The only Scorpio Woman - Taurus Man that worked...

For all you silly people flooding this board..it does NOT normally work. The odds are..slim at best and not everyone is the exception.

My post is a little tongue in cheek but seriously if you clash all the time and there's plenty people who are in the dark with this pairing..maybe..just maybe..it doesn't really work?

Marie Curie (Scorp) & Pierre Curie (Taurus).

Amazing coupling, 2 Nobel Prizes and their daughter won another one.

It just doesn't get better than this so might as well give up trying.

Notice how he died quickly enough though in a street accident.

Posted by UncleIroh
You don't hear from all the happy in the world with this pairing on DXP. They don't come flocking online to ask for advice on why their marriage is so perfect. I think all the threads of women and men in despair over their bull/scorp loved ones might show the opposite, that they care so much and the other person left such a mark on them that they can't let it go. Even if most didn't work out I still don't think that doesn't make it an amazing pair. Difficult get along with your polar opposite? Sure. Worth it if you can get through the differences? I think so.

My thoughts.

I know..but if you've been here long enough you'll see this axis is the hardest to make it work.

Love works...but we can't all be the exception.

Posted by UncleIroh
Lol @ "we can't all be the exception". Movie quote?

I've experienced the axis and I would have to say it is most definitely worth it. Most intense attraction I could imagine.

I am not saying it's not worth it. It would bring awesome growth.

I'm just saying it's really hard to make it work and if people aren't compatible to begin with then what's the point? You shouldn't struggle this early on in courtship.

I know what movie you're referencing but no...it's just reality. People always believe they are special an in their case the situation will turn out fine...some lucky ones manage that but the rest? They can't get over the failure and it haunts them.

I've seen this with all axis.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by UncleIroh
Lol @ "we can't all be the exception". Movie quote?

I've experienced the axis and I would have to say it is most definitely worth it. Most intense attraction I could imagine.

I am not saying it's not worth it. It would bring awesome growth.

I'm just saying it's really hard to make it work and if people aren't compatible to begin with then what's the point? You shouldn't struggle this early on in courtship.

I've seen this with all axis.

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The problem is that the energy overrides all rational/practical *and* even moral considerations. The only control you have is a long-range decision to get far far away from it. If you are physically around it, its more in control than you are. Its worse with Taurus/Scorpio IMO because both of these signs are extremely magnetic to begin with. Of course practical earth is always going to say - if it doesn't last, if its not fruitful, what is the point? But in retrospect, many of the greatest lessons we learn are in failed relationships.

I think Uncle has it right! (Says scorpio woman with a taurus man) I haven't even been here since November!!!(?)

FYI we broke the "rules" one day I'll make a thread about it... Maybe.

Posted by Eris
FYI we broke the "rules" one day I'll make a thread about it... Maybe.

Don't tease.

I remember you from waaaay back. There is one other Scorp I know that was in a successful relatoinship with a Taurus man - MeowScorpii. She doesn't post anymore though. You are the only two that I've seen pass through DXP in over a year.

Posted by Impulsv
Not afraid if little struggle In the beggining. Frankly I'll never settle for less n this thing whatever it is it's worth it to me. I guess that's how we differ between scorp woman n Taurus man lol. Taurus says why put work if not work.

I think Scorps are better with complicated situations and drama. Some I've spoken with say they need it in a relationship occasionally, to know things are real, to feel alive, etc. Bulls crave simplicity, peace, leisure; we want things to run smoothly with little maintenance. Pluto vs. Venus. Plus we have huge blow-ups when we finally do lose it, so that's another reason to prefer things to be easier.

Posted by Impulsv
How do Taurus blow up?

I've never fully blown up, but when I've lost my temper I just say the nastiest, most hateful/disrespectful and *deeply* personal things. "I hate you" doesn't scratch the surface. I think it has totally destroyed relationships with all the Cancer women I've been with. One blowup and they really can never forgive the extent of it. So I consider it a place I just can't go to in a relationship, and now I always just establish that if I feel like I'm losing my temper, I need to kinda go off and cool down, then resume the convo. later.

