lead to a break up.

My partner can be sensitive (thank you cancer mars) and I am not always as frank as I can be but I do communicate my needs, especially if that need leaves me feeling unloved. You have to talk to one another otherwise all you are left with is resentment and misunderstandings.

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Posted by Sodapop

Posted by AntiSocial

Posted by sagittariusxo
is that just something I should consider never happening?

my love language is the acts of service. I'm not as affectionate as some people but I show my love by doing things, taking care of things, and thoughtful gestures like love notes and thoughtful - needed - gifts.

but when shall I receive?

How much should I express my love of flowers until he finally buys me my first bundle of flowers?

When will he take me to a nice dinner so I can wear one of my many beautiful dresses that I've said over and over I have nowhere to where them? will he ever surprise me?

yes he tells me all the time how amazing I am. how he can't tell me he loves me enough. and yes its very reassuring in our relationship? yes I'm happy. and I adore him..... but will he ever just be thoughtful in action?

As a Taurus dude myself .. We'll don't expect much but I guarantee you 200% if you're loyal we will be there no matter what, minus the flowers

Feed us, fuck us and let us sleep is the true Taurus motto and they'll be like putty in your hands. They're simple creatures.

i mean i know how to make my Taurus happy.

he tells me all the time he loves me and that he is happy. says he thinks about me all the time, wants me all the time and misses me all the time.

he does protect me and take care of me, and makes sure im safe because im a wild-free spirit wonderer. he loves to feed me and love to sweet talk me but what about guestures. how do i know he really knows me, does he listen to me? does he know what i really love besides him? like flowers?

i buy flowers all the time and place them all over my house. they just make me happy, my heartful and brings calmness to my life i feel but im always buying them for myself. $ 7.99 bundle of flowers and he has never just brought me some to replace my old. its kind disappointing in a way. i want to be thankful for him and something he does for me other then the same things we do for eachother.

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The other thing is you cannot expect you partner to fulfill all roles all the time. Part of the work comes from you understanding and accepting him for who he is. Does it really matter that he doesn't bring you flowers? Does not all the other wonderful things he does make up for not buying you a bunch of flowers?

You might need to get your priorities straight.

In this instance here is Dan savage...sage Advice.

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Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by jane84
Classic case of two people who have different "love languages" trying to please each other with their own love language.

Simple: tell him what you like. Be direct Sag ?

how do I tell him I want him to be more thoughtful?.... its going to Segway into I want you to give me "things" and that isn't necessarily what I'm looking for but that how that conversation will end up through explaination.

like he says things,

like ill say "I have so many dresses but never anywhere nice to wear them" and he will respond "well ill have to take you to a nice dinner then" - yes please,..... waiting forever.

like he knows I love candles and he says "I really wanted to go and get you those candles you like" - never did tho.

Never never puts forth the effort. he just teases me with the thought that something thoughtful might be coming and it never does.

its that a normal bull thing?

Yup yup yup

All talk

Where is the action

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its so disappointing. 😢

i really don't think my expectations are that high for him in this because i know enough about him to know whats his thing and what isn't

but still

Posted by jeane

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by Sodapop

Posted by AntiSocial

Posted by sagittariusxo
is that just something I should consider never happening?

my love language is the acts of service. I'm not as affectionate as some people but I show my love by doing things, taking care of things, and thoughtful gestures like love notes and thoughtful - needed - gifts.

but when shall I receive?

How much should I express my love of flowers until he finally buys me my first bundle of flowers?

When will he take me to a nice dinner so I can wear one of my many beautiful dresses that I've said over and over I have nowhere to where them? will he ever surprise me?

yes he tells me all the time how amazing I am. how he can't tell me he loves me enough. and yes its very reassuring in our relationship? yes I'm happy. and I adore him..... but will he ever just be thoughtful in action?

