What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females (Page 6)

Posted by njf226
Took me 3 years I tell you.....3 YEARS to get over a 3 month relationship with a male Scorpio........it is embedded in you once you 'get hooked'......I'm completely over this selfish bastard.........good luck to you.........

that long for a 3 month relationship? must have had a big impact on you .. the negative can make you stronger.. just a lesson learnt in life. x

So he messaged me last week and asks me out for a dinner date when he comes back in town.. and i said yes to that.. since then i havent heard from him at all. I'm a little confused now lol

Posted by Angeleyes17
So he messaged me last week and asks me out for a dinner date when he comes back in town.. and i said yes to that.. since then i havent heard from him at all. I'm a little confused now lol

Angeleyes,you're over here now? 😛

trying your dating hand on a taurus huh? 😄

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Angeleyes17
So he messaged me last week and asks me out for a dinner date when he comes back in town.. and i said yes to that.. since then i havent heard from him at all. I'm a little confused now lol

Angeleyes,you're over here now? 😛

trying your dating hand on a taurus huh? 😄

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I finally moved forward from Mr Aqua man. I havent seen him for nearly a year and he doesnt even make effort to talk to me so why should I right? This Taurus guy is really sweet and seems like such a fun guy. 🙂

Wow. I read this entire board like a novel that would not allow me to put it down until I fulfilled my ultimate challenge. I'm sooooo super late to the party but I had to share my story. I probably could have done it somewhere else, more current, but I felt a loyalty to this particular "all roads lead nowhere" quest. My situation is quite complicated but not really. I am in my early 30's and married with with 2 kids 10 and 13. I'm locked into my career and things are going pretty good. I was out shopping one day minding my own business, wjen this young man excused himself to put items on a shelf I was browsing. I didn't pay him any attention and then without thinking I looked up to ensure I wasn't in his way and then BAM! Just like that electricity went through my body like never before. Instant attraction. Rarely happens to me. I'm pretty choosy. As I attempt to recover from this blow I should not have experienced he looks into me and walks away rendering me powerless. I tried to brush it off and was starting to regain my strength until he asked me a question. "Are u a Michigan Mom?" I paused and asked myself ok what the hell? And then I looked down at my shirt which donned the maize and blue of the u of m wolverines. But it was in fact my sons little league football team so sadly I responded no with little emotion in my tone and reasonably explained the colors. He says ok that's what's up and then walks away. I bit my fists thinking... could he uave actually thought i was the mother of a college athelete? Ok. But in my mind I'm still thinking this dude is so fine I can't even take it. But why? He works here, he's not even made an effort to be attractive but yet he still is. I again attempt to brush off the spell I was slowly being placed under and contine my shopping. He found me once again as if magnetic fields kept pulling us together and he made a comment under his breath so I said "excuse me?" And he says as he is walking backwards penetrating me with those eyes "you know you look good right?" As if no one else where there. I chuckled a little and said nonchalantly "thanks, and you too". As he smoothly disappeared into the aisles again. I panicked a little. Did I just say that? I shouldn't have. But it just came out and I wanted a reason to tell him he was attractive to me without being so forward or making things awkward, so I guess that was it. I felt liberated. Now I could go on with my day. That was the climax of it all. Boy I needed that. Then

Then he reappeared this time with a piece of paper with his phone number on it and he delivered it into my hands. Mentioning that he does flooring and tilework and if I was ever interested to give him a call. I said "thanks. I just may do that." But my bubble had been bursted. He only saw me as a business opportunity. Before I coukd finish that thought he asked me if I were married. I said "yes unfortunately. oops did I say that out loud?" He laughed a little and said he was thinking the same exact thing but that he would still like an opportunity for us to be friends. I politely declined incinuating this would lead to trouble and I couldn't put him in that situation. He insisted he had nothing but respect for my situation and would never cause any harm. I walked away disappearing into the aisles this time hoping he would find me but he didn't and so the game was over. I purchased my items and exited the store hoping to catch one glimpse of him before I would never see him again. But he was gone. I slowly walked to my car and imagined him coming to help me with my 3 bags into the trunk but thought that would be too ideal. Just when a figure emerged and it was as if he was floating toward me and I was in disbelief when I helplessly asked, what are you doing out here? He stated rather matter of factly, "I came to help you put your things in the car?" I insisted he didn't have to do that and he calmly but firmly stated, I've got this sweetheart, I've got you now let me do this. I stepped back and thanked him not knowing what else to say and he asked me to call him. I asked him "why should I", he said "why shouldn't you?" I said "I can think of one" he said "well don't think like that. I told you, I have nothing but the best intentions at heart for you. I want to care for you." I told him I'd think about it and he said "please think about it please just try me." He opened my door and helped me in the car. He saw me off and told me it was a pleasure meeting me. I drove off and when I say my thoughts were consumed by him and I could not stop thinking about him that was an understatement. I don't ever remember feeling like that ever. I finally couldn't take it and I gave after 3 hours I text him saying how I was thinking of him and that it was very nice meeting him today. He didn't text back. The whole damn evening. Now I felt punked. But it was ok because I didn't need to have him around anyways. I was slowly recovering and then he called the next evening. I