Taurus/Scorp both losing their temper on each other is said to be pretty horrific:

"They just have to draw a line under using their gifts for emotional intellect against each other, or both will pay with flesh and blood. When Taurus or Scorpio turn their back on their loyalty to one another, they attack each other with twice the ferocity used against any innocent bystander.

"The worst thing these two can do is spend a protracted period of time apart, or get involved in long mud slinging matches where they tear each other down, always knowing they will regret it later. The damage done may be bigger than they can afford to repair and there won't be many third-party takers waiting to really give them what they need to heal."

http://www.my-ab.com/scorpio-woman-taurus-man-romance/<BR>

What was I thinking...

Posted by Damnata
What was I thinking...

But then there is:

"With so many emotions to play on between them, it is unsurprising their sexual chemistry and exploits are off the chart. The earth and water signs ooze sexual energy to the point where they constantly find new ideas with what to do with it all. When they show their real faces to one another in private, Taurus and Scorpio begin to appreciate the common daring spirit that fosters loyalty. There is a sense that you won't get it this good or adventurous anywhere else, despite the relationship leaving so much to be desired in other areas.

"Any chance that Scorpio has to remodel her image as a good girl that only occasionally acts out naughty things is gone. She has one foot permanently planted in the dark side and her man Taurus holds hands with her for company." [ http://www.my-ab.com/scorpio-woman-taurus-man-romance/ ]

So you kinda have to weigh things out, lol....

Posted by UncleIroh
You don't hear from all the happy in the world with this pairing on DXP. They don't come flocking online to ask for advice on why their marriage is so perfect. I think all the threads of women and men in despair over their bull/scorp loved ones might show the opposite, that they care so much and the other person left such a mark on them that they can't let it go. Even if most didn't work out I still don't think that doesn't make it an amazing pair. Difficult get along with your polar opposite? Sure. Worth it if you can get through the differences? I think so.

My thoughts.

.......I tend to absolutely adore my polar opposites and vice versa regardless of the type of relationship.

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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Taurus/Scorp both losing their temper on each other is said to be pretty horrific:

"They just have to draw a line under using their gifts for emotional intellect against each other, or both will pay with flesh and blood. When Taurus or Scorpio turn their back on their loyalty to one another, they attack each other with twice the ferocity used against any innocent bystander.

"The worst thing these two can do is spend a protracted period of time apart, or get involved in long mud slinging matches where they tear each other down, always knowing they will regret it later. The damage done may be bigger than they can afford to repair and there won't be many third-party takers waiting to really give them what they need to heal."

http://www.my-ab.com/scorpio-woman-taurus-man-romance/<BR>

As someone who has experienced this firsthand, I can say its true. HOWEVER, I must also say that because I love him/he loves me AND because of the loooong history between us, we have always gotten past it. Sooner or later we get past fights we have had (which to THIS magnitude has only been two n more than a decade...) I will say though, we never formally acknowledge each others forgiveness, we just move on from it, acting like it didn't happen. The key is: For HER to surrender her pride (scorpio) and for HIM to surrender his stubborn nature. Its hard. HARD. But it can be done with maturity.

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The few moments I've argued with a Scorpio lasted for a minute or less. We'd yell, everyone would be staring with faces that said, "Holy shit, what is this?!", and within thirty seconds to a minute later, it was over due to something random. One time, someone almost wrote something on one of my books and the Scorpio turned to her and calmly said with a smile on her face, "She will kill you". 😆

Any axis has better chance at working than this one..even the Aries-Libra who is about war ffs.

There's always 3 people in love..him, her and their relationship. And in this axis people are so concerned with being emotionally selfish and obsessive about their feelings and power plays...the concept flies over their read completely.

You'll see it all across the board...in the rest of their relationships both scorpios and tauruses GET it but with each other, they are blind to the fact that intensity and insanity do not mean passionate love. A rude awakening is sure to come next. It's weird though...both pour intensity into love with others but again with each other it's like they are blind to everything and only concerned about who obsesses more. You cannot build a home together by staying outside and obsessing over each other.

