What attracts Taurus Men?

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I really appreciate your answer Geminlove! I actually stumbled this forum because I was searching up Taurus. It has been a hell of a bullride with them and so far all of the ones I've dealt with disappear out of no where. It's like someone telling you that they love you and then they're gone before you can even blink.

I guess I should have asked how to avoid that from a Taurus and what will make them go crazy over you. I do enjoy everyone's sarcasm though. ๐Ÿ˜„
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To get a taurean
-keep it classy
-have your own life, hes NOT the center of your universe JUST A PART of it
-give him space
-keep the convos lighthearted
-know how to cook
-be yourself, clich? but it is what it is
-NEVER push him to do something
-dont be a fake


Most important thing: BE PATIENCE! I hate someone who's really impatience with. ๐Ÿ˜
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Yes. But sometimes, people are tired of being patient like I did. So I don't need to regret.
I don't give up on people. I give up myself. Forget the feelings and move on.
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be agreeable tho i think cancers can get away with being snipey so the bull takes note of her.



I was told to be 'agreeable' by a Taurus man. It was another way of him saying 'do what I say' which didn't work with me at all.



It is for your own good.

Jk! Ex. Id buy u new clothes but i never want to see that ratty pair of undies ever again.
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Lol stuff like that is common sense...

Who would wear tatty undies when with a fellaโ€”

I meant general 'life' or 'everyday' stuff. Do what I say and do it my way regardless. I don't mind a strong man who leads, it's quite a turn on, but one who is weaker or achieved considerably less in life or who just really isn't of the 'position' to be dictating because quite simply, he's not of a good calibre to do so, doesn't really work for me.
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Posted by Hotbeefy
Posted by Geminlove
Dxpnet switches "b i + c h" with cookiemonster

To get a taurean
-keep it classy
-have your own life, hes NOT the center of your universe JUST A PART of it
-give him space
-keep the convos lighthearted
-know how to cook
-be yourself, clich? but it is what it is
-NEVER push him to do something
-dont be a fake


Most important thing: BE PATIENCE! I hate someone who's really impatience with. ๐Ÿ˜
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HA! You better believe it that patience is very important and you may have to be patient for years since they are very slow movers.
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Posted by Hotbeefy
Posted by Geminlove
Dxpnet switches "b i + c h" with cookiemonster

To get a taurean
-keep it classy
-have your own life, hes NOT the center of your universe JUST A PART of it
-give him space
-keep the convos lighthearted
-know how to cook
-be yourself, clich? but it is what it is
-NEVER push him to do something
-dont be a fake


Most important thing: BE PATIENCE! I hate someone who's really impatience with. ๐Ÿ˜



Yes. But sometimes, people are tired of being patient like I did. So I don't need to regret.
I don't give up on people. I give up myself. Forget the feelings and move on.
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True. A person can be patient for so long and then you have to decide for yourself if it's worth it. I read somewhere that is the reason why so many Taurus' miss out on great relationships because of how slow they are and wanting someone to be patient for a very long time.
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Posted by Hotbeefy
Posted by Geminlove
Dxpnet switches "b i + c h" with cookiemonster

To get a taurean
-keep it classy
-have your own life, hes NOT the center of your universe JUST A PART of it
-give him space
-keep the convos lighthearted
-know how to cook
-be yourself, clich? but it is what it is
-NEVER push him to do something
-dont be a fake


Most important thing: BE PATIENCE! I hate someone who's really impatience with. ๐Ÿ˜

HA! You better believe it that patience is very important and you may have to be patient for years since they are very slow movers.



If they are inpatient with me of answers/motivated/etc. It's tough shit because I need to recharge it from all those overwhelming, working hard, delicious food, etc. Not sure of other Taurus if they are the same (especially with water dominant) but I definitely need to recharged.. I really do hate if they are inpatient with me since there's nothing I can do..
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Oh, I know how Taurus' think. I am not one, best friend is one for over 20 years. I love Taurus people. There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing to recharge, that's who you are but as long as you communicate that to the other person instead of suddenly going MIA, know what I mean? That other person would gladly give you all of the space you need. But when nothing is said, that person is left in confusion and that's where the drama starts. Know what I mean? So, no problem with needing space; just let folks know.
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Thank you so much for everyone's input! When you guys mean, be "Patient". Does that mean to leave them alone "forever" after they stop responding to you and wait until they initiate first?
My story short: We had a great convo going on and he seemed really interested in knowing me but he was in the middle of moving in to his own place so it makes sense that he hasn't had the time to respond, it has been a month now and he never responded to my last mssg. Would it be alright to send him a mssg to see how he is doing or leave it alone?
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Posted by Hotbeefy
Posted by Geminlove
Dxpnet switches "b i + c h" with cookiemonster

