What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females (Page 7)

Posted by AgentP911
What the fuck are you waffling about TeaMint?

Little of what you type actually makes coherent sense.

You're going on about Hitler and zombies for fuck sake.

Don't worry, I'm used to living with it. It's just a joke (to me is serious). "Hitler is more alive than all the zombies you see on the street." It is one of my nonsense, quit.

Circulate, circulate, it's nothing happened here...Hahaha 😉

Posted by Astrobyn
OMG, TLS how in the hell do you have 34 pages of thoughts?

Will this ever end?

lol!...I am not the one who keeps bumping this thread.....but it continues to bear fruit....presently we're approaching a consensus that Scorpios have some sort of soulmate detector in their vagina...

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Posted by Astrobyn
OMG, TLS how in the hell do you have 34 pages of thoughts?

Will this ever end?

lol!...I am not the one who keeps bumping this thread.....but it continues to bear fruit....presently we're approaching a consensus that Scorpios have some sort of soulmate detector in their vagina...

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Let me clarify: I didn't say "think with the vagina", I said "LOVE with the uterus". Are very different verbs and nouns, ok?

lol. Agentp911 mentioned it. hahaha so funny.

Posted by TeaMint
Stop laughing at me, or follow I don't, hehe.

People don't understand in my native language...to expect in English.

Damn! I would go to England some time if they were not son??s damn bitches perfidious Albion.

Oi! I'm English and live in England so careful with your tone and accusations.

Which ex commonwealth country might you hail from then? There's always some unappreciative whinger lurking from there who think they're hard done by.

Frankly, aside from the Chinese, I think everyone hates the English for some reason or another. Even Scotland want to piss off... Yeah, good luck with that... Of you go then!

It's not the quality of your English or that you 'talk' like Yoda. It's just that the content and your points are not very sound or clear and resemble the ramblings of (insert your choice of word here...).

I don't hate any internet's digimon, not have time or desires but...

...Mmm...Let me dream...Imagine all the people...living in a world...would be such a beautiful place...without perfidious Albi?_n... Aeh...Sigh...

Ops, suddenly I fell out of bed, sorry my lady!

:-)

You called the English sons of bitches and basically 'lying bastards'.

Naturally, that blankets us all.

Perhaps I'll just call you a 'sand kaffir' on account of your liking for mint tea!

Posted by AgentP911
You called the English sons of bitches and basically 'lying bastards'.

Naturally, that blankets us all.

Perhaps I'll just call you a 'sand kaffir' on account of your liking for mint tea!

Don't you have nothing to scrub?

The carpet in the kitchen perhaps?

Haha.

My dear lady anglodarwinian, now Iam appealing to you. Before only "the perfidious Albion", in my country say "that itches, eat garlic".

Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

Posted by AgentP911
Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

What a silly person you are...omg.

Hey Taurus, I didn't read the whole thing so forgive my ignorance. Did you ever get with the girl?

lol... well I had to read the new comments that were added to this...
I will admit the sexual attraction, is OFF THE CHARTS. 😕

Posted by Shruikan
Hey Taurus, I didn't read the whole thing so forgive my ignorance. Did you ever get with the girl?

No, the short of it is that I chose to move forward with a Sag I had been on and off with, and that was really good with my kid. I've been with her since.

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Posted by AgentP911
Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

What a silly person you are...omg.

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Jesus Christ, there's another one who needs to get a sense of humour!

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Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

What a silly person you are...omg.

Jesus Christ, there's another one who needs to get a sense of humour!

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You know I was on sense of humor when I said "Perfidious Albion" referring to my bad English, didn't know you are English, didn't refer to yo. Insults postray very well who makes. Bastard, false hypocritical moralizing Victorian ... I wonder what kind of family trauma you have to speaks like a crazy cockatoo peruanian.

I will ignore you because you bore me, I prefer to read the official government gazette.

