Waiting for Taurus to contact me... will he ever??

So I've known this Taurus man for about 8 almost 9 months now. We aren't together but we were pretty much on the verge of getting there. He started calling me babe and would say I'm his girl. Posted pictures of us on FB met his family and all. We were rocky in the beginning...well not rocky but we were casual in the beginning but realized we kinda both like eachother. So just recenlyt, about the last 3 months, things have been going great. Or so i thought....

My Taurus and I were hanging out one day. He was on his phone and I was sitting next beside him and I was just over looking his shoulder. Then I noticed a girls name on his messages that was recent. I knew it was recent because she was on the top of his list. So i asked him who she was and he responded, just a friend. I asked what did they talk about. He said just seeing how eachother was doing, she has a kid and is dating some guy. So i was going to leave it at that and trust his word. But then he added, but this was before i met u. I said wat do you mean before me. he said before you and i ever met. automatically i knew this was a lie becuase we met 8 months ago! and this message we recent. So i said, you lying to me. he said no i'm not. i said yes you are, prove it to me then. So he opens up the text convo between him and her!!! and what do you know..... he sent her a text earlier just that week "When are we going to hang out" i scrolled thru the text thread a little and pretty much it was him trying to pursure her the whole time like getting her attention and she was having it! I snapped on him at this point. I was sooooo hurt and felt decieved!!

We got into a huge arguement. technically our first real arguement. He was trying to calm me down saying he wants me and only me, that shes nothing, and pretty much trying to reassure me. At this point I'm seeing red. My emotions are thru the roof and i'm so upset that I'm not listening and yelling at him from the top of my lungs. I said some hurtful things like, I'm better than him. I can do better than him. He's a dum ass for losing a girl like me and I left him and drove away. I haven't heard from him since. I regret reacting like I did and saying those things. But I was just upset. He hasn't called me and I feel like he should be the first to call since it was HIS mess up that started this!

Will he ever call or is he to stubborn—!

What's his sign? And u may have scared him bc in his head he's single. Guys will talk to multiple girls until they really settle down regardless of how special u are or not. Every guy talks to a lot of girls. He probably thought u knew that or he may think u expect too much from him.

He is a Taurus and I am a Pisces. I do understand that i shouldn't let pride get in the way. But ever since I've met him it seems like I've been been the pursuer. I feel like he needs to meet me half way at least. I understand my reaction was a bit over board but him trying to hang out with another girl while we're practically an item is just not right. I told him how big i am on loyalty and he felt the same because he always sobes about how his ex girlfriends all cheated on him and thats y he liked me because I'm so pure and kind. Which i am. when I like someone I only have eyes on that person. I just feel like he needs to man up and be a man and contact me to apologize! I will forgive him but I just don't think I need to crawl back to him when he was the one that messed this all up! Do Taurus men really not see when they've done wrong?!

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
What's his sign? And u may have scared him bc in his head he's single. Guys will talk to multiple girls until they really settle down regardless of how special u are or not. Every guy talks to a lot of girls. He probably thought u knew that or he may think u expect too much from him.

He is a Taurus and I am a Pisces. I told him where I stood and I liked him and I am a relationship type of girl. He said he was a relationship type of guy to and is just scared because he's been cheated on each time with his exes. So i'm like totally blind-sided he would even text another girl when we're proactically together! He told me he cut off all his girl friends. Not only that but he LIED to me about talking to this girl before we met. When clearly he texted her earlier that week when i found out. I just don't understand why he'd lie like that when he's been burned so many times in the past. He even told me the reason y he likes me so much is because I'm pure and innocent and honest. which i have been since day 1. its like i get the crap end of the stick here. and he's not even man enough to come and apologize to me.

He didn't do anything wrong. He's single.

I wish women (not all but a large majority) would STOP treating men like husbands and long term boyfriends! Women (a lot of them) jump from casual to instant relationship and it's one of the main relationship killers, things end before they get started. Not doing this would eliminate a lot of conflict.