was slowly recovering and then he called the next evening. I was so nervous I had prepared a list of questions in case we had nothing to talk about. He patiently answered them all. I found out that he was single, no kids, 3 jobs, oh an 23. I'm 33. I later because of my apparent obsessive nature found out he was 21 after conducting a background check. His bday cinco de mayo! Which he told me of course. This makes things a little different. 21, what can I expect from a guy so young? Can this work? Every time I talked to him which was brief btw, he spoke of wanting to send me flowers and taking me to dinner and wanting to do things for me and i don't know. I felt he was working too hard to try and impress me. I didn't want to take away his manhood but I also didn't need him to do any of those things either. I liked him just the way he was. On day 3 he told me he thinks he loves me already. I called him on BS. He said he didn't understand, but its kinda like a newborn baby, it only just came into the world but somehow you love it so much already. Simple yet profound. I believed him. Hell I loved him. And then Nothing. I heard from him no more. I tried texting him and I would get these bland responses, and then nothing again. I thought. Did I do something, say something, not say something, did he find someone else, decide he didn't want to be involved with a married woman, am I too old, not attractive enough, is he intimidated by me, am I not giving him enough to go on that I want him, WHAT THE HELL! I thought I would slit my wrists. I could not concentrate, I could not focus, my every thought was him and we only communicated for 4 days after meeting. I was not used to this. I am feeling a little cray cray. Not me? This cannot be happening I am a married mother of 2. I have a career, a great
Life until this bull entered my world. I attempted to look into voodoo, I thought abiut seeing a psychic, I prayed I tried meditating, transcending my thoughts out to him hoping they would return in the form of his calling me, professing his love or something! How could I allow this to happen and worse, I had no one to talk to about it. Finally I went back to that store 3 days straight until I saw him. Do you know what he did, he went outside and stayed there smoked a cigarette until I left just as I was coming outside cause he's trapped now, he disappeared went around the back to avoid me. What?!? There was nothing more I could say or do. I wanted to erase him fro

from my memory but it was too late. How co uhh I'd he not feel the way I do or at least partially? Another week passes and I went back up there after I told myself I would manuallyn purge him from my system. I was getting there but I needed closure. I confronted him and he tried to give me a hug but I wouldn't let him think it was ok to do me that way. I asked what was up? He said nothing he had just been working a lot. I asked why he stopped contacting me, he said he had to get another phone and lost his contacts. I wanted to punch him in his throat. I asked him if I had done something, did he just change his mind and he said no he was still interested but the butter was just too inconvienient with him working so much and me being married and I told him I respected that and I wouldn't push things. I just needed to know. I also said, we can be cool no matter what, its always love and he doesn't have to hide when he sees me. He acted as if he had no clue waht I was speaking of and I let him. I let him know I'm here for him and will make myself available to him whenever he is ready. He asked me to text him, I said why so you won't respond? He said try me. I sent him a text a few hours later exposing how I felt and basically let him no he didn't have to respond but just know that we're good no matter what. He called me 2 days in a row. The first time I told him I'd call back and I didn't. I couldn't. The 2nd day TODAY, I let him go to voicemail and I sent him a text saying "as much as I need to hear your voice, I can't talk right now. Your all UP in my head and I hope I'm in yours too. GN." Will he lose interest, will he call me again, will he say the butter is too inconvenient will it stop here? I don't know but I'm down for whatever my bull wants. My only desire is to please him, make him smile and help him win in life. I only hope he will allow me to do so, and accept my situation.

It is common in relationships Scorpio-Taurus woman is older than about ten years?

I have same with two Taurus men.

One, some of you already told here story, it's only "a friend". Haha.

Other we exchanged "looks" for three years almost every weekend at the bar we used to go, finally last Saturday he find courage (when i know he is a taurus, lol, lol, lol) to talk to me, inviting me to drink and I...I...invited him to ... to ... Oh..Oh..Oh My God!

