Taurus Guy

I have a question about this Taurus guy I'm kinda seeing...and I am hoping you can steer me in the right direction. I am a Virgo and I just started seeing this Taurus guy. We've known each other for a few years b/c we share the same circle of friends from one of my other circle of friends. I had not seen him for a long long time until a few months ago when we saw each other at a party. I actually didn't recognize him because he grew his hair out and he had shades on...not to mention that he was dancing with all of my friends so I thought he must be dating one of them...anyways once we recognized one another we were good and we chatted a little bit...nothing serious though....I saw him again about a month ago and I was out with a different group of friends and I actually went on a few dates with his one friend. In any case, we started dancing and flirting and we had a great time...I never thought he would be really interested in me but he seemed to be....he asked me for my number we exchanged numbers and I never called him but he called me. We also had a great conversation on the phone...actually all of our conversations have been fun light and interesting...he's also opened up alot to me...we went on a date last weekend and it was very very nice and he also kissed me at the end of the night....and he has sent me e-mails and he calls....but I am a little fearful that he may lose interest. I don't make myself too available...but I also try to show him a good amount of attention...call me paranoid but do you have any pointers or hints on what I can do to keep him interested...besides being myself?

Hope to get some feedback from anyone who has an opinion
Thanks,

Nixx

i say go for it! take a risk but dont give yourself to him too much, but that doesnt mean you have to fake your way into the whole 'seeing eachother' ordeal. Just stay friendly and 'open' and see where it takes ya.

hey Luz,

Thank you for your reply. Greatly appreciate it. I was actually thinking the same thing, I don't want to give too much of myself to him too quickly...because I don't want to scare him away. Its funny cause I was dating this Cancer guy back when I lived in another city and I never felt a strong urgency to call him or see him, but when we did talk and when we did see one another it was good and I really enjoyed his company. I think that is probably one of the reasons why it worked out well too...because I didn't focus all of my attention on him.

I am hoping that I can make an adjustment with how I am dealing with this guy and do the same thing and see where it takes us. I hope that I haven't scared him away

nixx, it seems as though you think of others before you, or it could be the other way around, but when it comes down to it, it should be all about you in your mind at this very moment because you guys havent developed into a serious relationship, if he gets scared off by what you want to deliver then that shows that he aint right for you. If he had the balls to call you up and try to keep contact, then that shows that he must see something in you that he wants to hold onto. But dont be afraid, speak whats on your mind, dont want to make the dating into a chore.

Thanks for your response. WE are not talking anymore. So I guess thats the end of that. Its really too bad cause I thought that we could of had a really good thing going.

Oh well I just have to chalk it up as another experience and move on even though I am a little hurt

I know that feeling.....Sorry about your hurt NixxNixx. If someone walks out of your life, look at it as a gift. A real prize will never walk away. 🙂