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Posted by Shruikan
Hey Taurus, I didn't read the whole thing so forgive my ignorance. Did you ever get with the girl?

No, the short of it is that I chose to move forward with a Sag I had been on and off with, and that was really good with my kid. I've been with her since.

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Ah good. Congrats. I hope it works out for you. I read the first few pages and I wanted to know how it ended. Cheers man

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Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

What a silly person you are...omg.

Jesus Christ, there's another one who needs to get a sense of humour!

You know I was on sense of humor when I said "Perfidious Albion" referring to my bad English, didn't know you are English, didn't refer to yo. Insults postray very well who makes. Bastard, false hypocritical moralizing Victorian ... I wonder what kind of family trauma you have to speaks like a crazy cockatoo peruanian.

I will ignore you because you bore me, I prefer to read the official government gazette.

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Using perfidious albion to reference your bad use of the English language doesn't actually make any sense. Like most of the stuff you type.

The use of this term is actually considered in the same lines as racism such as white person calling a black person a nigger or using 'paki' etc and also like homophobia. Hence calling you out on it. Clearly you were not aware this is a derogatory term.

Please do continue to wonder about my family trauma. I'm sure this will occupy your pea sized brain.

Enjoy your government gazette. I'm sure you'll learn of further propaganda which you may use to fill up your posts on here.

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Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

What a silly person you are...omg.

Jesus Christ, there's another one who needs to get a sense of humour!

You know I was on sense of humor when I said "Perfidious Albion" referring to my bad English, didn't know you are English, didn't refer to yo. Insults postray very well who makes. Bastard, false hypocritical moralizing Victorian ... I wonder what kind of family trauma you have to speaks like a crazy cockatoo peruanian.

I will ignore you because you bore me, I prefer to read the official government gazette.

Using perfidious albion to reference your bad use of the English language doesn't actually make any sense. Like most of the stuff you type.

The use of this term is actually considered in the same lines as racism such as white person calling a black person a nigger or using 'paki' etc and also like homophobia. Hence calling you out on it. Clearly you were not aware this is a derogatory term.

Please do continue to wonder about my family trauma. I'm sure this will occupy your pea sized brain.

Enjoy your government gazette. I'm sure you'll learn of further propaganda which you may use to fill up your posts on here.

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Zzzzzzzzz

I use perfidious Albion and what I please when I please. If it bothers you is your fucking problem not mine and not bored me more, lady. Enought.

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Posted by AgentP911
Why on earth would you have a carpet in a kitchen?

Yeah, I've heard garlic cures many things including anal itching and ring worm. You poor bastard! 😉

What a silly person you are...omg.

Jesus Christ, there's another one who needs to get a sense of humour!

You know I was on sense of humor when I said "Perfidious Albion" referring to my bad English, didn't know you are English, didn't refer to yo. Insults postray very well who makes. Bastard, false hypocritical moralizing Victorian ... I wonder what kind of family trauma you have to speaks like a crazy cockatoo peruanian.

I will ignore you because you bore me, I prefer to read the official government gazette.

Using perfidious albion to reference your bad use of the English language doesn't actually make any sense. Like most of the stuff you type.

The use of this term is actually considered in the same lines as racism such as white person calling a black person a nigger or using 'paki' etc and also like homophobia. Hence calling you out on it. Clearly you were not aware this is a derogatory term.

Please do continue to wonder about my family trauma. I'm sure this will occupy your pea sized brain.

Enjoy your government gazette. I'm sure you'll learn of further propaganda which you may use to fill up your posts on here.

Zzzzzzzzz

I use perfidious Albion and what I please when I please. If it bothers you is your fucking problem not mine and not bored me more, lady. Enought.

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Ignorant prick.

Yawn...

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Posted by Shruikan
Hey Taurus, I didn't read the whole thing so forgive my ignorance. Did you ever get with the girl?

No, the short of it is that I chose to move forward with a Sag I had been on and off with, and that was really good with my kid. I've been with her since.