As a Taurus dude myself .. We'll don't expect much but I guarantee you 200% if you're loyal we will be there no matter what, minus the flowers

Feed us, fuck us and let us sleep is the true Taurus motto and they'll be like putty in your hands. They're simple creatures.

i mean i know how to make my Taurus happy.

he tells me all the time he loves me and that he is happy. says he thinks about me all the time, wants me all the time and misses me all the time.

he does protect me and take care of me, and makes sure im safe because im a wild-free spirit wonderer. he loves to feed me and love to sweet talk me but what about guestures. how do i know he really knows me, does he listen to me? does he know what i really love besides him? like flowers?

i buy flowers all the time and place them all over my house. they just make me happy, my heartful and brings calmness to my life i feel but im always buying them for myself. $ 7.99 bundle of flowers and he has never just brought me some to replace my old. its kind disappointing in a way. i want to be thankful for him and something he does for me other then the same things we do for eachother.

The other thing is you cannot expect you partner to fulfill all roles all the time. Part of the work comes from you understanding and accepting him for who he is. Does it really matter that he doesn't bring you flowers? Does not all the other wonderful things he does make up for not buying you a bunch of flowers?

You might need to get your priorities straight.

In this instance here is Dan savage...sage Advice.

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I know this, DAN SAVAGE! lol

and I think I made it clear that this wants about "flowers" or "things" its about being thoughtful. flowers where just an example. Im just wondering if I can get him to be more aware of thing about me and my individuality or if its always going to be "I don't want those things therefore I wont do those things"

yes, I love him and all the wonderful things he does never go unnoticed but he treats me how I know he wants to be treated him in return. I know that I match or exceed that expectation for him (most of the time) but its not what i need. I cant help but feel like, SOMETIMES im not getting what I need in return. although im getting enough. So Sometimes, SOMETIMES I just feel I put more efforts then what I get and sometimes, SOMETIMES I really just want to be rewarded.

But Im just venting here I guess. im either trying to figure out how to approach the topic? if im being a brat? im pouting because I know this is where I will have to bend and a little bummed that I have to bend.

its natural to feel this way. its just a process so I can figure out my next move.

settle for it.

or not.

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by jeane

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by Sodapop

Posted by AntiSocial

Posted by sagittariusxo
is that just something I should consider never happening?

my love language is the acts of service. I'm not as affectionate as some people but I show my love by doing things, taking care of things, and thoughtful gestures like love notes and thoughtful - needed - gifts.

but when shall I receive?

How much should I express my love of flowers until he finally buys me my first bundle of flowers?

When will he take me to a nice dinner so I can wear one of my many beautiful dresses that I've said over and over I have nowhere to where them? will he ever surprise me?

yes he tells me all the time how amazing I am. how he can't tell me he loves me enough. and yes its very reassuring in our relationship? yes I'm happy. and I adore him..... but will he ever just be thoughtful in action?

As a Taurus dude myself .. We'll don't expect much but I guarantee you 200% if you're loyal we will be there no matter what, minus the flowers

Feed us, fuck us and let us sleep is the true Taurus motto and they'll be like putty in your hands. They're simple creatures.

i mean i know how to make my Taurus happy.

he tells me all the time he loves me and that he is happy. says he thinks about me all the time, wants me all the time and misses me all the time.

he does protect me and take care of me, and makes sure im safe because im a wild-free spirit wonderer. he loves to feed me and love to sweet talk me but what about guestures. how do i know he really knows me, does he listen to me? does he know what i really love besides him? like flowers?

i buy flowers all the time and place them all over my house. they just make me happy, my heartful and brings calmness to my life i feel but im always buying them for myself. $ 7.99 bundle of flowers and he has never just brought me some to replace my old. its kind disappointing in a way. i want to be thankful for him and something he does for me other then the same things we do for eachother.

The other thing is you cannot expect you partner to fulfill all roles all the time. Part of the work comes from you understanding and accepting him for who he is. Does it really matter that he doesn't bring you flowers? Does not all the other wonderful things he does make up for not buying you a bunch of flowers?

You might need to get your priorities straight.

In this instance here is Dan savage...sage Advice.

