Taurus behaviour or just his own personal issues?

I left my ex who's a Taurus we have two kids together and I finally got up and left him after years of cheating and abuse, he's now gone and moved in with the most recent girl he was cheating on me with and is blaming me for the reason why he's started drinking alcohol and taking drugs, he says his life has just turned upside down since I left and he hates me and wants nothing to do with me and our kids. I leave him alone and don't bother to contact him and let him play happy families with his new girl then he contacts me again just to shout abuse and blame me for why his life is so crappy.. it's draining on me as I just want him to be a father to our children instead of this woman's child who he's only known for a year now.

What my question is, is this a typical Taurus behaviour or is it just mental abuse ? He's started taking drugs and as I said moved in with the girl he cheated on me with and is blaming everyone but himself for his mistakes and choices. Not sure how I can deal with this in an astrological way, I'm a Pisces and I feel like I don't know what to do with him I would like some Taurus' to shed some light on this situation, maybe someone has a similar situation

To your question: It is clearly abusive and weak behavior.It is unhealthy and NOT typical taurus. Instead of taking responsibility and focusing on his mistakes, he just simplifies a complex relationship issue and makes you his scapegoat. Children do that, not adults.

He keeps contacting you and tells you hurtful things. That is clearly abusive and intrusive.

I think you should do 2 things:

- Cut all ties, block him and if that doesnt work get a restraining order. Be hard and firm even if that is not something a friendly pisces can easily do. You need to muster up strength and toughness and maybe even suppress your "soft" nature to a certain extent. .

- Do some serious soulsearching and face some painful truths. No offense but letting somebody treating you bad for years instead of standing for yourself and establish some boundaries indicates that you`ve got serious issues that must be addressed and worked on. Maybe its lack of selfesteem or your parents were emotionally abusive, whatever. A healthy persons establishes boundaries and takes care of herself.

You might need therapy. But you better do it before you enter a new relationship, because you might get the same problems and attract the same kind of men. Please dont see my harsh words as attack but as honest feedback. The truth can be painful.

W A K E T H E F U C K U P . Does being treated like that not make you furious? You deserve be treated well and loved.





Let her inspire you, and embrace the attitude of the girl in the picture without turning into a bossy brat.

http://www.gurl.com/2012/09/06/stand-up-for-yourself/

Posted by Parkourler
To your question: It is clearly abusive and weak behavior.It is unhealthy and NOT typical taurus. Instead of taking responsibility and focusing on his mistakes, he just simplifies a complex relationship issue and makes you his scapegoat. Children do that, not adults.

He keeps contacting you and tells you hurtful things. That is clearly abusive and intrusive.

I think you should do 2 things:

- Cut all ties, block him and if that doesnt work get a restraining order. Be hard and firm even if that is not something a friendly pisces can easily do. You need to muster up strength and toughness and maybe even suppress your "soft" nature to a certain extent. .

- Do some serious soulsearching and face some painful truths. No offense but letting somebody treating you bad for years instead of standing for yourself and establish some boundaries indicates that you`ve got serious issues that must be addressed and worked on. Maybe its lack of selfesteem or your parents were emotionally abusive, whatever. A healthy persons establishes boundaries and takes care of herself.

You might need therapy. But you better do it before you enter a new relationship, because you might get the same problems and attract the same kind of men. Please dont see my harsh words as attack but as honest feedback. The truth can be painful.

W A K E T H E F U C K U P . Does being treated like that not make you furious? You deserve be treated well and loved.

Let her inspire you, and embrace the attitude of the girl in the picture without turning into a bossy brat.

http://www.gurl.com/2012/09/06/stand-up-for-yourself/

Very true. Thank you for your insight I agree. I have a lot of soul searching to do

Naw,not a Taurus thing. Any idiot is totally capable of this behavior. The changes probably did shit on his parade because he didn't initiate it. Oh well. He'll be ok.

The issue isn't astrological.

He's a cheating crackhead who was caught in his own BS and he's guilt-tripping you for it.

You're a Pisces, so you're allowing his manipulative ways to drown you in his "pity, woe is me" phase.

Next time he calls you, tell him, "before the local dealer or the live in cumbucket get their hands on my child support money, I would like it in my hands....NOW!"

Listening to his rants with no monetary compensation is just a waste of time.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
The issue isn't astrological.

He's a cheating crackhead who was caught in his own BS and he's guilt-tripping you for it.

You're a Pisces, so you're allowing his manipulative ways to drown you in his "pity, woe is me" phase.

Next time he calls you, tell him, "before the local dealer or the live in cumbucket get their hands on my child support money, I would like it in my hands....NOW!"

Listening to his rants with no monetary compensation is just a waste of time.

Haha! I give up asking for his money. He would rather provide for his new woman and her child than his own who he created.

I definitely am such a Pisces in this situation and he knows I am very soft which is why he guilt trips me. He's also blaming his friends and family for the reason I left. I wonder how long he will last with this Aquarius but good luck to them! 🙂