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Haha, I didn't really read all of it either. But I really enjoyed your post. I'm a Scorpio female and my taurus boyfriend and I read this together and it made us laugh. But one thing you only briefly mentioned was how attracted Scorpios are to Tauruses as well. I LOVE Tauruses. The attraction is unbelievable. Problem is, Scorpios won't reveal as much of themselves as quickly as a Scorpio, and that's the problem. Me specifically, I like when a man can dominate me. And it seems only Taurus men have the mental will, and strength to do this. The thing is, I get uninterested very easily. I think all Scorpio women do. So when a man reveals too much (which almost always happens) I get bored, the game is over. I've already won. But somehow, my taurus managed to turn my own game on me. He gave me just enough information to keep me wanting more, and then got me to open up to him. He made me fall in love with him first. That's the trick with Scorpios, that's how you win the game. Because once they love you, they won't abandon you (atleast the awesome ones won't) I've been hooked ever since. But I'm happy you ended up with a Sag. I don't think it would've worked out with the Scorpio.

AriKathleen: Problem is, Scorpios won't reveal as much of themselves as quickly as a Scorpio, and that's the problem.

>>>I can relate as I really don't reveal much myself. I may be expressive here, but I have a Cap Ascendant, and I really don't show emotion or interest in people in public, if I don't already know you.

Ari: So when a man reveals too much (which almost always happens) I get bored, the game is over.

>>>Again, I'm the same. Women always cave early; usually admit to liking me within the 1st two weeks of knowing me, and I'm kinda bored from then on. Kills the thrill of the hunt. I like to keep things at friendship status for a loooooong time. This Scorp was the opposite though. She did the revealing, attempted to initiate convo/flirtation, followed me, and obsessively stared. As I've said so many times, I've never seen someone signal so much attraction. At one point, I actually felt like that - like I had won: "look how smitten this girl is. Game over.", etc. But just when I thought I had the upper hand, and started to ignore a bit (also bc it kinda made me uncomfortable how much she was making eye contact), she pulled back and started ignoring me. LOL, and I was like "WAAAAIT...woah now. You aren't supposed to do that. Don't use my moves!" Then she'd come back and we'd have a sort of reconciliation and start staring again. Same games went on FOREVER. When it gets you high to look in someone eyes, its hard to get bored of it. But yeah, had to end sometime. I think both signs use a lot of the same tactics, so it serves as a mirror. If you don't like something the other is doing, often you are really forced to deal with the fact that you do the same, or have done it.

Ari: But I'm happy you ended up with a Sag. I don't think it would've worked out with the Scorpio.

>>>You never know I guess. I felt instinctively it would've been passionate, but short-lived. So ultimately not worth the risk to me, just bc of that. But maybe in another life....Definitely turned me on to a whole new dynamic between Taurus and Scorpio that I had never even heard of, taught me a ton of lessons, etc. Really a karmic connection, changed my life even without us ever speaking a word. And I will always keep her in my heart in some way.

Posted by Impulsv
Found this

"What stands in the way
Someone sent this to me and it really resonated--maybe you

Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another- they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives- they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love's leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don't- they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path- readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover.

--Jeff Brown"

Stop barging in on my stubborn denial with your truth...lol. That's a great quote actually.

Posted by Impulsv
Found this

"What stands in the way
Someone sent this to me and it really resonated--maybe you

Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another- they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives- they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love's leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don't- they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path- readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover.

--Jeff Brown"

+10.

Look, in world there is so much lack of love, when someone dares to love as we are, we ran, we don't want to see us as we are. Violence is so subtle from birth that we have internalized as nothing but affects, is there checking every cell in our body.

TLS with its ability Gemini streamlines the whole story but scorpio feels primary, instinctive level, we know our guts that connection but can not explain it, it's like asking a man why you like women? or a baby why you look your mother chest? They would not know give a reason easily understood.

