My bestie Taurus...what did she mean? lol!

So we are both in our early 30's...she is married with 2 kids and recently got a mortgage. I have travelled extensively, own my own properties back home, lived abroad, discovering myself what I want/need from life but finally settled with someone I love v much. He loves to plant, garden etc as back home his fam have a farm (we are expats living abroad) for his bday I bought him a fig tree.

I posted it on instagram and with "Latest addition to the (plant emoji) family"

She commented "Ur so grown up" (monkey covering mouth and laughing man emoji)

Thoughts? lol! She taking the piss here? Cheeky bull!

Yes she is taking th piss for some reason?

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes she is taking th piss for some reason?

Rude!

Posted by Koniuchaa
This is your best friend? Ask her what she means.

We grew up together, but live in diff countries now, she prides us on the fact no matter if we dont talk for months we come back together and its exactly the same. I may ask when I see her in person although I rather not show that its a big deal. Just intrigued to know if Taurus' around here have an idea of what she's getting at lol.

Don't you guys have humour or know what humour is?

Eg. Your Taurus has a family ie children basically she "planted seeds" which turned out to be "additions to the family" whereas your "addition to the family" is a plant...

I sense she is jealous of you Libra?

Maybe your plant is bigger than hers

😛

If I said that to someone, I would be using that as a joke, plants= growing aka "grown up" lol

Then again, if this is your "best friend" you should know them like the back of your hand. At least my besties (Leos & scorpios) do. I'm not jealous of absolutely anyone so I personally would never say something to disrespect them, unless I'm roasting them aka joking with them.

Posted by SugarandSpunk
If I said that to someone, I would be using that as a joke, plants= growing aka "grown up" lol

Then again, if this is your "best friend" you should know them like the back of your hand. At least my besties (Leos & scorpios) do. I'm not jealous of absolutely anyone so I personally would never say something to disrespect them, unless I'm roasting them aka joking with them.

Same here.

But as we see, the air signs don't seem to understand Taurus humour and there are those who would automatically put it down to "low key jealousy"... Yeah sure.

Taurus usually are afraid to seem rude so that is strange... Unless she is totally kidding because she just thinks you are actually acting grown up. definitely, ask her. Us Taurus' are usually very good with confrontation. If she is rude after that just cut her off.

Posted by Blairjones512
Taurus usually are afraid to seem rude so that is strange... Unless she is totally kidding because she just thinks you are actually acting grown up. definitely, ask her. Us Taurus' are usually very good with confrontation. If she is rude after that just cut her off.

Cant anyone see the humour there?

There's no malice. Crumbs...

If she is your best friend, shouldn't you understand her more than any one of us, based on the nature of your relationship?

Her comment seems to be made in jest. I say similar things to tease my friends, but that's how we frequently interact.

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Posted by Blairjones512
Taurus usually are afraid to seem rude so that is strange... Unless she is totally kidding because she just thinks you are actually acting grown up. definitely, ask her. Us Taurus' are usually very good with confrontation. If she is rude after that just cut her off.

Cant anyone see the humour there?

There's no malice. Crumbs...

Sure. It's funny because the friend has "real" kids and OP only has plants. —

Or, it's funny because OP has never been able to grow anything at all. —

Either way, that's low-key shade. And shade always has a motive. I'd just overlook it if it were me. It's not that big of a deal.

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It's pure sarcasm at its best....

People are losing their lives and you u people can't take a "plant joke".

Advice it any of you creatures on this board want to get a taurus...get a sense of humour. Tauruses can also have black humour and shock jock humour.

Take a chill pill.

Posted by Fleshpot
If she is your best friend, shouldn't you understand her more than any one of us, based on the nature of your relationship?

Her comment seems to be made in jest. I say similar things to tease my friends, but that's how we frequently interact.

Nice. Someone with a sense of humour. But you know Taurus pretty well. What is your sun sign again? Were you a Gemini?

Plants...

"Grown up"

Meant to be funny.

It's as simple as that....

Stop reading too much into it. Lol

There's only assumptions being made because you added in all this info about you two.

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Posted by Blairjones512
Taurus usually are afraid to seem rude so that is strange... Unless she is totally kidding because she just thinks you are actually acting grown up. definitely, ask her. Us Taurus' are usually very good with confrontation. If she is rude after that just cut her off.

Cant anyone see the humour there?

There's no malice. Crumbs...

Sure. It's funny because the friend has "real" kids and OP only has plants. —

Or, it's funny because OP has never been able to grow anything at all. —

Either way, that's low-key shade. And shade always has a motive. I'd just overlook it if it were me. It's not that big of a deal.

It's pure sarcasm at its best....

People are losing their lives and you u people can't take a "plant joke".

Advice it any of you creatures on this board want to get a taurus...get a sense of humour. Tauruses can also have black humour and shock jock humour.

Take a chill pill.

"At its best"

I agree with you that it's ridiculous that we're analyzing this harmless comment, but the OP wanted to know what it means. I'm telling her what it would mean coming from a smart Taurus. *whistles*

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Whatever. You are so smart you sit here analysing over a tree when it's a joke. Anyway, I'm done.

@OP, a plant is just a plant. Not life threatening

Seems like she was joking as bffs do

I don't know, is she one to throw out passive aggressive comments at people or is she just a bubbly, fun person? Only you would know, really.

If she feels so close to you she could just be teasing you like a sister.

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Posted by Fleshpot
If she is your best friend, shouldn't you understand her more than any one of us, based on the nature of your relationship?

Her comment seems to be made in jest. I say similar things to tease my friends, but that's how we frequently interact.

Nice. Someone with a sense of humour. But you know Taurus pretty well. What is your sun sign again? Were you a Gemini?

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I'm a Libra. 🙂