He is all week in a work trip, coming tomorrow and see what happens. Maybe nothing more because he is damn attractive, he was with all the pretty girls in town. I Don't know if i really like him or the only one girl missing in his list.

Will keep you informed 😉

The other as we read our thoughts text me on Monday: "I've been out of town a few days. Anything new?"

(...Mmm prophetic?)

Any news on what?

He never made me that question before. Maybe I'm complety crazy, this man has me deranged.

Both are younger than me, 11 years bull-1, 9 bull-2.

My problem with Taurus men is doubt, that fucking butter only exists in my mind?

Well done to all women, only to Scorpio, is a fucking illusion of every my body??s cell?

...And I keep telling you my life, I'm fast today.

Taurus guy I lost my virginity: He is the older brother (four years older than me) my best friend in my little village. We know lifetime and always his tauru??s look over me and that magnetism between us but no words, never, not ever talk about anything, only his tenderly jokes about me.

His whole family knows what happened and i can see them smile when meet me, I can imagine the conversations at table family about me. They are a great special family.
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When I was 17 he takes me two nights with him and ... I thank god he was first, oh. It's important for a woman who leaves an indelible mark and he made —??it very special for me. But we speak nothing only grabbed my hand two nights before he leaving village and taking me to his home, to his bed. Uuff.

He always spends summers studying or working abroad, during the year we live in different cities. He two or three years after leaving a girl pregnant and married to her. They have four children now, ten years ago we didn't meet. I know his wife for a photo and physically, lol! She is (excuse but it's truth) a bad and cheap imitation of me.

So fucking strange all.

And yet we are in "paranormal contact".

Fucking bulls! Lol!

It seems I??am doomed to have long histories in mind but only one or two nights in real life.

It will always be the same?

Each of them is really special for me. They have me mentally exhausted, the truth.

One for a lifetime, another five years, other three.

I'm crazy?

Do i live in a parallel reality?

Do I'm a fucking ghost?

Oddly enough Taurus married a lower version of me. She look like me!!!



A low cost version. Impulsv: We commit suicide together, where you want? :-)

My taurus baby is 12 years younger. How can I be this blown over a guy so much younger? I never even dated a guy 1 year younger let alone 12! Age is nothing but a number but this sexy ass bull hit me with some butter so thick I have to see what it would be like if I could experience him in the flesh. I need to release some of this tension, this energy or I will surely explode. Its so hard to read him though we never exchange more than a few sentences I can't get to know him, look into him he won't let me. Well after I confronted him I was sure he would disappear forever but at least I felt like I had closure. However He has faithfully called me everyday. its only day 3 but even when I speak to him, he's more attentive than before. He called me at an unusual time too. He usually calls me around 10pm he called me at 4 today I started shaking. I get so nervous and I don't know what to say I feel 16. I don't want to push him away I just want to get on with it already. I want to just go for it and take control but i will wait on his word. He asked to see me tonight and I'm risking it all just to be with him for 5 minutes. I know we scorpio women have certain tendencies but I've not felt so obsessive, stalkerish, lustful, eager in my whole life. Men have always been easy for me to capture and conquer they always love me a hell of a lot more so I can toy with them. This one-- can take my money, my car my body I'm like a dope fiend he's my addiction. My goal is to make him hungry for me, to ruin him for any other I want to possess his soul. Sound crazy? Obsessed? I know right. I can't help it.

Jesus woman, are you for real?

Stop thinking with your vagina and pull yourself together. You're married, with kids, right?

Some guy pays you attention and you're all over it like flies on s h i t!!

I'm a Scorp female so I get where you're coming from but read your posts. It's imagined infatuation.

Do you have Venus in Scorp by any chance?

Posted by AgentP911
Jesus woman, are you for real?

Stop thinking with your vagina and pull yourself together. You're married, with kids, right?

Some guy pays you attention and you're all over it like flies on s h i t!!

I'm a Scorp female so I get where you're coming from but read your posts. It's imagined infatuation.

Do you have Venus in Scorp by any chance?

Hey lady relax, for one another left since world war the world. She needs someone to express what she feels, someone understands that stronge connection, you know nothing her marriage for judjing.
Marriage should be banned and eradicated the fax of the earth is a stupid paper, a contract that has nothing to do with love, with people, with children, with nothing, only with money and goverment. A fucking shit paper.
She thinks her vagina, yes, women do not love with the heart (well if you want to deceive take it) we love truth is the uterus, children and the men how made it. Heart is for your brother, cousin and uncle. Show respect for the essence of life, dammit.