You 2 were/are still casual and just b/c you like one another as in wanting to spend a significant amount of time together does not mean you are in a committed monogamous relationship so until you both have plegded to one another that you are committed and monogamous he can communicate to whomever he chooses to communicate with.

Not only should you call him first, you owe him an apology. He most likely will not contact you again after you did that psycho green eyed monster head spin on him. If he does initiate contact you better apologize immediately or it's a lost cause for you.

Just know if he decides to continue seeing you your relationship will never be the same, he will not be so honest with you again b/c you will only flip out on him, he'll lie lie lie and hide the truth b/c you obviously have some serious trust issues and can't handle the truth.

Calm down. Cool down. Apologize. And most importantly put the relationship in proper perspective. He's not your man (yet). He's not even your boyfriend yet.

He's has not communicated that he's going to be with you and only you. He has not communicated to you that he's never communicating with other women. He's single. He's a single man that is dating someone (you) casually all the while communicating and pursuing other women/another woman.

So many women get caught up in making the relationship up, building it up to mean something in a matter of days/weeks/months b/c she's met his mom and friends and met his extended family, has a key to his apartment, has access to his private space, which includes hanging out with the fam and friends--- so it must mean something, in all actuality it means NOTHING, women can no longer rely on those little signs and indicators that tell a woman he's serious about her, he's committed, he's leading her into a loving commitment. There used to be a time women could rely on certain signals and indicators but not so much anymore.

Although I'm married now, I wish I had took my own advice when I was dating, could have avoided a lot of loss of potential boyfriends, stress, emotional pain and unnecessary drama.

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Posted by babyangel0216
He is a Taurus and I am a Pisces. I do understand that i shouldn't let pride get in the way. But ever since I've met him it seems like I've been been the pursuer. I feel like he needs to meet me half way at least. I understand my reaction was a bit over board but him trying to hang out with another girl while we're practically an item is just not right. I told him how big i am on loyalty and he felt the same because he always sobes about how his ex girlfriends all cheated on him and thats y he liked me because I'm so pure and kind. Which i am. when I like someone I only have eyes on that person. I just feel like he needs to man up and be a man and contact me to apologize! I will forgive him but I just don't think I need to crawl back to him when he was the one that messed this all up! Do Taurus men really not see when they've done wrong?!

I am not sure of the rest of his chart but...

Taurus men seem to want an honest women who has NO past and are innocent and pure.

The victim, perhaps.





Only, if you are the victim of their shit they like to dismiss you...


Perhaps just have a conversation and talk it out. Worse case scenario you see you and him are not meant to be and that would be a blessing in disguise.


Do you mind sharing why you stay with him? What your thoughts are on the matter?

When you say crawl, you mean respond first and make an attempt to fix it correct?

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When I say 'crawling to him' i mean that as in I have always been the first to contact him to hang out. (More so in the beginning) I was the one to tell him I liked him first. I just feel like I was always pursuing him since day one. and its so frusterating because it makes me feel... 'unwanted' i'm so use to men wanting me and pursuing me. I'm a pisces so I love to me adored and center of a mans attention.

As to y I like him so much.. I believe its the physical touch that we have with eachother. He can just hold me and cuddle with me and I'd feel like the best woman alive. The way he touches me and hold me I just crave it and want to be next by him. I do also see him as a hard lover. and thats that most frusterating thing

If you're the one always "crawling to him" wellt that is the pattern you've established with him and it most likely won't change. It's okay to go to him but going forward temper youre behavior and from time to time sit back and allow him to come to you first so you'll KNOW that he's as equally as into it as you are and if he does not come to you then he's not that into you, which means you taking a big step back by notinvesting so much of yourself into someone who is not that into you least not enough to demonstrate how important you are to him, your emotional well being depends on it.

We cant predict the future dear
We dont know if he will call you
But better if he doesnt