Think I pushed my Taurus away, need advice (Page 4)

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Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by jebrooks1988
Yea the fwb is where I was shocked because he's the third guy I've ever slept with and knows that I'm not that kind of girl.

Wrong. Re-read what you posted.

Posted by jebrooks1988
Last weekend saw him while I was out I completely ignored him and talked to other guys while he was there because we agreed not to get jealous.I was giving my number to another guy and he comes up and said "she's not going to call you bro, she's coming home with me".

You ARE that kind of girl.
Your so-called pledge of chastity and loyalty is contingent according to which man is paying you some attention at the moment.
You move on impulse.
Which means there are NO barriers with you.
Piss me off and I will cheat on you!
Even if your interpretation of a given situation is delusional.

This Bull is smart.
He has you in the proper category.
Nothing more needs to be addressed.

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Just because I was giving my number to a guy after he told me basically he was going to continue to talk to other girls does NOT make me a girl who should be seen as only a sexual object. Since when does giving a number out equate to being "that girl"? I'm sure if he was giving his number to another girl you wouldn't say he should be deemed worthy as only a sexual object because he's a man. So it's okay for him to say pretty much if you see me out with another girl don't get jealous but I get bashed and get told that I'm that kind of girl because I gave my number out? That's a very rash and illogical leap that you're making there. Did I dance on another guy? No. Was I all over another guy? No. Did I kiss another guy? No. Did I go home with another guy? No. A gave out my number, 10 digits, but because I did that I'm that "kind of girl". I have slept with only 3 people in my life including him which he knows, but no giving out my number automatically equates to being that kind of girl that should only be deemed worthy of sex after being told don't get jealous of his other girls. Okay got it. You make perfect sense.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by jebrooks1988
Yea the fwb is where I was shocked because he's the third guy I've ever slept with and knows that I'm not that kind of girl.

Wrong. Re-read what you posted.

Posted by jebrooks1988
Last weekend saw him while I was out I completely ignored him and talked to other guys while he was there because we agreed not to get jealous.I was giving my number to another guy and he comes up and said "she's not going to call you bro, she's coming home with me".

You ARE that kind of girl.
Your so-called pledge of chastity and loyalty is contingent according to which man is paying you some attention at the moment.
You move on impulse.
Which means there are NO barriers with you.
Piss me off and I will cheat on you!
Even if your interpretation of a given situation is delusional.

This Bull is smart.
He has you in the proper category.
Nothing more needs to be addressed.

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No my loyalty is contingent on someone else's loyalty to me. No it's not piss me off I'll cheat on you, if that were the case I would've cheated on my ex over and over again. It's you tell me you're going to continue to see other girls then fine I'll do my own thing. Where was his loyalty then? Oh it must have been after he had sex with me and tells me he likes tacos 15 days in a row but on the 16 he wants pizza, aka I like to jump from girl to girl. No sorry it must have been when he threw other girls in my face.

Posted by jebrooks1988

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by jebrooks1988
Yea the fwb is where I was shocked because he's the third guy I've ever slept with and knows that I'm not that kind of girl.

Wrong. Re-read what you posted.

Posted by jebrooks1988
Last weekend saw him while I was out I completely ignored him and talked to other guys while he was there because we agreed not to get jealous.I was giving my number to another guy and he comes up and said "she's not going to call you bro, she's coming home with me".

You ARE that kind of girl.
Your so-called pledge of chastity and loyalty is contingent according to which man is paying you some attention at the moment.
You move on impulse.
Which means there are NO barriers with you.
Piss me off and I will cheat on you!
Even if your interpretation of a given situation is delusional.

This Bull is smart.
He has you in the proper category.
Nothing more needs to be addressed.

No my loyalty is contingent on someone else's loyalty to me. No it's not piss me off I'll cheat on you, if that were the case I would've cheated on my ex over and over again. It's you tell me you're going to continue to see other girls then fine I'll do my own thing. Where was his loyalty then? Oh it must have been after he had sex with me and tells me he likes tacos 15 days in a row but on the 16 he wants pizza, aka I like to jump from girl to girl. No sorry it must have been when he threw other girls in my face.

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He sounds like a piece of shit. Most guys that use women for FWB are.

Posted by jebrooks1988

Okay got it. You make perfect sense.

Your sarcasm is endearing,
I guess you have all the answers...
Asking for advice, but refusing to take any accountability.

Riddle me this

(In your own words)

Posted by jebrooks1988
Long story short met this guy in November. I likthis m a lot but we both played a lot if games with (won't go into details) each other, which I started unfortunately. ,He said he thought it could be more between us.

Posted by jebrooks1988

I didn't hear from all week after that the then tells me we should stop hanging out because he doesn't want to hurt me, this won't ever be more and that we could be just friends with benefits because he's going to continue to see other girls.

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How does a woman go from being a potential girlfried to a FWB?
Please have a full comprehension of what you're writing...and how you're coming across.