It's a joke...not i'm totally serious but no offens you. A woman must be a woman.

Scorp! Good luck, This happens once in life you live it!

TeaMint,

No disrespect to you but read her posts. The words she uses and her motive of what she wants and why she wants it.

I appreciate she wants to vent and share but that's not all, is it?

What thought has she given to her husband, her marriage, her children, her life?

I never claimed to know anything of her marriage. Why do people always point out ridiculous things like this when I obviously couldn't know anything about her marriage and therefore am not judging it. I'm simply pointing out there's more here to consider other than c o c k and vagina. You think there isn't and you think marriage is shit paper. Fair enough.

She's just obsessing over some pubescent c o c k because he said some nice words to her. If she wants to f u c k him then just f u c k him and have done with it but it's not just about sex. She's gone all infatuated with him and that's never a good place to be.

Scorpiogyrl - believe me, I understand the connection. I would like to understand how you process things with your husband. I think if God came down and told me I was free to leave my wife and kids and be with someone who was truly my soulmate, I would still find it impossible. And not because of some abstract notion of right and wrong, but just because I would not be able to hurt them like that. How do you deal with the guilt?

Marriage is an institution demonic invented, is not natural, it is impossible for people to adapt to because love is not a contract. It is unrealistic to think they will, only a few exceptions, astrological miracle, haha.
It's very sad what you say and you have to give your wife and your daughter, I would be sad if your wife and read this thread, you're with her as a "sacrifice" and "sacrificed" are the worst people we can have our side, let, let, do not sacrifice for me. His daughter is different, wouldn't necessarily give it up. It's as I said, money, sure, but sure is dead because change is intrinsic to living, living changed. Only dead are safe, you want good security but do not live, you pretend to live.
Commitment kill love and kill peolple who do it. I think before having children have to think and talk about all these things, children besides adults.

I agree I'm not thinking clearly. I take no offense. My marriage as far as my hubby and the rest of the world is good. I've been married 14 years. I am clearly having an out of body experience. I have not had sex with this "adolescent" btw i was married at his age. I backed out of meeting him last night, I hated myself for it but knew it was the right thing to do. My husband gemini btw needed me more. He was being far more clingy than usual. Oh and btw I get male attention so often it doesn't even flatter me anymore. who cares. This however was something else. I'm no rookie. I know enough to know this was beyond attention. Could it be only physical? Likely. As a scorpio its sad that I've always evoked these feelings from others but never had them myself for anyone. It was enough watching men willing to kill each other or themselves on my behalf. I felt bad for some of them. All I asked for or thought I ever really wanted was loyalty in the end. Here I go with my happy home, who gives me more attention than my husband NO ONE. He tells me every day how beautiful I am how lucky he feels to have me and how much he adores me so attention Is not a department in which i lack. Something very unreal happened. He felt it too. I will never see this affair through and for this I am sad. I know its the RIGHT THING TO DO but ive always been a rule breaker however I am forever grateful for the feelings I never knew could exist inside of me even if it was vaginal thinking SO What. I pray they go away in time so I can go back to life as I knew it. Normal, easy going drama free and boring. Makes for a classic happy ending.

@SCORPIOGYRL: you do realize you emotionally cheated on your husband? He doesnt even know it, how are you going to make up for that? -_- Im not trying to be rude...i know of the whole scropio-taurus connection thing...but doesnt marriage mean anything to you...what would you do if you found out your husband was having berserk connection/feeling thing with some other chick?

Posted by Geminlove
@SCORPIOGYRL: you do realize you emotionally cheated on your husband? He doesnt even know it, how are you going to make up for that? -_- Im not trying to be rude...i know of the whole scropio-taurus connection thing...but doesnt marriage mean anything to you...what would you do if you found out your husband was having berserk connection/feeling thing with some other chick?

Oh, this can be avoided? How? That hypocritical world fulled of people who rationalize anything, whatever comes to them.

I would say, I'm happy for you if you are well me too.

In life a few seeking the truth but truth is not for everyone only for those who prefer it over anything else. Obviously, most live to deceive others and deceive themselves.

Lives borrow, lie. "The Pin&Pon family".

Hypocrites. What bothers me about the hypocrites is when they wrap in an aura of superior morality for supported themselves.

Antidepressant's makers and psychologists (modern pastor) delighted with all of you.