I just think there must be a Scorpio making you jealous so you came here to try to convince us that they're a bad idea. I CAN SEE YOU PLOTTING AGAINST OUR OPPOSITE, DAMNATA!!!!!!!!!!! 😛

Honestly, I don't concern myself with other people's relationships anymore. If someone asks something, I'll answer ifI feel like it, but if it works out, yay, if it crashes and burns, oh well. Everyone is free to live their lives, make their mistakes and have their successes. If you complain, you will be ignored.

Posted by 2N3R
I just think there must be a Scorpio making you jealous so you came here to try to convince us that they're a bad idea. I CAN SEE YOU PLOTTING AGAINST OUR OPPOSITE, DAMNATA!!!!!!!!!!! 😛

Honestly, I don't concern myself with other people's relationships anymore. If someone asks something, I'll answer ifI feel like it, but if it works out, yay, if it crashes and burns, oh well. Everyone is free to live their lives, make their mistakes and have their successes. If you complain, you will be ignored.

lmao

damnata wants one or the other to herself: scorpio or taurus...which one is it? 😛

and no other sign shall do!! 😆

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Posted by 2N3R
I just think there must be a Scorpio making you jealous so you came here to try to convince us that they're a bad idea. I CAN SEE YOU PLOTTING AGAINST OUR OPPOSITE, DAMNATA!!!!!!!!!!! 😛

Honestly, I don't concern myself with other people's relationships anymore. If someone asks something, I'll answer ifI feel like it, but if it works out, yay, if it crashes and burns, oh well. Everyone is free to live their lives, make their mistakes and have their successes. If you complain, you will be ignored.

lmao

damnata wants one or the other to herself: scorpio or taurus...which one is it? 😛

and no other sign shall do!! 😆

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..........supposedly, we have harems. Damnata, join ussssssss.

she can't decide 😛

Spill it, Damnata, you have hidden 3rd houses (gemini)

I checked her profile and found it in two places....... and apparently, her Pluto is also in Scorpio, JUST LIKE MINE!!!!! WTF!!!! 😆

Anyway, again, we have harems, and I'm sure Scorpio wouldn't mind threesomes. We and our opposites are VERY very accepting. 😆

I've seen patterns lately. It started last month.

No where, on any other sign board you will see the madness that is here with their opposite.

This topic was made tongue in cheek to showcase an amazing couple..there would be no other couple to have 2 Nobel Prizes between them...but do you see them talking about it?

NOOOO..they are so far deep the delusion, they actually believe I'm stating that was the only couple that made it...and started emoting and obsessing again..so it's really not my fault reality escapes them.

I think it's funny because Pisces are seen as delusional and yet they don't struggle with Virgos as much.

To see this type of delusion from an Earth Sign, Taurus at that is..preposterous.

It's like the rest of the pairings never feel as deeply as they do. Like they're the only ones that have the market cornered on "sexual/magnetic/charming/intensity/passion/connection/coup de foudre". It boggles the mind how they can live together and get over the fact we shit and piss. Then again they cannot make it to that stage so...it's a moot point

^^^^This is all a joke, since I doubt you have "sarcasm" in your vocabulary as well. There's only so many words you can fit alongside "sexual/magnetic/charming/intensity/passion/connection/coup de foudre"

Posted by 2N3R
I checked her profile and found it in two places....... and apparently, her Pluto is also in Scorpio, JUST LIKE MINE!!!!! WTF!!!! 😆

Anyway, again, we have harems, and I'm sure Scorpio wouldn't mind threesomes. We and our opposites are VERY very accepting. 😆

Pluto in Scorpio is generational.

Venus in Cancer in the 8th..I have a Venus in Scorpio

NN in Pisces.

I know all about madness/delusional hence why I brought this topic forward.

Your north node is also in Pisces?! WHY IS THIS HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!! *mock shock*

😛

intense..insane..both words sound the same to me.

