Virgo Man dating Taurus Women, need help

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It over now. I asked her about 'what is happening between us?'. Answer 'nothing'. It over.

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Posted by Aak

But still I couldn't see anything back from her, she never expressed anything. The maximum we did by the end of third date was hugging her for the first time.

Thanks

She's not that into you.

Is she using you?

Who knows....

Well,
There is no such thing as victims...
Just volunteers.

The expensive gifts should have came after the two of you established yourselves as a 'solid' couple.

As for Bulls, we're obsessed with time management and prioritizing things.

If she's cancelling on you the last minute, then you're not on her top list of priorities.

Sorry to be the bad news bearer. 😢

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This is the second Virgo who was dismissed by a Bullette after playing the role of Sugar Daddy.

We're really starting to get a bad rep....

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Posted by Mr. Defense
Well if it's any consolation, I still like Taurus women far better than any woman in the zodiac. I can make the distinction.

That was a sweet thing to say.....

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Honestly it was not a very expensive, about ??60. I didn't know what she had in her mind. So I have asked her directly, 'do you accept gift when you don't have anything?'. But she got angry and said she is either going to throw that in the bin or return it to me. I have tried to explain that I have asked this only know and simple yes or no would be the answer. As usual she didn't listen, she wanted to return or throw away. So I have asked her to send it back as I do not want my gift going to the bin.

But she immediately turned against me, she wants to keep it to herself because it was gift. But I said 'better give it to me'. Then she got upset and started saying I was behaving cheaply by asking the given gift back and regretting about meeting me, and She said I took advantage of her!.

I dont know why the girls I have come across are like this. Is it a curse of Virgo?.

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Why do you Virgo guys...well just you and Mr. Defense start to insult when there is a regret for doing something? What doess it mattter when or why she accepts gifts. You didnt have to ask her that question nor did you have to demand your gift back. You bought it, leave it at that.

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Posted by Aak
Honestly it was not a very expensive, about ??60. I didn't know what she had in her mind. So I have asked her directly, 'do you accept gift when you don't have anything?'. But she got angry and said she is either going to throw that in the bin or return it to me. I have tried to explain that I have asked this only know and simple yes or no would be the answer. As usual she didn't listen, she wanted to return or throw away. So I have asked her to send it back as I do not want my gift going to the bin.

But she immediately turned against me, she wants to keep it to herself because it was gift. But I said 'better give it to me'. Then she got upset and started saying I was behaving cheaply by asking the given gift back and regretting about meeting me, and She said I took advantage of her!.

I dont know why the girls I have come across are like this. Is it a curse of Virgo?.

ola...it isnt a virgo curse...you overthink too much and taurus women like things to be uncomplicated...we are very sensitive when our integrity is in question it takes time and patience when we are starting to like someone because we test your patience and see if you really care...how she reacted was her personality but the point is the same...

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She did say it will take 6 months to a year of dating before deciding anything about whether she likes me or not!.
Yes she did test my patience a lot of times. But she was very rude at times. I was very flexible with her, but the way she treated me made me angry.

Why can't someone be nice to others...Isn't it a basic human character?

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^^^you could have handled the gift issue better...we love gifts if its genuine and we become sentimental it reminds us of the person and when you ask to get it back it means that you changed your mind and didnt have good intentions to begin with...

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I didn't ask the gift back. She said she will throw away or send it back to me. I was very upset and felt bad when she said that way. Agreed, I should have done it better.

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if she is interested in your proffesion and wants to learn more about what you do then she isnt using you she wants to get to know you better...when a man rushes us to become involved then we start to suspect his intentions and wonder if he is looking for a temporary thing or longterm?
its not easy to get involved because we like to see things long term and if she said 6moths then you must respect that if you genuinely like her...🙂

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*months

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She said she wanted to develop a website quickly for her business and looking to get as much help as possible. Also she said she dont want any professional help and she wants to control it. She made this call couple of days after she had canceled the date. This was the first thing she said. Then she said it will help us to get know more and help talk about something when we are in 5th or 6th date.

I do like her. It was not about waiting, I can wait. I was not suspicious. But I was confused.

She was serious most of the time. In the middle she makes jokes about some sensitive things. I couldn't make out if she was joking or serious.
When I asked about it, she got angry. She is kind, but she always showed me her rough side. After few times, it brings my negative side.

Overall, this Taurus met a nice guy, drove him mad, then got angry for being mad and dumped him in the end.

Was it intentional? is this how a typical Taurus do? Surely a great learning for me.

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Posted by Mr. Defense

Virgos have distinct advantages over Taurus women.

How is that so? Please enlighten us?

Posted by Mr. Defense
....and they fall for Virgo men easily.
click to expand

Why is that? I'm really curious.

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Posted by Mr. Defense
Again, a Taurus is a highly seductive sign, they're VERY good at getting their way and influencing others. They can appear to be a bit manipulative as a result.

Not quite.
With a Taurus, its effortless.
We're charming, humble, nurturing and sweet.
We will draw you in, and you will feel immediately feel safe.
It's just who we are.

Believe it or not, you Virgos have the very same affect on us.🙂

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Posted by VirgoR
Aak,

Lets cut to the chase. It was an experience for additional knowledge to be added to your dossier of understanding girls/ladies.

- Write this one off as inexpensive tuition with regards to the gift you purchased her. You cannot purchase a womans interest or fondness with gifts. Well, you can but the happiness with be short-lived.🙂

- Don't focus so much on astrology. Focus more on a girl that enjoys your company and you go from there. You'll know when you meet her. You'll feel the chemistry. She'll be accommodating, friendly, generous, polite, kind, sweet and you will find her beautiful for possessing those characteristics. It won't feel forced like attempting to put a square peg into a round hole. You get the picture, right?

- Instead of it being a big deal and formal just ask them to do fun casual things with you and steer clear of the official dinner date in the beginning. This will allow her to feel relaxed, comfortable in getting acquainted with you instead of feeling like you are pursuing her like a tornado. The key is to allow the opportunity for her see how fun you are without the pressure.

- Explore your city and always be on the lookout for different events. It may be a carnival, or a music festival, events at the zoo, international movie festival, etc. Something casual. And be casual about asking her. For example. Hey, I am going to this neat coffee shop shortly. They have really great muffins (or whatever it is they have that's unusual), do you want to meet me there and we can continue this conversation. We'll probably only be 45 minutes to an hour.

bueno...this is good advice

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Thanks VirgoR. It makes perfect sense.

I have tried that approach with her. She always wanted to meet me on Sunday at 2pm or 3pm. Thats the only time. I have to look for places and confirm with her at least like 3 or 4 days before. All the time she had rejected the places I have chosen. Some very good places and she had never been there before!. Her concept is going to the known place and avoid risk. That means only if she knows the muffins are good, then only she will agree. I gave her like two or three choices every time. But she chooses same places, same times, same restaurants.

Yes, May be she was feeling the pressure from me. I should do that better, stay calm and not to lose my composure.

But this will surely help me in my future approaches. Thanks.