So we felt the Scorpio, shame people are too cowardly, people are bads to their own hearts.

TLS, I appreciate your you know...but your history hurts even me.

Shame on security, the money...(disguised as moral or principles), it's satanic. We have to fear losing these magical things happen rarely.

And sure you have misunderstood me, I have been totally faithful a man ten years, fully obeying my uterus, when I will be back to feel, again. There is not cheating but I can not always say I'm gonna love you, I will always fight for love you but if I promise you would be false idiot, no one can promise that.

The rest is just a matter of putting off of old traditions and institutions and organize us sincerest life-form.

It's not impossible, I've done it.

I don't know where to begin. I appreciate all of the opinions directed toward me or my situation whether positive or negative. TLS your words are prophetic when it comes to the TS connection. I never knew. You totally get me. I think? Alot has and hasnt happened. First of all I had this really amazing evening planned with him and then the unthinkable. I got so sick I had to cancel. I tried everything in my power to suck it up but the heavens had something else in mind. We talked that night--for a short while and although he seems very patient, I could hear something in his voice. He said as if it took everything in him to say it-I need to see you. But I don't know if I will be able to control myself around you. It's like I feel if I get started with you, I'm going to want to be with you all the time and I can't. I gently reassured him that it would be ok and that we would figure it out when we get there but let's just get there first. Let things happen naturally. He said ok. Call me tomorrow. I did, he didn't answer so I left a vm. He called me back we talked briefly and he mentioned he was busy working and he couldn't answer right away but wanted to call and check on me and blah blah. I told him to relax I just wanted to say hi and don't worry if you're busy just hit me later. He said he should be the one tripping right now because he never gets to hear from me. Hmmm are u trying to say I never contact you? Reach out to you? I didn't say that but it made me think. He told me he'd call later. He didn't. I didn't want to call because it was his turn. Day 1 passes, then day 2,3,4 no call. I called Friday night no answer. Felt like an idiot. Text him Saturday afternoon no response. Again idiot. Then Sunday I text him about how I was feeling better and wanted to reschedule and spend some QT really soon and yep you guessed... nothing. IDIOT! Serves me right for behaving like this. So I've been playing it all over in my head WHAT went wrong?? (Other than I'm married) why couldn't this work as a short term fling? Why won't he respond? I've read all too much about taurus men and their disappearing acts. Hard to believe it's just the simple he's just not that into you. Very difficult to believe. I hear they like you to chase them, they can be aggressive at first and then nothing. So I kept reaching out to him via text but after 3 attempts no response what is there left to think? So Wednesday I sent one final text it was pretty long basi

basically saying that I still want him but his actions don't say the same. I basically let him know how I felt in terms of interest, like, desire and that I thought we would make good friends with or without benefits. Anyways I said If I didn't hear back this time... I know what it is and I wouldn't contact him again. I felt liberated. He called the next afternoon. But I didn't answer. Afraid of how I would respond. Afraid to go back to that place in my head. Wondering if he'll call, or what he's thinking or anything. Can't say I won't ever answer. He probably won't call again anyway and for some reason I'm grateful. I'll always care for him, and desire him or at least our magnetic connection but I can't ride that BULL with his hot and cold ways. Hell maybe he just isn't interested and I'm only seeing and hearing what I want to see and hear. My hubby and I are doing fine. I value my marriage, I would never leave my family,I knew there was no future with this guy in a practical sense. I just wanted to be true to myself and give in to my desires for once and deal with the guilt (if any- and only if the sex was bad) later. I'm glad things are finally getting back to normal in my life. Otherwise I've enjoyed this thread thoroughly.

You guys had very infrequent physical contact and look how it almost potentially destroyed your family really. Imagine being in the office very day with this person. The attraction builds and builds....You cannot even do your job at all. I literally became a master at faking my job because I couldn't think about one single thing besides her. Its still almost impossible to get them out of your head/heart, but the physical impact is so much less when not in their presence. So you just learn to live with their ghost.