Posted by 2N3R
Your north node is also in Pisces?! WHY IS THIS HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!! *mock shock*

😛

*buys trenchcoat since you're clearly in need of a lesson*

Posted by Damnata

Posted by 2N3R
Your north node is also in Pisces?! WHY IS THIS HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!! *mock shock*

😛

*buys trenchcoat since you're clearly in need of a lesson*

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WOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm looking forward to you not wearing anything underneath it. 😆

Damnata - the simplest explanation for why you're seeing such an emphasis on the chemistry, obsession, and magnetism in this axis as opposed to others, and why you're seeing such an abundance of posts on it (inspiring you to try and build a dam), is that it exists. Look at the evidence. The strength of it is almost irresistible, causing the two most faithful signs in the zodiac to consider or engage in affairs, two of the most stubborn/willful to completely break down to the point of often losing their own self-respect at the sign of such weakness in their own character. I have heard so many stories at this point, with the details correlating so well, there is just definitely something *different* going on here. I get about 2 new scorps a week in my pm box with the same issue/story. Most of them never post here. And these are not people bragging about having great chemistry in successful relationships, but mainly people experiencing alot of heartbreak over the connection. Ironically, Virgo actually is a better match for both signs IMO. But no one wants to hear that. LOL.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
"causing the two most faithful signs in the zodiac to consider or engage in affairs"

If anything DXP should have taught us all it's that generic statements like those simply aren't true. There's no sun sign nor placement that makes someone faithful.

I think its about as true as any generalization about any attribute of any sun sign. And a generalization having exceptions on a message board, doesn't render it untrue. You can take any attribute of any sun sign and say "we see exceptions, so this simply isn't true", but if that's the way you reason, then you should pretty much reject astrology completely. Astrology looks at proclivities and dispositions from a high level of abstraction and is inductive, not deterministic. Really any thorough treatment of both of these signs is going to tell you that they tend towards being loyal/committed - these are usually listed as major/defining characteristics of people with these sun signs. And really, the loyalty aspect flows out of, and is bolstered by, a web of other attributes of the signs. I've posted on some of those other attributes for Taurus here:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/taurus-least-likely-to-cheat-4582837/
I could easily add to that list.

Posted by Damnata
I've seen patterns lately. It started last month.

No where, on any other sign board you will see the madness that is here with their opposite.

This topic was made tongue in cheek to showcase an amazing couple..there would be no other couple to have 2 Nobel Prizes between them...but do you see them talking about it?

NOOOO..they are so far deep the delusion, they actually believe I'm stating that was the only couple that made it...and started emoting and obsessing again..so it's really not my fault reality escapes them.

On a more serious note, the reason you're seeing the responses on this particular thread is because of the title and some of the things you've posted in your responses. You are implying that it is impossible for this type of relationship to work. If we approach relationships with such negativity, of coarse it won't work!!

One of the things I've personally noticed is the Taurus/Scorpio relationship is one only understood by those of us born under either sign. There are moments where when we had the few spats we've had, I was able to release stress. I've never felt bitter towards them after our very brief arguments. I'm not obsessed with any of them, though, so I don't know where you're getting that from and there has been one and may have been others who I absolutely hated. That aside, if I get along with them, I really do treat them like I do with all those I get along with and consider mine.

Factoring in cultural influences is fine. In fact, cultural anthropology, like astrology, is another field that looks at things from a high level of abstraction. You'll see all sorts of generalizations about the nature of societies (e.g. collectivist vs. indivudalist), core values of societies (e.g. honor/shame-based vs. guilt-based), psychology of its members (e.g. three-zone or dyadic personalities in Mediterranean anthro.), etc. No dispositions, traits, habits, etc. exist in a cultural vacuum and no one is saying they do.

Again, no one is saying that every Taurus or Scorpio is loyal, just as no one is saying every Aries is assertive, or every Cancer is sensitive, every Libra is indecisive, etc. With astrology, we're generalizing about inclinations, influences, and tendencies. Your point about psychology is also off base. Firstly, there are many different fields of psychology and very few that even deal with classifying people according to broad personality types. The kind of traits discussed in psychological texts usually don't even overlap all that much with key astrological traits of the sun signs. Psychologists don't really spend much time trying to figure out why people are prone to jealousy, or more intuitive than others, for instance. And if they do, its highly theoretical (like most of psychology). Saying that looking at sun signs as endowing us with certain inclinations is conflicting with psychology, is like saying genetics conflicts with psychology, because the latter endows us with certain dispositions. We can be classified as genetically inclined to depression, and still be helpfully diagnosed with a psychological disorder that encompasses depressive symptoms. Neither astrology, cultural studies, or genetics rule out the explanatory efficacy of psychology. They're actually complimentary in how they help to explain the enormous complexity of the human person.

