This Taurus has me Baffled!

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southernbeauty
@southernbeauty
18 YearsLibra

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Hey everyone...

I have a question for you guys!!

My ex and I split in August. It was mutual. We both agreed to be friends and it was in a very calm matter. We both agreed it wasn't the right time and blah blah. However ... we didn't speak for a while. Outta the blue he saw me out and about one night. Ever since then he has been texting me. He makes it apparent to come and see me at 2 in the morning. Now we have never had sex. I am waiting for marriage so go ahead and get that outta your head. HAHA. I know that would be my first thought too. That he's just in it for the sex.

Now these past few weeks the texts have been getting more and more frequent. He came over one night and stayed the night, but we slept in our clothes. We just kissed and held eachother. He will talk to me at college for hours at a time ... late at night and we have missed our classes before because we couldn't shut up haha. Now he may just enjoy talking to me. But that's where I need your advice.

I made the comment the other day that he didn't want me anymore. He said "I do want you, but just in a different way this time." Now if that wasn't a shot to the heart. I still think about him all the time. Every time I see him my heart skips a beat and I feel like I can't breathe. It kills me to "HANG OUT" and not be an item. Not be his. So I did the hardest thing in the world ... I told him I couldn't be his friend anymore. I asked him not to call or text me anymore. I told him it hurts to bad to be close and not be his. I need to move on with my life and I can't this way!! He said he understands and that one day he hopes we can hangout and he wishes me the best.

Now I know what you're thinking ... He just said it!! There's your answer!! He just wants to be "FRIENDS"!! But when I look at him I still see something in his eyes. I could be just seeing what I wanna see and all that. Well I got a text from him this morning saying happy Thanksgiving. After I told him not to text me anymore!! Everyone I talk to says he is scared and confused or isn't sure what he wants. Well that's obvious! What guy will drive 45mins at 2 am to come see you if he isn't interested or drunk? It's not the sex and he says he doesn't wanna a girlfriend. So what is it? Texts you all the time? Stay and talk with you in the college parking lot when he could be doing tons of other things? It just doesn't add up. Now like I said I could be wrong. I mean he did say he just wants to be friends. What do you guys t
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zenalchemy
@zenalchemy
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Agree with Houston and Bella, there are so many other things to concentrate on that the something you see in his eyes...if he's around the same age as you, then on a generalization basis, he will be too young to be thinking about a huge committment like marriage >>> I am not sure Tauruses express their love only through sex >>> but I've noticed taurus will only invest based on returns, so if he knows he's not ready for the commitment you want and if he in turn wants sex, then he will be wasting his time sticking around with you right?

Think about what YOU want and don't concentrate on trying to figure him out or his confusion --- he will come out with it if he wants to --- don't let him string you along too if it interfers with your focus. Good luck