And that TLS is the sad part. Living with the ghost.I feel for you having to be around her everyday. For some reason I think I'd feel better if I COULD see him. Might take the edge off. I could find a flaw or minute detail that turned me off and it could end. This cold turkey butter is not easy. But you are the BULL. You have the upper hand in this case. I wish I'd never met him. I too have been so unproductive at work thinking about this. Making efforts to look busy because my thoughts are either about him or trying not to think about him. I cannot think of anything else although im trying. I'm alot better today than 2 weeks ago but I still feel the same. Btw my hubby found out. He went though my phone. Found a pic I kept of him. I shouldve deleted it but it's all I had. He found texts that were well-inappropriate. He was EXTREMELY UPSET and told me he was going to leave me. I didn't blame him because if the shoe were on the other foot... but anyways he decided that he wanted us to be together as a family, that he can't live without me (his words) and that we need to work on our marriage whatever it takes. It was too late though. I was hooked on the idea of "there is something missing in my life and unfortunately my husband couldn't give it to me if he tried" I selfishly decided I needed this and despite my husband's efforts I have been fixated on this goal. 2 weeks after he found out I made another attempt to see him and was caught with another text "I need more time call u in a minute". I was in the shower, told him I was going for drinks with my girlfriend. Although I had his number saved under another name he knew. STILL, I attempted to see him (never told him I'd been caught) that's when I got sick and couldn't go. At that point I felt there was some force in favor of my husband keeping me from seeing him. So finally after he stopped contacting me I decided to let it go but then I couldn't. I texted him 3 times with no response and then a final text like this is it. He called didn't talk to him. But I took that as a sign he's still interested. So although I decided I would not call I figured this is my last opportunity to connect with him in person sooooo I sent him a pic collage of 5 or 6 of my prettiest pics including a money shot. I put a quote at the bottom "yes I make mistakes that I will never make excuses for. Like leaving girls who love me and constantly seducing h@% $ -Drake. I thought of you LOL."

AS if that weren't en

AS if that weren't enough... (I'm out of control) I send him a text later that night stating "I see you like for me to chase you so and although I don't enjoy texting you I need to see you. I'm going out with my girlfriends tomorrow night and id really, really love to see you later. I'll call you tomorrow." Take the husband out of the equation. Is this all too forward, desperate, crazy for a taurus? I mean does he think I'm pathetic because I feel pathetic going after him like this. How would you feel? Annoyed, flattered, hesitant? If I get the nerve actually call him and he doesn't answer, or call/txt me back. I have no choice. I have exhausted all that is within me to get him and then I totally surrender. No looking back, no future attempts to make things right even if he called me everyday when I'm done- I'm done. Tonight is the moment of truth. I have a feeling it will go exactly as planned. No him. Me dissapointed and hopefully able to walk away graciously and move on forever.

Ooooohhh scorpiogyrl you are thinking with your loins woman!! Take a page out of Taurus' book and use the practical logical part of you, we have it in spades too when we shove all the feeling aside. It's your call but your call involves some other key players although I'm sure you know that. Slow your roll....

Scorpiogyrl, why is that you are playing fire with Taurus guy? You will get hurt on that. Let him free. Lol. Unless he is the one chasing you. I guess you are young. A matured Scorpio knows where her brain is. I am not insulting you lady but the story is like you dishonor your marriage but you said you *value* that. How do you explain that. How could you be so selfish and sounds like your husband is good. Leave that guy before you face judgement and shame. Scorpios ruled sex. And that is a curse within. I know it'd not easy and I won't validate that *amazing magnet connection* that Taurus and Scorpio thing. The point is we are practicing Sinister stuff we are trying to prove that there is something on ASTROLOGY. It's injustice and unfair and far from the Truth. The truth is we have to minimize our negative traits and looking forward to what is positive there astrology applies.