TeaMint,

With all due respect I don't think you're talking much sense. Read the her initial posts again plus her latest one. You'll see this is just a case of infatuation. A little like the OP's original posts. All we were kind of saying is for her to look at the bigger picture before leaping into something she might regret. Give it serious thought and consideration and really look at what is happening.

We get that you don't think marriage is good etc but be careful in projecting your views onto others. Sure, express yourself, and at the same time identify exactly what is happening. You never know how susceptible readers are to comments on here. The last thing this lady needs to do is follow her vagina and then she'd be back here posting about how crap she feels etc.

Impulsv thx I think you understand. I didn't ask for any of this. Now I'm left with the emotions to manage. If after having been through this I found out my husband cheated or had thoughts of another, I would be hurt but I would understand. I think highly of marriage but I also know that no one is perfect. All relationships that have stood the test of time come across this at some point so this is mines. I don't feel any kind of way about it. No regrets. Say what you may but most people just do what they want and usually say nothing more. What they don't know won't hurt blah blah blah. I don't know what will happen. I won't throw my marriage away for this but I may just need to let this play out naturally either way it goes. I have plans in seeing him tommorrow. If this is meant to happen between us it will if it doesn't happen ill take it as a sign and never look back.

Ooooh this is better than day time TV!! Let us know what happens! :-)

I have a real problem with the excuse of, —what will be will be??... like you have thrown your decision making skills out the window. Like you are not responsible for your own actions. you are

You want the thrill, you want to explore, you want to seek. I understand that, I'm heavy Plutonian. But I'm also heavy Neptune, too and understand that life throws us curves to test our resolve and we individually create our own destiny. Many paths to choose from...

You are eyes wide open. You say your marriage is good, your husband is attentive, know what you??re doing couldn't possibly benefit anyone but yourself... yet you??re going to do it anyway because it is what you desire. Then use cosmic fate to justify your own selfishness. Great for you but what I hate is the lack of consideration for all the other parties that will be hurt in the process... like your children.

He's a kid... and you??re a grown woman who is chasing him.

Yup!! ^^^^^^

Posted by SCORPIOGYRL
Impulsv thx I think you understand. I didn't ask for any of this. Now I'm left with the emotions to manage.

So basically your feelings outweigh your commitment to not just your husband, but to your family? Its basically impossible to deny that, in pursuing this, you are choosing to risk the wellbeing, and even the existence of, your marriage and family. I say this, not to judge you at all, but just to kind of underscore how powerful these feelings apparently are for you. You may not want to throw your marriage away, but its very possible that in pursuing the connection, it grows stronger and you eventually leave your husband, splitting your family up, kids taking the residual damage, etc. Its very possible also that your husband finds out and initiates divorce. So the risk is there. You're willing to risk these things. Strong emotion trumps commitment and loyalty on many levels here.

This is where I can't go. I expect that a commitment to be loyal to someone, will be tested at some point, by strong emotions that pull in another direction. I would think the point of making such a commitment to another, with this knowledge, is to pledge to actually *resist* these temptations when they come. You seem to see this as par for the course as well, but don't feel compelled to resist - indeed, you feel compelled to succumb. You even say you "don't feel any kind of way about it. No regrets." I mean its basically a bald admission to extreme self-centeredness, at the expense of others - without guilt. Loyalty to one's own emotions over and above anything. Something I admit I've seen a lot in water signs.

All this over a shop boy on work experience who glanced at her in the bog roll aisle in the local Walmart or whatever...

Sarcasm rules!!

Posted by Mindseye0
Instead of roasting the woman about her 'immoral' desires, how about acknowledging that the commitment of marriage is unnatural and that the universe operates and sends us in directions that are beyond human comprehension let alone current societal standards. She shouldn't be guilty about her connection.

I'm not sure the word "unnatural" even has much meaning. Anything that exists in nature, including the social customs of human beings (however arbitrary), falls under the realm of the "natural". If you mean "unnatural" in the sense that certain aspects of our biology will predispose us to having difficulty with it, that is a very weak and broad concept, that could be said of anything that requires self-control. We make decisions to work against our biological drives daily in the interest of a higher-order good - choosing cooperation over competition, the good of a group over the good of an individual, etc.

I see a lot of this on dxp - people hopping on these threads and using them as a platform to espouse their position on marriage. Really though, that's entirely beside the point. She isn't disputing the validity of marriage. She already accepted that when she got married, seems to still actually value her marriage to some degree, and it would be a bit ad hoc for her to change her view on marriage in light of this situation. We'd really be naive to accept an "enlightened" view on marriage from her, given that her change of belief on the matter would not be due to matters of principle, but very obviously due to an *inability* on her part (though many other have been able) to do what is expected to be difficult at times, by all parties who enter into such an agreement ("in good times and bad", "for better or for worse", etc.).

