wanting his attention

ok its been 2 goin on 3 years with this beautiful Taurus of a man (5/12)...Im a pisces by the way (3/13)! And we've had our bumps, our breakups, all of that, but we still cant seem to let each other go. The sex and connection is UNREAL. I have truely met my match, my soul mate with this one. I have told him my feelings openly, face-to-face but the one and only time hes "let his guard down" and show me any emotion (which was influenced by alcohol at 1am) was during a late night convo when he told me that hes falling in love with me...that was a year 1/2 ago...and NOTHING ABOUT LOVE ever since...wtf?? Now when I say anything about love or anything mushy or even ask do you miss me, he gives me this whole thing about just let it flow...how did I get to the love point...Am I telling him my feelings just to be manipulative— Im so in love with this man but after all this time he still has guards up with me. Now for the first time in 2 goin on 3 years we havent communicated in almost 2 weeks. I already know how Taurus men are with their space and 1000 questions so Im def learning how to keep busy. I havent called him nor texted him...but I miss him sooo much and i want him to know...even tho I already know he knows. We are so connected we just know things about each other...we have been together every week this month...which is alot with kids and work n all...so my gut is telling me that either hes just really busy or he wants a lil space...reminding himself and me that we arent married!! So basically stop acting like it...Just somebody help eas my poor lil pisces mind....WE SOOOO OVER THINK AND OVER ANALIZE THINGS!!! you would think i would be used to him by now and just relax...HELP!!! Taurus men please respond!!!!!!

Why is he so guarded? That's a really long time IMO to only have spoken of "love" one time, when drunk. I can't really relate. By that time, I would know how I felt about someone and would've let them know. Even if I hadn't fully committed to a marriage, they would know how I felt.

*Walks into the room, turns around and walks back out*

2-3 years that you've been farting around with this guy with no commitment?

Were you dropped on the head as a child?

Yeah, that seems a little odd because my personal involvement with Taurus men, and there's been quite a few is they are very emotional and usually have no problem showing or voicing their love for someone they really care about. In fact, my only issue with my Taurus loves was their clingy-ness and wanting to be up under me all the time. Even if they wanted space, it was usually just for a short period of time, and then they'd be back to being clingy, but I've never experienced them not showing love or saying the "I love you" words.

Posted by daydreamer22
I feel that taurus men sometimes can be afraid. I do not mean to lead you on, but sometimes they see something really special but theyre afraid to call it theirs because taurus'are afraid to lose things, and after having something so special, they do not want to be crippled by the pain of losing it. So sometimes a taurus may be afraid to say i love you. They hate having regrets. They hate saying something and having that change later because their words are etched in stone.

If that's the case. They are breaking their own hearts.

Posted by shan01
ok its been 2 goin on 3 years with this beautiful Taurus of a man (5/12)...Im a pisces by the way (3/13)! And we've had our bumps, our breakups, all of that, but we still cant seem to let each other go. The sex and connection is UNREAL. I have truely met my match, my soul mate with this one. I have told him my feelings openly, face-to-face but the one and only time hes "let his guard down" and show me any emotion (which was influenced by alcohol at 1am) was during a late night convo when he told me that hes falling in love with me...that was a year 1/2 ago...and NOTHING ABOUT LOVE ever since...wtf?? Now when I say anything about love or anything mushy or even ask do you miss me, he gives me this whole thing about just let it flow...how did I get to the love point...Am I telling him my feelings just to be manipulative— Im so in love with this man but after all this time he still has guards up with me. Now for the first time in 2 goin on 3 years we havent communicated in almost 2 weeks. I already know how Taurus men are with their space and 1000 questions so Im def learning how to keep busy. I havent called him nor texted him...but I miss him sooo much and i want him to know...even tho I already know he knows. We are so connected we just know things about each other...we have been together every week this month...which is alot with kids and work n all...so my gut is telling me that either hes just really busy or he wants a lil space...reminding himself and me that we arent married!! So basically stop acting like it...Just somebody help eas my poor lil pisces mind....WE SOOOO OVER THINK AND OVER ANALIZE THINGS!!! you would think i would be used to him by now and just relax...HELP!!! Taurus men please respond!!!!!!

I remember jenny of this story... really I think bull can't stand pisces women. I don't know what's the reason.
He is not into you maybe or I don't know. I had lots of taurus exes. I heard them say I love you when they don't drink and it was the sweetest thing I ever heard with kisses in my forehead and their eyes looks so sweet with a little sentiments buried in.

Posted by daydreamer22
I feel that taurus men sometimes can be afraid. I do not mean to lead you on, but sometimes they see something really special but theyre afraid to call it theirs because taurus'are afraid to lose things, and after having something so special, they do not want to be crippled by the pain of losing it. So sometimes a taurus may be afraid to say i love you. They hate having regrets. They hate saying something and having that change later because their words are etched in stone.

Stop enabling.

This isn't advice, you're providing detriment. Aren't you ashamed that you're willingly leading someone down the wrong path?

Posted by daydreamer22
I feel that taurus men sometimes can be afraid. I do not mean to lead you on, but sometimes they see something really special but theyre afraid to call it theirs because taurus'are afraid to lose things, and after having something so special, they do not want to be crippled by the pain of losing it. So sometimes a taurus may be afraid to say i love you. They hate having regrets. They hate saying something and having that change later because their words are etched in stone.

This is true. He seems to have some major walls up to hold out for so long though. Unless OP knows of some serious trauma/heartbreak that might make this likely, I'd say something is off.

Posted by daydreamer22
I feel that taurus men sometimes can be afraid. I do not mean to lead you on, but sometimes they see something really special but theyre afraid to call it theirs because taurus'are afraid to lose things, and after having something so special, they do not want to be crippled by the pain of losing it. So sometimes a taurus may be afraid to say i love you. They hate having regrets. They hate saying something and having that change later because their words are etched in stone.

This is very true I have personally found out.

Posted by daydreamer22
I feel that taurus men sometimes can be afraid. I do not mean to lead you on, but sometimes they see something really special but theyre afraid to call it theirs because taurus'are afraid to lose things, and after having something so special, they do not want to be crippled by the pain of losing it. So sometimes a taurus may be afraid to say i love you. They hate having regrets. They hate saying something and having that change later because their words are etched in stone.

OMG!!!! I swear you hit the nail on the head!!! I know this is it!! i mean we have talked about everything under the sun from love to fears to money to just life PERIOD...you all wanna know something funny— I asked for help yesterday esp from a male Taurus' POV and after I posted this I told myself to just literally "let it go" he's not goin anywhere...relax...its only been a week 1/2, you know this man can do any say anything he wants to at any given time, so if he hasnt then..oh well...well guess who out the blue texted me today! Im still not gonna ask 1000 questions, just be "regular" i guess lol!

So explain why you've gotten zero commitment after 2-3 years.

Go ahead. I'd like to hear your answer on this one, OP.

Oh, so this one time a taurus hurt me trribly, and i would sit in class just thinking about all that he said to me, and i'd just want to put my head down and sleep my worries and sadness away.

Guess what ? My taurus thought that was me being manipulative! Why ? because he felt I was trying to control the situation by doing " drama".

So its important, that you back off a little and do your own thing to get a taurean around. If you can stay mildly happy ( again not too over excited and happy, becaus then you become an attention seeker in their eyes), so remain cheerful go about your life, and kind of show to him what an amazing looking person you are and what a passionate lover you were ( back off a bit, so he gets space and misses the lover in you), he will ome around in his own time.

Bulls are stubborn, don't keep confronting him, you have done it once... he is very well aware of how you feel, now back off a little and wait for him to come around without playing mind games if you can 🙂