What does it take to get into your heart? You are so hard to get....
Taurus women do you "Test" your Partners?
If I like you the quickest way for you to get into my heart is to have sex with you 🙂 But from my personal experience that usually scares the guy quickly away after it. Especially if he's a libra guy. I think after it he gets waaaaay too scared of his own feelings.
I also think it depends of the level of maturity and personal security too and how much one person is able to stand on their own feet. After having sex with libra guy I think he got scared of his own feelings and how I on the other hand seemed very collected and calm.
My libra guy complained I did not communicate with him. For him this is something that I think triggered insecurities in him. So I'd advice for a libra guy/taurus woman relationship to be sure the communication channels are ALWAYS open. And for you libra guy to NOT ASSUME things. Taurus women are pretty straightforward and hardly ever lie. If you ask a question I will reply. If you ask a SERIOUS question and stop beating around the bush be sure I'll honestly reply - and you'll also get extra points for being straightforward with me. Personally I tend to treat guys better that are upfront with me. I even tend to award them in a way for having the courage to take the lead, be upfront about their feelings and generally for not being afraid of me. A lot of men usually are afraid of taurus women although I never actually get it why 🙂
I also think it depends of the level of maturity and personal security too and how much one person is able to stand on their own feet. After having sex with libra guy I think he got scared of his own feelings and how I on the other hand seemed very collected and calm.
My libra guy complained I did not communicate with him. For him this is something that I think triggered insecurities in him. So I'd advice for a libra guy/taurus woman relationship to be sure the communication channels are ALWAYS open. And for you libra guy to NOT ASSUME things. Taurus women are pretty straightforward and hardly ever lie. If you ask a question I will reply. If you ask a SERIOUS question and stop beating around the bush be sure I'll honestly reply - and you'll also get extra points for being straightforward with me. Personally I tend to treat guys better that are upfront with me. I even tend to award them in a way for having the courage to take the lead, be upfront about their feelings and generally for not being afraid of me. A lot of men usually are afraid of taurus women although I never actually get it why 🙂

Yeah I do its because I say hey how bout you come over and ill cook, or we can go play some pool somewhere ND I'll give my number, and wait and see how long.
If I keep asking repeatedly I'm going to become suspicious very quickly.
If I keep asking repeatedly I'm going to become suspicious very quickly.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I've been burned in a 6 years relationship so yeah. I speak my mind, I show my actions, my normal goofy eccentric self, and wait and see. And I ask questions.

Yes.
Although I still give them the benefit of the doubt...
However...
I see if their statements are consistent with their actions.
If not, this opens my eyes, and closes my heart...
Don't invest any more time with this individual.
Although I still give them the benefit of the doubt...
However...
I see if their statements are consistent with their actions.
If not, this opens my eyes, and closes my heart...
Don't invest any more time with this individual.
Posted by Mered1thThanks I felt your heart in the answer. I really appreciate it. Last night she alluded to me taking the lead, then she said Libra tries to take control? So which is it? And give me an example of -taking the lead?
If I like you the quickest way for you to get into my heart is to have sex with you 🙂 But from my personal experience that usually scares the guy quickly away after it. Especially if he's a libra guy. I think after it he gets waaaaay too scared of his own feelings.
I also think it depends of the level of maturity and personal security too and how much one person is able to stand on their own feet. After having sex with libra guy I think he got scared of his own feelings and how I on the other hand seemed very collected and calm.
My libra guy complained I did not communicate with him. For him this is something that I think triggered insecurities in him. So I'd advice for a libra guy/taurus woman relationship to be sure the communication channels are ALWAYS open. And for you libra guy to NOT ASSUME things. Taurus women are pretty straightforward and hardly ever lie. If you ask a question I will reply. If you ask a SERIOUS question and stop beating around the bush be sure I'll honestly reply - and you'll also get extra points for being straightforward with me. Personally I tend to treat guys better that are upfront with me. I even tend to award them in a way for having the courage to take the lead, be upfront about their feelings and generally for not being afraid of me. A lot of men usually are afraid of taurus women although I never actually get it why 🙂

It means to initiate without taking over....
Here is an example...
Other Person: Would you like to grab a cup of coffee?
Taurus: Sure.
Other Person: What type of coffee spots do you prefer? Local, family-owned, or commerical-type of coffee chains?
Taurus: Wow. Thanks for asking. I prefer less crowded atmospheres, and quality over quantity...so lets go with a local cofee shop.
*Other person takes the reigns and finds a local coffee shop*
Here is an example...
Other Person: Would you like to grab a cup of coffee?
Taurus: Sure.
Other Person: What type of coffee spots do you prefer? Local, family-owned, or commerical-type of coffee chains?
Taurus: Wow. Thanks for asking. I prefer less crowded atmospheres, and quality over quantity...so lets go with a local cofee shop.
*Other person takes the reigns and finds a local coffee shop*

@Vageenka,
We love to be led but hate to be controlled.
We need to have an opinion on every journey.
🙂
We love to be led but hate to be controlled.
We need to have an opinion on every journey.
🙂

Posted by VageenkaWhat's have you been smokin? I always research just to make sure the best places you are going to be with me in. Top notches or two. I ask questions like this it's soooo simple.Posted by TaurusBull1977
It means to initiate without taking over....
Here is an example...
Other Person: Would you like to grab a cup of coffee?
Taurus: Sure.
Other Person: What type of coffee spots do you prefer? Local, family-owned, or commerical-type of coffee chains?
Taurus: Wow. Thanks for asking. I prefer less crowded atmospheres, and quality over quantity...so lets go with a local cofee shop.
*Other person takes the reigns and finds a local coffee shop*
Gosh you guys are way too complicated lol
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Because what if you hate coffee and then Taurus plans and the other won't like it.

I try to ask direct and objective questions for my Taurus woman, like: '' I can see you personally in a certain place? etc'' but ... She does not always respond with a yes or no and does not respond. I do not know if it means '' no '' or she wants me to decide for myself.
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