To get a taurean
-keep it classy
-have your own life, hes NOT the center of your universe JUST A PART of it
-give him space
-keep the convos lighthearted
-know how to cook
-be yourself, clich? but it is what it is
-NEVER push him to do something
-dont be a fake


Most important thing: BE PATIENCE! I hate someone who's really impatience with. ๐Ÿ˜

HA! You better believe it that patience is very important and you may have to be patient for years since they are very slow movers.



If they are inpatient with me of answers/motivated/etc. It's tough shit because I need to recharge it from all those overwhelming, working hard, delicious food, etc. Not sure of other Taurus if they are the same (especially with water dominant) but I definitely need to recharged.. I really do hate if they are inpatient with me since there's nothing I can do..

Oh, I know how Taurus' think. I am not one, best friend is one for over 20 years. I love Taurus people. There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing to recharge, that's who you are but as long as you communicate that to the other person instead of suddenly going MIA, know what I mean? That other person would gladly give you all of the space you need. But when nothing is said, that person is left in confusion and that's where the drama starts. Know what I mean? So, no problem with needing space; just let folks know.
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Exactly. I can be very patient if I need to be but I hate being confused if you just left me hanging and hasn't said a word in months.
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Posted by kushkitty
Thank you so much for everyone's input! When you guys mean, be "Patient". Does that mean to leave them alone "forever" after they stop responding to you and wait until they initiate first?
My story short: We had a great convo going on and he seemed really interested in knowing me but he was in the middle of moving in to his own place so it makes sense that he hasn't had the time to respond, it has been a month now and he never responded to my last mssg. Would it be alright to send him a mssg to see how he is doing or leave it alone?



Personally, I wouldn't apply the 'patience' theory to this situation.

Look at it this way...

It's been one month since last contact and he didn't respond to your last message (if I've read that correctly?)

One month, that's 30 days give or take. That's 720 hours or 43,200 minutes...

43,200 minutes and he couldn't find one minute out of those 43,200 minutes to reply or send you a message or pick up the phone to call you.

I doubt you are at the forefront of his mind.

Perhaps this is a new situation or a million other reasons/excuses can be applied here.

It only takes a day or a weekend to move into a new place.

Would you want a man who doesn't bother with you for an entire month?



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Posted by Hotbeefy
Posted by Iamawinelover
Posted by Hotbeefy
Posted by Geminlove
Dxpnet switches "b i + c h" with cookiemonster

To get a taurean
-keep it classy
-have your own life, hes NOT the center of your universe JUST A PART of it
-give him space
-keep the convos lighthearted
-know how to cook
-be yourself, clich? but it is what it is
-NEVER push him to do something
-dont be a fake


Most important thing: BE PATIENCE! I hate someone who's really impatience with. ๐Ÿ˜

HA! You better believe it that patience is very important and you may have to be patient for years since they are very slow movers.



If they are inpatient with me of answers/motivated/etc. It's tough shit because I need to recharge it from all those overwhelming, working hard, delicious food, etc. Not sure of other Taurus if they are the same (especially with water dominant) but I definitely need to recharged.. I really do hate if they are inpatient with me since there's nothing I can do..

Oh, I know how Taurus' think. I am not one, best friend is one for over 20 years. I love Taurus people. There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing to recharge, that's who you are but as long as you communicate that to the other person instead of suddenly going MIA, know what I mean? That other person would gladly give you all of the space you need. But when nothing is said, that person is left in confusion and that's where the drama starts. Know what I mean? So, no problem with needing space; just let folks know.



Exactly. I can be very patient if I need to be but I hate being confused if you just left me hanging and hasn't said a word in months.
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Exactly what im going through. So i told him not that im rushing or we are going anywhere.. we can takr our time that i just dont like the confusion of what and when. He replied he doesn't like it either but what can he do that hes been ill so i thought well at
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*least we cleared that out. He also mentioned the waiting is not helping him either but due to illness hes not feeling it which is understandable.