Astrology helps you how to build you as a person not to destroy you. Please be vigilant!

Folks, I am mentoring a Virgo lawyer. She is a friend of mine. Listen up, she told me a lot of her life and all her friends dirty stories. I gave her advices and mind you before she follow those advices I've given to her it's already late.Because she ignored and prove how rationalization can be applied. Which she failed. You can't apply it when you aggravate the other part. Justice should be serve.

I guess I deserved that. Not sure that I feel the shame you want me to but... that just may be the sociopath within me lol (just kidding folks). Ok updates... I did get up the nerve to call him the next day around 3. I didn't check him about practically not communicating with me for over a week. I just played it cool, sounding pleased to hear his voice and basically asked him if he had plans later. He was spending time with his family(brother, nieces and nephews) said he did not have plans after but said he looked forward to spending time with me later. So I said ok, well Im leaving the house around 8 or 9 for a dinner cruise and we should dock by 11, i'll stay and party until 12 and then I'll call you. He says ok sweetheart that sounds good call me later on when youre ready. I'll be waiting. PERFECT RIGHT?? Ok so I'm thinking he sounds like he's still interested or else he could've said oh I have other plans or I have to get up early or anything to get out of it. He sounded happy, eager, not as if I were bugging him or whatever. So then I go out just as planned. I get extra ready for him. But I brought a change of clothes because I was wearing a cocktail dress, heels, jewelery and glam but I wanted to be more tuned down and relaxed for him. 12:23 I call him... no answer. Vm box full. Damn can't leave a message. Ok breathe. I change into my relaxed gear (in the car) freshen up, and 20 min goes by. I called once more. No answer. Sooooo I sent a text message only because I couldn't leave a vm "😢 I was hoping I could put you to sleep tonight. Oh well Goodnight baby." At the end of the day it boils down to this regardless of what happened-- selfishly (ive admitted to this) I wanted to do what I wanted. In an effort to create a peephole of excitement in my life, something to daydream about, something to make me smile in the middle of my day for no reason at all. I didn't plan for my husband to know about it or find out. I wanted to keep that part of my life intact. No need to tear down pickett fences for the pool boy. I just wanted that or felt that I needed that in my life right now. And if he were up for it, and wanted to be my secret rendezvous by all means I was willing as long as we knew this was just a "thing". But it didn't work out that way and I never chase after anyone. I did it because he initially persued me and then placed the ball in my court. I figured I was the one who was married and I felt that maybe he needed to be sure that I

that I wanted this, or maybe the fact that I was older so it was expected of me to be the more dominant, or because I was financially stable (nice car, home, clothes) maybe he felt intimidated or that he wasn't enough or whatever. I chased him to let him know I didn't care about those things and that I would be there for him if ever he needed anything. I thought the world of him. He was very sweet, very attractive, seemed very sure if himself and sure that he wanted me. I GUESS I WAS WRONG!! Afterwards I deleted his number and his pics. Somehow I expected this. Somehow I was relieved. I took that long drive home and said to myself I guess you can't have your cake and eat it too. It's time to go home and be with the one who adores you. Who calls you so much you have to beg him to stop, the one who suffocates you with all the love he has inside of him, the one who places you above all others and who's love, attention, and interest you will never have to question. Go and never look back. So that is it. I know nothing will ever take back the contempt in my heart but I believe we have a predestined path in life. Sometimes this path may lead to a destination that helps us find our truth, or allow us to see within ourselves. Things that are meant to be will be--good or bad. This was my path. Although I was not choosing what seemed to be the right path, I ended my journey exactly where I needed to be. I realized that maybe I'm not fufilled in my current relationship and we are now trying to work through it. I never gave up on us, I just took a personal time out.

Just as a general aside, given how loyal Taureans are, how do they perceive infidelity on the part of another, eg getting involved in a extra martial affair?

