TAURUS VALIDATION OF UNDERSTANDING

when you fight with your Taurus do you expect some validation that whatever it is that your fighting about is understood and wont happen again??

my Taurus doesn't give me that and its really eating away my trust and my ability to take our relationship seriously.

Tell them that you are feeling this way. We prefer direct people that are upfront about their feelings, we respect these people more.

Posted by taurusgirl9000
Tell them that you are feeling this way. We prefer direct people that are upfront about their feelings, we respect these people more.

I agree. And I'm not sure what you are expecting. Ironically, that is one of my pet peeves as well and I am a Taurus. I have to know that everything is upfront and understood and validated. To a certain level/point. Otherwise things are gray and I can't live in the gray area. Perhaps your SO does understand and it is you that is expecting more than the SO feels is needed to give or can give. I mean do they say anything and are you listening to what they are saying - and then do you feel you want more ? Just getting the feeling that you might be pushing too hard in an area that they can't change at the moment - not to say that they couldn't learn to be a bit more flexible but it will take time, not demands ... just my thoughts and HO.

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Posted by taurusgirl9000
Tell them that you are feeling this way. We prefer direct people that are upfront about their feelings, we respect these people more.

I agree. And I'm not sure what you are expecting. Ironically, that is one of my pet peeves as well and I am a Taurus. I have to know that everything is upfront and understood and validated. To a certain level/point. Otherwise things are gray and I can't live in the gray area. Perhaps your SO does understand and it is you that is expecting more than the SO feels is needed to give or can give. I mean do they say anything and are you listening to what they are saying - and then do you feel you want more ? Just getting the feeling that you might be pushing too hard in an area that they can't change at the moment - not to say that they couldn't learn to be a bit more flexible but it will take time, not demands ... just my thoughts and HO.

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I really appricate this and I think your right . I am not patient and that may be a weakness of mine. I want to know things and I want to know them right now and I know that he doesn't operate that way. im working on it.

and I don't want to make issues worse.

thank you.