For me, its not about roasting her or casting judgment, though its hard to question her without it sounding that way - I'm just trying to understand how she compartmentalizes this, understands it within her own moral framework, how she prioritizes her own feelings and those of others in her life, how she deals with the tension and guilt (if there is any), etc.

I've experienced the same kind of connection she has, and I cannot judge her for indulging it. I probably would have under different circumstances. For the most part, I chose a *long-range* control where I never allowed myself to get close enough to feel

Posted by AgentP911
All this over a shop boy on work experience who glanced at her in the bog roll aisle in the local Walmart or whatever...

Sarcasm rules!!

The lack of external reasons for these two to link up, just underscores how powerful the connection can actually be though. She doesn't seem to be attention-starved, and this doesn't seem like the norm for her. If soul-level of energetic bonds like this can occur between people, you'd expect them to dissolve a lot of the superficial criteria we have for mate selection, no?

cut off...

For the most part, I chose a *long-range* control where I never allowed myself to get close enough to feel that full "in your face" temptation. But I DID choose to enter into that danger zone a couple of times. Circumstances blocked me completely in those instances though.

Posted by Infinite8


😏 Water sign here. I've NEVER cheated on ANYONE in my life.

Have you felt this kind of connection *while* married though? And what do you think you would do if you did?

Same question for you Impulsv - if your bull came along, and you were feeling it in its full intensity, while you were with your Leo, what would you do?

I think part of the issue is the euphoria experienced. Its almost impossible for it not to re-prioritize moral boundaries. I know I overstepped in several areas I never thought I would have. Every time you lock eyes with this person, you're getting a rush similar to what a heroine addict feels when he jabs a needle in his arm - the kind of euphoria that allows him to overlook the fact that he's destroying his body, his life, enslaving himself, letting down people who are connected to him, and rely on him in life, etc. Its hard to experience guilt/remorse/shame or really any of the usual negative emotions that help to reign in unfaithfulness under such circumstances - the euphoria washes those away. You're left with just your principles and none of the moral *intuition* to guide you.

Posted by Infinite8
*not happened WHILE married ^^^

I think fear of the connection itself can play a role too. I know it did for me. But principles are a huge factor, and I definitely know they were for me as well. Impulsv raises the issue of authenticity, but being "authentic" is about more than just being authentic with your emotions; its also about being authentic with your principles. I think my principles are actually more important to me than how I feel. Either way you decide, some aspect of who you authentically are, is going to suffer. Its pretty awesome.

Posted by Infinite8


Gosh, TLS... why won't you just allow me to relish in the fact that this hasn't happened to me yet 😛

I think you should relish in that fact. As great as it feels, it is such a destructive energy. A connection like this can sweep in and wipe away a really positive/healthy and *strong* emotional bond you already have. People like to say things like "oh, well it revealed that what was there wasn't real", etc., and thought it FEELS like that after the fact because nothing is left after the energy obliterates all existing attachments, that was definitely not the case beforehand. The bond I had with my Sag was passionate, fun, positive, etc. - the best I had ever had. Further, even the bond I felt with my own child was affected - it made me almost unavailable emotionally for her as well - that is how strong it was. And I basically live for my child. Its a strange universe we live in - astrological energetic connections between people, between our selves and the moving parts of the cosmos, people who are potentially soulmates/twin flames, past-life connections, wandering around and bumping into us....How to decipher what is of true value, and what isn't....How to navigate it all....

As much as our culture elevates the values of "following your heart", "pursuing your dreams", "making the most of your life", there's also an undeniable value in striving to be content and grateful, finding acceptance, and sacrificing personal ambition for the good of others. The latter values come into play more so when you take on the responsibility of bonding with another, forming a family, etc. I think most cultures have always recognized the potential for self-deception, if not the Universe itself putting you to the test and enticing you, putting your principles to the test, seeing how much you will risk to satisfy your greed, etc., embodied in and personified as the "trickster" in most of the great religions and myths.

I don't think its entirely a coincidence that the values most emphasized and promulgated by the popular media in our society (follow your heart, put your self first, live for the now) are more along the impulse-driven end of the spectrum, and we also just happen to be in a consumer-oriented society, where that impulsive sort of mentality serves the corporate interests best. Traditional values and loyalties are labeled as restricting and outmoded, yet I wonder to what extent this is due to how routinely we're brainwashed into to being discontent with who we are, and what we have. "Freedom" becomes a form of control. And maybe we just develop new mythologies (soul mates, twin flames, etc.) to lend moral justification to our behaviors. Maybe we give these impulses the highest form of divine sanction, by rooting them in the pre-ordained operations of the Heavens.