I know this, DAN SAVAGE! lol

and I think I made it clear that this wants about "flowers" or "things" its about being thoughtful. flowers where just an example. Im just wondering if I can get him to be more aware of thing about me and my individuality or if its always going to be "I don't want those things therefore I wont do those things"

yes, I love him and all the wonderful things he does never go unnoticed but he treats me how I know he wants to be treated him in return. I know that I match or exceed that expectation for him (most of the time) but its not what i need. I cant help but feel like, SOMETIMES im not getting what I need in return. although im getting enough. So Sometimes, SOMETIMES I just feel I put more efforts then what I get and sometimes, SOMETIMES I really just want to be rewarded.

But Im just venting here I guess. im either trying to figure out how to approach the topic? if im being a brat? im pouting because I know this is where I will have to bend and a little bummed that I have to bend.

its natural to feel this way. its just a process so I can figure out my next move.

settle for it.

or not.

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It sounds like you are unhappy in this relationship and feel taken for granted by someone who is thoughtless and doesn't understand or want to understand you. I suppose it doesn't matter if that is true, it feels true to you. His efforts aren't enough for you.

And you feel you are a much better partner to him than he is to you. You feel like you're getting the bum deal in this transaction.

If you've resorted to point scoring and keeping count then maybe this isn't a good match for you. I would tell you to stop doing it for things to improve but I don't imagine you will.

Is it natural to feel that way? I don't know if that's true. I don't ever feel like I am better than my partner. I thank my lucky stars everyday that I have him. He is without question my better half. We don't keep count, he tells me I am mad to put up with him and I don't ever want to be without him. We each feel undeserving of the other. Our reward is an intimate and closest of relationships with the other person.

If you don't feel that with this guy, maybe you should look for someone who does.

you seriously just went 0 - 100 in speed. its not that serious and you hitting max worst case.

I think I justified my feelings very clearly and this is just an easy way to end the discussion.

don't twist my words, please.

-Cerissa Savage.

Posted by sagittariusxo
you seriously just went 0 - 100 in speed. its not that serious and you hitting max worst case.

I think I justified my feelings very clearly and this is just an easy way to end the discussion.

don't twist my words, please.

-Cerissa Savage.

Where have I twisted your words? Everything I've repeated are things you've said. If you don't like how it sounds then maybe you should look at what you are saying.

By the way, do you realise how many times you come here with a complaint about him? It's fine, you're venting, but ever wonder why you are venting so much?

It makes no difference to me if you stay together or you dump him, what I am trying to do is for to you really look at what you are saying, why you are saying it and what you are feeling.

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Posted by sagittariusxo
you seriously just went 0 - 100 in speed. its not that serious and you hitting max worst case.

I think I justified my feelings very clearly and this is just an easy way to end the discussion.

don't twist my words, please.

-Cerissa Savage.

Where have I twisted your words? Everything I've repeated are things you've said. If you don't like how it sounds then maybe you should look at what you are saying.

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I said sometimes I feel. I even underlined it. yeah I would like him to be more thoughtful. and I was provided advice I need to talk to him about it. but I expressed my understanding, my needs and just my thought process in the post.

I don't want to be told that "maybe this isn't want you want" or that im acting like the person I love "isn't good enough for me" those are not even thoughts to me. there is way more to my relationship this this simple subject. this relationship is still new and everyday im learning about him. some things I loveeeeeee and something I don't love as much.

you should be careful telling someone that the person they love isn't going to work out just because of a couple of thoughts and momentary expressions. its hurtful and discouraging and people shouldn't give up that easy.

-can OUR conversation be over now?=

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Posted by jeane

Posted by sagittariusxo
you seriously just went 0 - 100 in speed. its not that serious and you hitting max worst case.

I think I justified my feelings very clearly and this is just an easy way to end the discussion.

don't twist my words, please.

-Cerissa Savage.

Where have I twisted your words? Everything I've repeated are things you've said. If you don't like how it sounds then maybe you should look at what you are saying.