Jesus Christ, just fuck him already. It's getting boring now. All that pissing about.

I thought you had arranged something a while ago and then you pissed about with it and it didn't happen.

It was obvious he wasn't going to be around at midnight. I've no idea why you're still poncing about with this even after your husband found out.

Posted by jeane
Just as a general aside, given how loyal Taureans are, how do they perceive infidelity on the part of another, eg getting involved in a extra martial affair?

dead to me. after i cut off his balls.

but do you mean in our own personal relationship, or viewing another couple?

dead to me. after i cut off his balls.

but do you mean in our own personal relationship, or viewing another couple?

sorry, i mean, would a taurean hook up (or have a relationship with) someone who is already married?

I know you guys prize loyalty and fidelity amongst the highest of qualities in a partner, so would you be willing to cross that line with someone who is willing to cheat on their partner (even if it is with you)?

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dead to me. after i cut off his balls.

but do you mean in our own personal relationship, or viewing another couple?

sorry, i mean, would a taurean hook up (or have a relationship with) someone who is already married?

I know you guys prize loyalty and fidelity amongst the highest of qualities in a partner, so would you be willing to cross that line with someone who is willing to cheat on their partner (even if it is with you)?

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ah, gotcha. no. i need to be #1, and if he's married (or even girlfriend), i'll always be #2. would never happen. and if it did, i'd always be second guessing him.

on the flipside, I was in a casual hookup relationship with a scorpio for years, and i know that I was always #1. but toward the end, i could tell i moved down the food chain, and that's when i cut it off. in that scenario, i'm okay if i'm not the only one, but if i'm not the main one, i'm done. in a way, this is an example of the loyalty, albeit a loose definition.

ah, gotcha. no. i need to be #1, and if he's married (or even girlfriend), i'll always be #2. would never happen. and if it did, i'd always be second guessing him.

on the flipside, I was in a casual hookup relationship with a scorpio for years, and i know that I was always #1. but toward the end, i could tell i moved down the food chain, and that's when i cut it off. in that scenario, i'm okay if i'm not the only one, but if i'm not the main one, i'm done. in a way, this is an example of the loyalty, albeit a loose definition.

interesting. yeah it makes sense. thanks. 🙂

Posted by jeane
Just as a general aside, given how loyal Taureans are, how do they perceive infidelity on the part of another, eg getting involved in a extra martial affair?

I totally thought about that. It didn't seem to bother him at first. He seemed to like the challenge. He never questioned me about it but maybe I took the challenge out if it when I decided to stop playing games and just treetrunk him already. Things seemed to cool down when I decided to peel back the layers and ask what is it that you want? I'm sure you need another friend like you need a hole in the head. So I get it you're attracted to me and me you so now what. Just say it. Do you want to treetrunk? Then he says well I want to but I also care about you it's not just about that. So whatever I wish he could just tell me instead of having me speculate and analyze what should be obvious. Maybe he has a problem with my infidelity. Maybe he was spending time with his brothers family and thought about it. Maybe there is some level of guilt there. We just never got into it hence the reason I wanted to spend time with in person. I figured I could get him to open up to me more face to face. Either way it doesnt matter now. Just a ton of wasted energy for nothing.

Thanks for the sentiment and well wishes? This will likely be my last post on the topic but let's be crystal clear. I do not feel sorry for myself, nor ashamed. It is very possible to feel strong emotions for another while married. It's difficult because in a sense you would have to lead a double life. I do recognize that I have issues in my marriage. Lack of passion. Should I leave my husband for that no. It happens. We're a great team, great parents, good friends and he worships the ground I walk on. We get enraptured in life and the passion is out the door. As you get older your needs shift you become in tune with what you need and you create life hacks. It was wrong but so is murder. So I wanted a little (excuse me big) dick on the side so what! Men have been doing it for ages and as long as the spouse doesn't find out whose really getting hurt here? We can all be happy. I doubt that I could ever receive that amount of intensity or passion in my current relationship because it was never there. Everyone isn't as blessed to find their Soulmate, twin flames or whatever. Most people can't even do their dream job but you still have to pay the bills. Life goes on. You figure out how to make it work. Sometimes you have to get a 2nd job.ok bad analogy but you get it. Its marriage its sacred. I get it. Im a selfish self serving idiot in your eyes but I live with no guilt, no shame and no regrets.