Just a thought....

Posted by Impulsv
Sure the above sounds great. But if u cut urself off from your souls path n knowing ull End up in a very miserable existence. U can't deny that part is equally as important as ur intellectualizing. I suppose it's about striking a balance n not completely dismissing one or the other.

There you go - striking a balance. For that sometimes you have to wait long periods of time, and deliberate. And if the emotions were real, they should last, no? Even beyond this life. Its not an easy decision. But if all of the spiritual angles people take on these matters are correct, then it really isn't just one life to live, is it? Only in recent centuries, post-Industrial Revolution have we even had this much freedom in who we pursue as a love interest - previous collectivist societies seeing the bond of marriage to be much more about solidarity within a community, than about strictly individual fulfillment.

None of us have an instruction manual. I think this Scorpio woman whose most recently posted on this thread is a great example of someone being too hasty to follow their emotions down a potentially dangerous path - a path that risks the destruction of not just her self, but her family. And that's not a condemnation of her. She has to choose her own path, and apparently she thinks its worth it. If we're to find a balance though, we have to at least take a good look at the opposing view.

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Posted by AgentP911
All this over a shop boy on work experience who glanced at her in the bog roll aisle in the local Walmart or whatever...

Sarcasm rules!!

The lack of external reasons for these two to link up, just underscores how powerful the connection can actually be though. She doesn't seem to be attention-starved, and this doesn't seem like the norm for her. If soul-level of energetic bonds like this can occur between people, you'd expect them to dissolve a lot of the superficial criteria we have for mate selection, no?

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I'm not disputing her 'soul connection' if that's what it actually is. I'm just stripping away all the waffle and summarising it for what I think it is.

I re-read her initial posts and I still stand by my assessment. Lust and infatuation at its best. She's thinking with her fanny (vagina).

Thats why I asked if she had Venus in Scorpio. Just out of curiosity. She didn't answer.

Posted by AgentP911


I re-read her initial posts and I still stand by my assessment. Lust and infatuation at its best. She's thinking with her fanny (vagina).

LOL, I know at least one Scorp woman on dxp who says this is what Scorp women are supposed to think with; this is what makes a woman a "real woman" basically....I've also heard it said that when a Scorp finds "the one", this is where she knows it....She feels it in the nether regions. LOL.

Posted by AgentP911
Thats why I asked if she had Venus in Scorpio. Just out of curiosity. She didn't answer.

LOL - could it be just that the heavier the Scorp influence, the more you think with your loins?

Posted by Infinite8
I don't believe in sacrificing your whole life. Sacrifice to me, should come in moments of your life... not your whole life.

It doesn't make me happy knowing that my parents or loved ones SACRIFICED themselves for me. I would want to know that they did what they did out of pleasure and love. Pleased people exude great energy... and children/loved ones can see that.

I agree, but a lot of these situations where folks are jumping ship, or at least docking with the Sirens for a bit, particularly this latest Scorp, are not ones where the person is utterly miserable. It is often just a matter of wanting more.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by AgentP911
Thats why I asked if she had Venus in Scorpio. Just out of curiosity. She didn't answer.

LOL - could it be just that the heavier the Scorp influence, the more you think with your loins?

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Ha! No not quite... I've got Scorp Sun and Venus and I know how it can lead to obsession and/or infatuation. My sister is a Libra Sun with Scorp Venus and she can also be full on with emotions and obsessive with partners. There was another person who posted a similar scenario in the Scorp forum and I rightly guessed she was a Scorp Venus!

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Posted by AgentP911


I re-read her initial posts and I still stand by my assessment. Lust and infatuation at its best. She's thinking with her fanny (vagina).

LOL, I know at least one Scorp woman on dxp who says this is what Scorp women are supposed to think with; this is what makes a woman a "real woman" basically....I've also heard it said that when a Scorp finds "the one", this is where she knows it....She feels it in the nether regions. LOL.

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Do you know, I would actually have to agree with the latter part of your statement.

If I think back over the last 25 years (so that's from age 10 to nearly 35) and think about my crushes and loves I think there is truth here.

The only two people I felt intense love/passion for were the only two who triggered 'down there' off!! I can recall both situations/relationships right now and I remember the initial 'ohhhhh heeelllllooo' moment where I thought 'he's very nice!!'

