Taurus man and Pisces woman

Taurus guy I'm talking too tells me he doesn't want a relationship when we first began talking and seeing each other. Then as he is talking too his friends he began to call me his girl...saying things like I'm at my girls house or I'm with my girl. He will ignore their calls when we are together. I've met his mom too. We talk and text daily...he stays out of state BTW. When I text him and ask him are we together or still single he NEVER responds. He has called me his wifey on more than one occasion. We never discussed us being exclusive but he knows I want to. Why won't he give me an answer— I'm confused. I know he likes me. He has cried to me about some personal issues and tells me personal stuff. What is doing/thinking? We have known each other since we were 8. He's watched me since high school. I know he was with someone for awhile they've been broken up for almost a year. Is he holding back because of that?

Why not just tell him you're sick of him not replying, you want an answer, and if he isn't going to give one you are done.

Be straightforward (even more so)!

Time to discuss being exclusive if that's what you are wanting.

And talk to him in person about it. No text message.

@ mizzez.

Bull are notrious for playing mind games and keeping a woman guessing, he'll never respond, he'll never tell you, and if he ever does, it will always be luke warm answers, like I said before, he'll never tell you, just enough to keep you there, for now, until, you again, feel unsure, insecure and just plain confused, you're a puppet and he's holding the strings. I've been through it w/a bull, and he will always win and beat you w/exp.

I've asked him was he seeing other people he told me no and that he talks to me more than his mother. I've told him how I felt I was assuming by him calling me his girl/wifey that was his way of telling me we we're together but when i text him he never says yay or nay. But I will just ask him flat out. He so damn moody i thought us Pisces were known for that but i guess Taureans have that trait as well.

Try my suggestion and don't jump to conclusions just because Mae has an obvious sour opinion.

I've been with a bull happily for 4 years and it even started out as a FWB.

I'm a Pisces moon, BTW.

Maybe a bull will chime in and give you there point of view, so you also have the Taurus side of things 🙂

@Eris I hope so_??_ but you have been helpful

i agree that being direct is the key. he's obviously got a reason why he's not answering the question. who knows what it is. but your feelings are valid and if the uncertainty of the relationship status is bothering you that much, you deserve an answer. yes or no. easy. gf or not. easy. and if he can't do that for you he's not ready to be with you.
you could be right on emotional hang up on the ex. whether he is in love with her or just loved her, it may bother him to "rush" into another relationship. that's to say our perception of time is our own and can be confusing to other signs. and that's totally just a hypothetical. not to say that has anything to do with it but i have had issues with entering into a new relationship when i was not truly able to give someone else my whole heart yet.

Posted by mizzez
@Eris I hope so_??_ but you have been helpful

Glad I could help 🙂

@eris, Taurus men love to keep a wmen guessing, his answers are always going to be luke warm, just enough to keep you, for now til the next episode. Ijs I could be wrong, but taurus men are really selfish, at least to me. Although others suggestions, don't kill to try, but don't be surprise if you end up hurt. He likes you, but there are with conditions.

You're clue, he NEVER answers & he's not going to. He will ask you 100 before u get an answer & you still won't answer it, to your liking., ask TLS.

This sounds an awful lot like my situation, except I'm a Pisces Male with a Taurus Female. Something about their stubbornness keeps us fish hanging on the hook, they are an addiction. From experience, we require that relationship validation, the answer to our question, but it doesn't come readily because Taurus take a looonng time to make up their mind. It's the old tortoise and the hare analogy because we fish just dive in head first (hence why we tend to get hurt more than most I feel). I'm really struggling with pacing in my relationship because, like you, I want to be a couple, but I know in my mind she's not ready yet. So I'm giving her space, and hoping she doesn't think I've lost interest in her, because I care so much about her that it's hurting me to not talk to her.

Posted by KittyKnitter
actually he could have a number of reasons why he is not talking about both of you being in a relationship and they may have to do with him, not with you. maybe he stresses out thinking about the demands and responsibilities of a relationship if he has a lot going on, maybe he is thinking about expectations and changes he might have to make if he commits to one. maybe it's insecurity or fear. my guy was all over the place. a lot of it was fear. don't let someone else's negative opinion influence your decision. if you feel it's time to talk then talk but you cannot push a taurus. he will be indirect in the way he approaches the subject of relationship and you have seen that. tauruses like independence. and sometimes the closer they get to the one they care about the most, the more difficult it is for them to be objective. a heart to heart sounds like a good idea. just be realistic in your expectations

this really resonates with me at the moment, kitty. did he come good eventually? how long did it take? thanks. 🙂

Posted by mae6671
@ mizzez.

Bull are notrious for playing mind games and keeping a woman guessing, he'll never respond, he'll never tell you, and if he ever does, it will always be luke warm answers, like I said before, he'll never tell you, just enough to keep you there, for now, until, you again, feel unsure, insecure and just plain confused, you're a puppet and he's holding the strings. I've been through it w/a bull, and he will always win and beat you w/exp.

Painting with a broad brush are we? As a Bull if I don't like someone, I tell them flat out! Same with if I like them, relationships are all about reciprocity, everything else is just noise.

Posted by mizzez
I've asked him was he seeing other people he told me no and that he talks to me more than his mother. I've told him how I felt I was assuming by him calling me his girl/wifey that was his way of telling me we we're together but when i text him he never says yay or nay. But I will just ask him flat out. He so damn moody i thought us Pisces were known for that but i guess Taureans have that trait as well.

LOL @ Texting!

There's problem #1!

Be direct, look into his eyes and be sincere about it. Face Time or Skype doesn't count, get your ass over to wherever he is and go balls out. If it's not possible or you lack the courage to do it, then you aren't meant to be and can go find another joker to text with.

I must depart now, I'm experiencing a fit of laughter over here at the thought of a texting relationship. haha.

Just go with the flow.. I do get possessive over you though and don't like sharing at all. I may be testing you some (games) to see what your reaction is.. after too long of bothering me with that constantly. And you know already know how interested he is in you..I am going to say someone is going to get hurt. And you both just need to communicate and be honest and friends...if he has any air or mutable signs..it's pure physical attraction and a mental connection always and sex of course..

Seems like an ideal mate..good luck..

Oh someone mentioned if we like you we will just tell you that's true, and it's also true with being direct and honest too..And we do take awhile to make up our minds..once in a relationship it's more work and responsibilities..

You should know everything about Taurean you've known him since 8.
How about talking about some goals in the next two years.. Everything happens for a reason. Talk about traveling together, or talk about what he would like you to make for him.. send him care packages since he is away. Do things you know he likes.. and don't rush things..bake him something he loves. Communication is key..