Posted by SCORPIOGYRL
So I wanted a little (excuse me big) dick on the side so what! Men have been doing it for ages and as long as the spouse doesn't find out whose really getting hurt here? We can all be happy.

Some of what you say I agree with. I don't think you should throw a marriage w/kids away over this. I don't agree with any of this quoted portion though. When you cheat, you hurt the bond - the love itself, IMO. But the partner can't help but feel less loved when your heart is with someone else, even if they don't know the source of the difference. I doubt any married person who has been cheated on would feel that it only became wrong or hurtful, once they found out.

I also still can't fathom the lack of guilt. If you love your husband, don't you hurt when he hurts? Don't you feel what he feels? Don't you feel bad for having hurt him with your actions? I'm not judging; I just don't understand this kind of carefree mentality. I always felt guilty just for having the fantasies in my head. It was destroying me. You might as well have a completely (sexually) open marriage at this point if this is really the way you feel about the whole thing. You might as well give him license to roam as well.

Scorpio... once again is triumphant. I didn't lose my effect it just took some time and patience. That is all.

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Posted by Shruikan
Hey Taurus, I didn't read the whole thing so forgive my ignorance. Did you ever get with the girl?

No, the short of it is that I chose to move forward with a Sag I had been on and off with, and that was really good with my kid. I've been with her since.

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Hi tls,
I can sorta relate to what u went thru. Although I'm a Taurus female I met this incredible Scorpio who was full of life and ambition. It was kind of a feeling of fateness. I did hang out with him at work n we shared lunch etc. we did part ways bc he did finally share that he has a gf but I still think of him until this day. I do feel like he taken a piece of my soul but in a gd way. I also recently did meet another Scorpio male n my heart was capture thru his stare n I want more of him but we never have spoken to each other so I guess it will never be addressed.

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Posted by SCORPIOGYRL
Scorpio... once again is triumphant. I didn't lose my effect it just took some time and patience. That is all.

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Yup!

She's playing the ego game... Yawn... It's like a cat playing with a ball of wool...

Has she even fucked him yet?

Hey Iwil, Get over yourself. Why so judgemental? Everyone. So nobody thinks I already know all the buttery things about this situation? I know that everyone will say I need to get over myself! But to answer your question Lol. Yes I did treetrunk him. It was as amazing as I thought it would be. In fact more. He does not play these disappearing games with me any longer. He calls, texts, tells me he wants to be near me as much as possible and I just sit back because this was all I ever wanted from him. He opened up, told me that he's all in. He feels bad about the situation but thinks no less of me for it. Says he loves me and wants to be a strong man for me. Even said he'd take a bullet for me. That's the protector in my bull. He is tenderhearted, galant, affectionate as hell looks into me as if I'm the only thing that matters to him. He told me "you've got me". "I feel like I've loved you for years" and "it's crazy how deep my love is for you so soon" "I can't stop thinking about you". He keeps saying that. So I feel he may make a run for it soon. But if he did I would be ok because I have had the most amazing experiences with him. To know him and for him to finally allow me into his world, His pain, his dreams, his heart... it's a gift. I love him too. I think I always did, hence the reason I went completely out of character and chased him. I just needed him to realize that he could too love me. Sorry if this bothers most of you. If I felt about my Gemini husband the way I felt about my Taurus lover these words would be non existent.

Yes!! She shagged him!! Dirty bitch. Love it!!

-_- selfish bitch, let your husband go