I remember always wanting them and desiring them in that way. Even after major fights, and they were pretty major, if I still wanted and desired them then it was all good! That feeling never wained.

The first one was physically attractive to me and I was drawn to him. The second one I met under odd circumstances and didn't think anything, he was ok but not my 'type' at all but after email exchange and meeting up a few times (plus he was a flash git and sent me a couple of presents for my birthday) I had an urge to kiss him and ermmm yeah, down there kicked in. A week later I got a lightening bolt moment and knew this would be something major.

There is a third one. I thought he was cute and after chatting for a few hours he kissed me which was a surprise. I was like 'oooooooohhhhhh...' and I wanted more!! He kissed my neck and I got chills!! 😉 I hope to see my Taurus again :-)

So yeah, there is truth in that theory!!

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by AgentP911


I re-read her initial posts and I still stand by my assessment. Lust and infatuation at its best. She's thinking with her fanny (vagina).

LOL, I know at least one Scorp woman on dxp who says this is what Scorp women are supposed to think with; this is what makes a woman a "real woman" basically....I've also heard it said that when a Scorp finds "the one", this is where she knows it....She feels it in the nether regions. LOL.

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That what I said and is the truth, the heart of a woman is her uterus, they want to what goes in and what comes out of there. "Be a good wife" or "do nothing sinful married woman" is a huge shit. Love is water, stagnant water if you let rot must be free, we should take life more freely, people are afraid of freedom are tied why, commit, so you know what to do, such as going to church, does not need to think and give you all the answers. The problem is they are dead before their time any more. Insurance = Dead, Life = Change.
E-"motions", the word says it.
The reason is overvalued, this is a bitch sell you what you want. It's like the "scientific studies", eh, prepare me one that says to drink two liters of milk every day is good and they prepare, and tomorrow the opposite.
Prefer my baser instincts, those are never wrong and if I'm paying a price i do it, the grave will take everything anyway and came here to live, not to be a fucking robot or fucking perfect.
That does not mean someone cheating, I never did.
90% of the people you see on the street are zombies, walking dead, Hitler is more alive in me than them.

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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by AgentP911


I re-read her initial posts and I still stand by my assessment. Lust and infatuation at its best. She's thinking with her fanny (vagina).

LOL, I know at least one Scorp woman on dxp who says this is what Scorp women are supposed to think with; this is what makes a woman a "real woman" basically....I've also heard it said that when a Scorp finds "the one", this is where she knows it....She feels it in the nether regions. LOL.

Do you know, I would actually have to agree with the latter part of your statement.

If I think back over the last 25 years (so that's from age 10 to nearly 35) and think about my crushes and loves I think there is truth here.

The only two people I felt intense love/passion for were the only two who triggered 'down there' off!! I can recall both situations/relationships right now and I remember the initial 'ohhhhh heeelllllooo' moment where I thought 'he's very nice!!'

I remember always wanting them and desiring them in that way. Even after major fights, and they were pretty major, if I still wanted and desired them then it was all good! That feeling never wained.

The first one was physically attractive to me and I was drawn to him. The second one I met under odd circumstances and didn't think anything, he was ok but not my 'type' at all but after email exchange and meeting up a few times (plus he was a flash git and sent me a couple of presents for my birthday) I had an urge to kiss him and ermmm yeah, down there kicked in. A week later I got a lightening bolt moment and knew this would be something major.

There is a third one. I thought he was cute and after chatting for a few hours he kissed me which was a surprise. I was like 'oooooooohhhhhh...' and I wanted more!! He kissed my neck and I got chills!! 😉 I hope to see my Taurus again :-)

So yeah, there is truth in that theory!!

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But of course, pleeeaaseee! The remaining males only fill gaps until they reach these. If a woman does not recognize this as a truth in her life, two things happen:

1. It's a fucking insane, bad bitch (I am pro-fucking-sane "bitch", I will explain my theory any day now).

2. Is

2. Is dead in life.
NEVER respect a woman as a man, male, male to a man she does not feel anything. NEVER. Then come the deception, divorce, the cries and hatred. Not the opposite. If ever respects will hate it, it always will respect that place as a man earned. So that part or am I mistaken? I always thought so.
It's a small detail that people usually fail.

What the fuck are you waffling about TeaMint?

Little of what you type actually makes coherent sense.

You're going on about Hitler and zombies for fuck sake.

OMG, TLS how in the hell do you have 34 pages of thoughts?

Will this ever end?