Taurus Introvert issues?

I am a taurus female, leo rising, cancer moon, aries venus, gemini mercury, leo mars (23 years old) and lately for the past year I have felt so introverted that I start to just not want to hang out with anyone or talk to anyone besides my family. I think it started with me not being over a guy and it made me be sooo picky with guys where I just CANNOT imagine giving anyone a chance cause I cant even find myself attracted to anyone I know. I literally start looking at all flaws and tell myself why it wouldn't work out in the first 2 minutes. I feel like with friends I just judge them all too and I know it is my guard up but I don't know how it got so bad that I just do not enjoy social settings anymore even when I try my best. Any advice?

@ScorpioTruth you're probably right. It is so inconvenient because I feel very lonely yet no matter how many people I give a chance to they all let me down or I feel like I just can't connect to them

@Arachnophobia YOU ARE INCREDIBLE! I have never had anyone be able to pinpoint this about me and wow you are exactly right. I am shocked. Wow, thank you so much. Made me feel 100000000x better. It means a lot! You are very talented

@Arachnophobia haha that is crazy then! What are your placements?

@Arachnophobia oh wow that is one unique combination. Yes, that is very true. I need to make sure I stay doing that and just hope to have the right relationship and friendships in my life soon. At 23 I feel like I am running out of time a bit but I am sure it will come when I am not looking for it and same for you if you are waiting still

Running out of time for what?

I can relate to what you say. I have an Aqua moon and have always kept people at arm's length. I do have to force myself to go outside the established social circle of work in order to meet people. But honestly I do it because I feel it's the socially acceptable thing, not necessarily what I WANT to do...

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I am a taurus female, leo rising, cancer moon, aries venus, gemini mercury, leo mars (23 years old) and lately for the past year I have felt so introverted that I start to just not want to hang out with anyone or talk to anyone besides my family. I think it started with me not being over a guy and it made me be sooo picky with guys where I just CANNOT imagine giving anyone a chance cause I cant even find myself attracted to anyone I know. I literally start looking at all flaws and tell myself why it wouldn't work out in the first 2 minutes. I feel like with friends I just judge them all too and I know it is my guard up but I don't know how it got so bad that I just do not enjoy social settings anymore even when I try my best. Any advice?