If you're talking about the consilience of neuroscience and psychology, neuropsychiatry, etc., I'm very familiar with it, also one of my interests. And 99.999999999% of all psychology has been done WITHOUT the aid of brain-imaging scans, which is precisely why even the more experimental branches have been generally considered to be "softer" sciences. We're talking about basically a medical field that's set most of its theoretical foundations in place, without actually being able to LOOK at the organ they are studying, not to mention the fact that this organ is THE most complex arrangement of matter in the known universe and we know virtually NOTHING about how (or IF) it even generates consciousness (consciousness being the entity that is actually supplies us with the anecdotes that form the basis of the research). There's *alot* in there related to what we're talking about, but it suffices to say that we haven't even scratched the surface with psychology. Indeed, with the advent of neuroscience, the next 50 yrs will probably overturn much of what we think we know. And that's not to disparage pscyhology. Its great but you need to know that it has its own limits, much disagreement within its ranks, and no monolithic understanding of human personality.

Can you compare astrology and psychology? Absolutely - you can compare any two things.

And of course astrology has real tangible value. If it can be used as a "tool" as you say for elucidating aspects of human personality, then it has heuristic value.

Lastly, where is the evidence that planetary positions affect human behavior? Richard Tarnas _Cosmos and Psyche_ presents the best case in print. Buy it, read it, try to argue against the data. It overturns pretty much every major argument against astrology that I've seen. But these boards are full of that evidence as well.

How is dxp not a "true reflection of reality" simply because people here believe in astrology? I'm talking about how people behave, not what they believe. And there is tons of evidence. I'm exhibiting my Taurean stubbornness and endurance in not conceding any of your points...lol. We all actually *know* this, and we *know* that alot of the generalizations hold true, so we (you included) come here and talk about the nature of different signs, placements, aspects. You're talking about the fixed nature in this thread. The truth is that you do *not* feel astrology is baseless speculation. You actually feel it has substance and that you're making meaningful statements when you talk about such things. I can probably look through your history and find a ton of statements you make, based on astrological knowledge. If astrology is "pure speculation" then you are simply wasting your time and you might as well be typing random letters in your posts.

The majority of people I've introduced natal charts to have been fascinated by them, and gotten much deeper into astrology as a result of seeing heavy correlation betw. their lives/personalities and their chart (particularly Sun, Moon, Asc. and North/South Node). Some people would not be interested in the standard model of particle physics if you explained it to them. It has no bearing on whether or not it is valid.

TLS, again you're missing the point entirely.

This was supposed to be a light thread. There is depth in lightness and humor and easy interaction...but people equate only brooding, mystery and intensity with love.

It was my whole point. I get what you mean but just for once...can you go pass the deep to bathe in the shallow?

I've seen oceans in a puddle of rain water and I've seen nothing in the actual oceans.

Posted by Damnata
TLS, again you're missing the point entirely.

This was supposed to be a light thread. There is depth in lightness and humor and easy interaction...but people equate only brooding, mystery and intensity with love.

It was my whole point. I get what you mean but just for once...can you go pass the deep to bathe in the shallow?

I don't think I can do it, Damnata...lol.

BUT, I've made your very point about different types of love - and the obsessive/crazy kind not being the only (or best) kind (and potentially the worst kind to build a family on top of). This has been one of my main reasons for not ditching my Sag.

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Posted by Damnata
I've seen patterns lately. It started last month.

No where, on any other sign board you will see the madness that is here with their opposite.

This topic was made tongue in cheek to showcase an amazing couple..there would be no other couple to have 2 Nobel Prizes between them...but do you see them talking about it?

NOOOO..they are so far deep the delusion, they actually believe I'm stating that was the only couple that made it...and started emoting and obsessing again..so it's really not my fault reality escapes them.

On a more serious note, the reason you're seeing the responses on this particular thread is because of the title and some of the things you've posted in your responses. You are implying that it is impossible for this type of relationship to work. If we approach relationships with such negativity, of coarse it won't work!!