Thats why i choose to give it some more time cuz eventually he will get better and it will not take 2 weeks or a month for him to feel better. If i dont hear from him this time in 10 days or so then im gone for good.
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Thank you so much for everyone's input! When you guys mean, be "Patient". Does that mean to leave them alone "forever" after they stop responding to you and wait until they initiate first?
My story short: We had a great convo going on and he seemed really interested in knowing me but he was in the middle of moving in to his own place so it makes sense that he hasn't had the time to respond, it has been a month now and he never responded to my last mssg. Would it be alright to send him a mssg to see how he is doing or leave it alone?



Personally, I wouldn't apply the 'patience' theory to this situation.

Look at it this way...

It's been one month since last contact and he didn't respond to your last message (if I've read that correctly?)

One month, that's 30 days give or take. That's 720 hours or 43,200 minutes...

43,200 minutes and he couldn't find one minute out of those 43,200 minutes to reply or send you a message or pick up the phone to call you.

I doubt you are at the forefront of his mind.

Perhaps this is a new situation or a million other reasons/excuses can be applied here.

It only takes a day or a weekend to move into a new place.

Would you want a man who doesn't bother with you for an entire month?





I wonder if you ever got to know how moving works. ๐Ÿ˜
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I was a self employed mortgage broker for six years. I've helped hundreds of people buy and move homes under a variety of circumstances.

I've purchased my own home and other properties.

I'm exceptionally conversant in the moving home process.

The original point still stands.
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Firstly, we don't have the entire story aside from the guy was 'in the middle of moving into his own place' and he hadn't redoonded for one month.

Was he selling/buying?

Just buying?

Renting a place?

Furnished/unfurnished?

Moving in/out of parents?

Exchange/completion day happens on one set day. You get the keys, move your stuff, finished. It's all yours. Sure, there's many other factors that go with it such as furniture buying and paperwork yet he hasn't bothered with her for 30 days. She's not at the forefront of his mind. She might not be at the stage of being a priority, again, limited info, but really, a whole month?

You made time to post on here. It took you a few minutes. Not long. You might not be moving but I'm sure you have many other things going on in life just as this guy does.

I'll put it another way...

Priority list

1) work - to pay bills
2) moving to new place
3) paperwork for new place
4) furniture for new place
5) other property related things
6) personal interests
7) family stuff
8) friends
9) other stuff that crops up in life

Where does she fit on this list?





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*least we cleared that out. He also mentioned the waiting is not helping him either but due to illness hes not feeling it which is understandable.

Thats why i choose to give it some more time cuz eventually he will get better and it will not take 2 weeks or a month for him to feel better. If i dont hear from him this time in 10 days or so then im gone for good.



I'm sorry that you're going through that now Seezy! But Wow.. is this a Taurus thing?! I've been seeing very similar stories and their common traits of them suddenly disappearing.

In fact, my last little heart break was with a Taurus guy. He told me TONS of promising plans and made me feel like the happiest girl in the world but out of no where he disappeared. I was patient but patience can only go so far especially when you don't have a clue what's going on. Ofcourse I put a lot of effort and time and got nothing but silence, heart ache and tears. (He did In fact responded once and told me he was "ill", wierd that your Taurus said exact same huh?)
So is this a common trait of the Bulls? I just don't want to go through that BULL CRAP Again! & the new guy happens to be a Taurus Ofcourse >.< I mean, should I just RUN away as fast as I can?
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Thank you for your opinion AgentP911๐Ÿ™‚ (I've noticed you have quite the experiences with the Taurus also!)

Yes it has been a month exactly from today actually!

Honestly, I don't even know him that well but I am attracted to him and would love to get to know him more. ( and just happens to be a damn Taurus ๐Ÿ˜‰ )

We've literally only chatted via FB mssgs with friendly conversations and nothing at all close to being romantic. I can tell that its his nature to be curious towards others. Though we had a great connection and shared similar interest. He would at times stop responding (Again, we're barely even friends) so I completely understand that I am not in his mind and it doesn't bother me. BUT my stubborn self wants to get to know him more but it's difficult when he does the disappearing act and I'm confused if I should initiate again.

Also, He was just moving in to his own place so that could be the reason, well it's been a month now since that so would it be alright just to shoot him a friendly mssg or would I come off as a creep/annoying lol. Whats the best way to deal with this? Do I even want to put myself in this BULLCRAP Ride again? I'm a very open minded person and would hate to judge someone based on their Zodiac sign, but seriously it seems pretty uncanny.
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*least we cleared that out. He also mentioned the waiting is not helping him either but due to illness hes not feeling it which is understandable.