I said sometimes I feel. I even underlined it. yeah I would like him to be more thoughtful. and I was provided advice I need to talk to him about it. but I expressed my understanding, my needs and just my thought process in the post.

I don't want to be told that "maybe this isn't want you want" or that im acting like the person I love "isn't good enough for me" those are not even thoughts to me. there is way more to my relationship this this simple subject. this relationship is still new and everyday im learning about him. some things I loveeeeeee and something I don't love as much.

you should be careful telling someone that the person they love isn't going to work out just because of a couple of thoughts and momentary expressions. its hurtful and discouraging and people shouldn't give up that easy.

-can OUR conversation be over now?=

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You really are the little princess aren't you?

If you are so precious that a stranger on the internet giving an uninformed opinion is hurtful and discouraging, then stop reading. I cant believe anyone fully grown and with a child could ever be as fragile and delicate as you are coming across. You accuse him of being sensitive (and then not liking his "tone"). Are you able to deal with anything not exactly as you want it?

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Posted by SugarandSpunk

Posted by jane84

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

How many Taurus Sun/Taurus Moons are there in this world... they are like everywhere!!? Lol

😛

its like Double the love / Double the confusion

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Who doesn't like spice and mystery? lol

Posted by jeane

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by jeane

Posted by sagittariusxo
you seriously just went 0 - 100 in speed. its not that serious and you hitting max worst case.

I think I justified my feelings very clearly and this is just an easy way to end the discussion.

don't twist my words, please.

-Cerissa Savage.

Where have I twisted your words? Everything I've repeated are things you've said. If you don't like how it sounds then maybe you should look at what you are saying.

I said sometimes I feel. I even underlined it. yeah I would like him to be more thoughtful. and I was provided advice I need to talk to him about it. but I expressed my understanding, my needs and just my thought process in the post.

I don't want to be told that "maybe this isn't want you want" or that im acting like the person I love "isn't good enough for me" those are not even thoughts to me. there is way more to my relationship this this simple subject. this relationship is still new and everyday im learning about him. some things I loveeeeeee and something I don't love as much.

you should be careful telling someone that the person they love isn't going to work out just because of a couple of thoughts and momentary expressions. its hurtful and discouraging and people shouldn't give up that easy.

-can OUR conversation be over now?=

You really are the little princess aren't you?

If you are so precious that a stranger on the internet giving an uninformed opinion is hurtful and discouraging, then stop reading. I cant believe anyone fully grown and with a child could ever be as fragile and delicate as you are coming across. You accuse him of being sensitive (and then not liking his "tone"). Are you able to deal with anything not exactly as you want it?

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I'm just a Sagittarius actually.

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Yeah what's his placements?

Don't feel bad, my bf isn't romantic either lol

Taurus Sun and Moon

aries Murcury - think

How many Taurus Sun/Taurus Moons are there in this world... they are like everywhere!!? Lol

😛

its like Double the love / Double the confusion

Who doesn't like spice and mystery? lol

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always on my toes for sure. 😉

just learning and growing with him.

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I agree with jane. Say something along the likes of "you would make me so happy if...x"

X = went to a fancy restaurant now and again

= surprised me with flowers

Etc

Then it is not about the things. It is about the act of making you happy. And nearly all men strive to make their partner happy.

its so not about things. I have all the "things" that I need, I none materialistic. its the thought.

im afraid though because my Taurus can be so sensitive to things. I just don't wont him to be like "well you made me feel like im a bad boyfriend" or "you make me feel like I don't make you happy" and his tone can change to one I do not like. direct, stern or dismissive to the conversation.

I guess I will never know.

Did that ever happened? Or was that your assumption?

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we have had some conversations about out difference in an attempt to grow together and he would say " your making me feel like a bad boyfriend" which is never ever my intention because he is not a bad boyfriend he just not like anyone ive ever been with and im just trying to understand and compromise and see where he will compromise as well.

he's learning about me as much as i am about him.

what he thinks of me and had learned and compromised is hard for me to tell because he doesn't tell me a lot like i tell him.