One of the things I've personally noticed is the Taurus/Scorpio relationship is one only understood by those of us born under either sign. There are moments where when we had the few spats we've had, I was able to release stress. I've never felt bitter towards them after our very brief arguments. I'm not obsessed with any of them, though, so I don't know where you're getting that from and there has been one and may have been others who I absolutely hated. That aside, if I get along with them, I really do treat them like I do with all those I get along with and consider mine.

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1) I wasn't implying that, I was stating it 😄. But it was in jest.

2) Again that's my point. Those 2 get so lost in each other while the rest of the 10 signs look at them like wtf. If one person, two, three...tell you to go to bed because you're drunk..what do you do? What if 10 people look at you funny?

It's just funny to me, nothing more..nothing else. And yet again I am proven right by the inability of the taureans and scorps in this thread to GET it.

Yup man, I see your reasoning.

It's just..can we all stop being intense and just have fun?

CAN WE?

Posted by Damnata
Yup man, I see your reasoning.

It's just..can we all stop being intense and just have fun?

CAN WE?

Who isn't having fun? LOL.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
TLS since you're being stubborn for the sake of it I'll leave it there. I think I made some valid points but alas if you disagree then that's up to you.

Honestly, I disagree for the *reasons* stated. I don't disagree just because I'm stubborn...That was a joke. My stubbornness just makes it impossible for me to refrain from voicing my disagreement. I see this subject come up a TON at dxp too so its a pet peeve of mine (almost as bad as the "alpha/beta" nonsense). People who say "astrology is baseless", and then proceed to rest their conversations on the premises of astrology in other threads. At a minimum, it is really puzzling....

What is so fun and light about life? We are all dying.

hahaha...I kid I kid....back to splashing about in your puddles....

Knew your Leo Moon couldn't refuse me 😄

We all die but how many of us truly live? Not imagine living and experiencing it on a deep level..but truly live? Rolling with the punches, rolling in the grass.

It just dawned on me how my perspective of love changed from being set on intensity and commitment to..let's just run around with kites and laugh and one day realize how many years have passed and how tall the trees we built have become. And how those faraway voices that are drawing near belong to our children.

Let the realization of love dawn on me on some idle Tuesday, on a train ride or in the line at the grocery shop. I will smile and it will all make sense. And if it works, it will make sense for you too.

If not, still I've experienced so much my soul will never ache for unrequited love.

Also - you folks might be just biased against other kinds of fun. I find it fun to argue, investigate, uncover...Scorps might just find it fun, interesting, and exciting to plumb the depths like they do.

Posted by Damnata
We all die but how many of us truly live? Not imagine living and experiencing it on a deep level..but truly live? Rolling with the punches, rolling in the grass.

I'm allergic to grass. I can't imagine that its fun to roll around in it while being punched.

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Posted by 2N3R
Your north node is also in Pisces?! WHY IS THIS HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!! *mock shock*

😛

*buys trenchcoat since you're clearly in need of a lesson*

WOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm looking forward to you not wearing anything underneath it. 😆

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So happy you have no idea what this is about 😄

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Also - you folks might be just biased against other kinds of fun. I find it fun to argue, investigate, uncover...Scorps might just find it fun, interesting, and exciting to plumb the depths like they do.

See that's the thing. Both Taurus and Scorpios have this obsession with not being understood by people.

WE GET IT. WE DON'T WANT TO RENT A BILBOARD TO POST ON IT.

WE'RE JUST HAVING FUN

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WE GET IT

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BILBOARDS
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BILBO.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Also - you folks might be just biased against other kinds of fun. I find it fun to argue, investigate, uncover...Scorps might just find it fun, interesting, and exciting to plumb the depths like they do.

See that's the thing. Both Taurus and Scorpios have this obsession with not being understood by people.

WE GET IT. WE DON'T WANT TO RENT A BILBOARD TO POST ON IT.

WE'RE JUST HAVING FUN

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WE GET IT

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BILBOARDS
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BILBO.

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ands is here to save the day. I think he is the only fun bull. hahahaha....

I completely beg to differ.

I'm handing you off to him. You are way too demanding with this lighthearted fun stuff.