Thats why i choose to give it some more time cuz eventually he will get better and it will not take 2 weeks or a month for him to feel better. If i dont hear from him this time in 10 days or so then im gone for good.
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I'm sorry that you're going through that now Seezy! But Wow.. is this a Taurus thing?! I've been seeing very similar stories and their common traits of them suddenly disappearing.

In fact, my last little heart break was with a Taurus guy. He told me TONS of promising plans and made me feel like the happiest girl in the world but out of no where he disappeared. I was patient but patience can only go so far especially when you don't have a clue what's going on. Ofcourse I put a lot of effort and time and got nothing but silence, heart ache and tears. (He did In fact responded once and told me he was "ill", wierd that your Taurus said exact same huh?)
So is this a common trait of the Bulls? I just don't want to go through that BULL CRAP Again! & the new guy happens to be a Taurus Ofcourse >.I have researched a lot and can tell you that there are many, many websites that women seem to have these problems with Taurus men. It's the same questions, just turned around but women everywhere asking them regarding a Taurus male. I can't tell you to run, that is totally up to you. Don't go into this new romance with rose colored glasses.
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Thank you so much for everyone's input! When you guys mean, be "Patient". Does that mean to leave them alone "forever" after they stop responding to you and wait until they initiate first?
My story short: We had a great convo going on and he seemed really interested in knowing me but he was in the middle of moving in to his own place so it makes sense that he hasn't had the time to respond, it has been a month now and he never responded to my last mssg. Would it be alright to send him a mssg to see how he is doing or leave it alone?



When you say you had a good convo going, do you mean in person or is this someone you know through a dating site?
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Never been to a dating site and not planning to any time soon. I've met him in person, and started chatting on FB.
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I'm really glad to hear the positive side of your story Seezy! He does seem like he likes you a lot & his atleast making the efforts. The fact that he is still talking to you and reassuring you that he's just going through something right now it's a good sign! (My last Taurus just plain ignored me, not a word at all!!)
Again, I never wanted to judge someone based on their Zodiac sign and truly believe that there are good Taurus men out there. And that's why I still want to initiate trying to get to know him more. I know that this is something that I need to decide on and take the risk. I do appreciate seeing everyone's opinions!
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Thanks Cheekyfaerie! No worries. You're right, there are so MANY possibilities and that's why I'm not the one to jump and assume on one scenario.

Great idea! Greeting him for Christmas shouldn't hurt anyone.. I mean it'll be over a month by than and that shouldn't seem creepy?

And If I read right, you mentioned you have a Taurus bf? Has he ever did the disappearing act or encounter any issues? (Sorry if this sounds like a personal question!)
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I'd go with Cheeky's response. She got in there first! Now we know you have met before but this has just been FB conversations then it's likely you're not 'real' or more to the point, it's just casual conversations. I think dropping a casual message is a great idea. He'll either respond or not. You can assess it then and maybe more conversations would be a great idea. Just treat it as casual. It's ok to want to get to know a little more about him. Does he want to know you more? As many other Taurus folk on here say, let it flow organically. It's early days.
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Cheeky,

You are right - taurus when interested NO DISAPPEARING ACT. My ex when moved another country and all the stuff.
mind you - I received a lot of emails per day. I just quit the relationship when we had a vacation to thailand.
we had a huge fight - and I don't like when he raised his voice. Nah, I was in total calm , kind in spirit
when I announced *look, I am sorry I cannot do it and it's not working anymore*. so I was expecting him to booked me back to my country on that day -

but lady, He did his best. No word. Just action. Saying - M, we can stay 4 days.. which I respect. After 4 days brought me to the airport.. down to immigration to make sure I am safe.He Gave me all I need.cash for meals and my xmas cash gift from him, and a kiss (aww) and he said when I landed I should email him. I did not do it.

then he emailed me. He asked how am i doing and hoping I came safely. which I respond saying I am ok and thank you... what triggers me is - Why contacting me when it was already agreed.

for almost 2 years the back and forth thing - because I kept trying when we get back. but then made me freaked
out when problem arise that caused me to withdraw my feelings and let him deal. So funny how women behave
instead of gaining insight for her own good - she validates the men actions which is a no deal supposedly.