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I have scorpio rising, and I've dated taurus guys. We've had the warmest, snuggliest most fulfilling relationships out of all the ones that I have ever had with other persons... (there are exceptions, but the warm, solid love connection that these two have won't be quite the same with other persons).

I've had my ups and downs with both Taurus guys, but I still think that Taurus was a good compliment to Libra. Both ruled by the love goddess, Venus ((Aphrodite)))). Taurus exhibits the feminine venus traits and Libra exhibits the masculine ones. I've experienced loads of ~~~~yummy lovin'**** with my Taurus. We do have communication issues. Taurus does not appreciate my light, airy, indepedent streak too much. In the same way Libra needs more freedom in the Libra- Taurus relationship, and may not appreciate feelings of being smoothered, but all in all, I still think this is still a good connection, and if both can get pass their hang- ups, then they will experience all that loving Venus has to offer.
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Taurus Male here:

Taurus can be a compliment to any sign, actually, some signs more than others.
There is a "structure" to a Taurus life that some do not seem to understand. And in love, we tend to try to structure that as well. And if this strucuring goes against the grain of the relationship, trouble usually develops (even though trouble was not in the original structure). We adore who we love and we assume we will be adored in return, and when something or someone challeges that, it does tend to disturb us. I am not saying that the structure we build is always the right one, nor is it always right for the other person, but we tend to need that basic framework to feel secure. And we do like to feel secure. The ideal situation for a Taurus is to love and adore our mate or love and to be adored and loved in return. In those fortunate senarios where that takes place, we find ourselves quite content,
and our love partner usually does, as well. Anything that threatens that contentment causes Taurus to react, and depending on the Taurus, this reaction can be positive or negative. We are not supermen, and neither are any other sign, for that matter. And when structures break down in any relationship, it is usually because of some insecurity in one or the other in a relationship. Direct communication and understanding is the key, I believe. Without that, any structure becomes just a "house of cards", waiting to fall. Just understand that Taurus does not like to live in a house of cards.

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Taurus Male: Yes, you are! Taurus men ARE Supermen. lol. Really, I can't think of a more masculine (yet sensitive) sign. Aries and Leo rival you, but I don't find the same sensitivity and romance that seems to be inherent in Taurus men. It is as if all Taurus men were born with an intuition for women; what we need. In the words of the famous astrologer Linda Goodman, "sensible girls" will understand the Taurean need for structure. lol. : )

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Wow, I was so glad to read this because my Taurus just did the same thing to me and i am COMPLETELY confused. We hd such a good thing going. He stormed into my life, Initiated the whole thing, it was soooo beautiful and then disappeared. No news for two weeks. So as far as I can gather I should call him back. I also am a taurus and would never do something like this so that makes it even more confusing. Any comments, or has it all been said?
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152.163- You make a lot of sense above. I understand exactly what you mean by the need for structure, (I have many Taurean friends, and I must admit that I do need a little structure in my life myself =). You seem to have a sense for this kind of relationship, so I'm assuming, (correctly I hope), that you have experienced a Taurus/Libra relationship before.
...and yes, I agree. There does seem to be some kind of disconnection sometimes in this relationship- the stuff that goes against the grain... as you put it.[grin- good one] I have resolved that we live in different worlds, which cross briefly to mock us... however, there is a strong pull, which my Taurean love and I have each found difficult to deny exists, so to that I say- que sera sera. I can't shut him out, and he keeps coming back to me. (drives me screwy, but what can I say? We are forever friends. Is this because of something that I do? Did your Libra do something that made you question your security, and do you still think of her?
As a Libra, I need to explain that we do understand Taureans' need for security and this does not bother us. Libra just doesn't need as much of it for themselves. We are just fun loving people, and we love when our lives our open, fun and free. Free-ness gives us security and pretty much keeps us happy- but I will accommodate his needs as much as he needs them to be.
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Taurus Male here:

He is lucky to know someone like you. It is a pity when Love restricts freedom sometimes. A strong Love should never do that. It is funny that people do think we seem to disconnect at times, and I suppose we do. Maybe he is just trying to accomodate your need for freedom (who knows). I still say if someone really can't understand why we do what we do, they just need to ask, and I will bet we will try to explain it. Frankly, I wish more people were that way...
Anyway, you propably have a friend for a long time, regardless of how you may fit into his "structure". Libras are cool people, but I know they tend to vanish sometimes. Strange, but true in my case.

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~~~Thanks Taurus male =)...

btw...Have you ever read any of Dr. John Gray's Books? His theories are usually very interesting for me- (in terms of why humans are the way they are).

Anyway, I'm glad that you are so easy to talk to. That was great! ...and about my vanishing act... sometimes I need to take some time away from others, so that I can sort through issues in my head. I always return once I have resolved what ever it is that was bothering me, and I'm usually even better for my lover when I return. (I don't like to expose my vulnerabilty/ insecurity to other people either- especially my loved ones, and if they give me the space that I need, I reward and cherish them more and more).
My time alone can be about anything- it doesn't necessarily mean that my lover has done something wrong. I just needed some time to organize my thoughts.
There are two reasons why I do this. At work:
You see I chunk up my day into parts, which I sort through when I have assimilated enough chunks. It's kind of like putting a puzzle together... Usually I deal with more pressing things first, and then I satisfy each of the needs of other tasks in order of urgency.
At home:
My lover is always very important to me, I will stop at nothing to ensure his happiness... and yes there are times when I may need to even "structure" my love life too. These are the times when I need to get a sense of what I need to do to keep my lover happy, and also myself. I also use the time to reassure myself. I never forget my honey bunny when I'm doing this, and I always return when I'm stronger. It is out of my desire to satisfy my lover that I want to offer more and more for his happiness, and I come back to my lover refreshed and ready to please him even more than I had before. Hope this helps.

It is really better if I take the very short time away than for me not to, and I am approachable during this time, but I prefer to return on my own, although I found it very sweet and very charming when my Taurus would come looking for me.



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I have to laugh at myself because I just realized, while contemplating my past love life today that I've been in 3 consecutive long term and serious relationships w/Taurus males. One from the age of 19-21, the next from 21 - 33, he was a Taurus/Gemini May 21 (so it's a pretty even mix), and now at 34, since Jan of 2013 a full Taurus man. Whew! I deserve a medal for that one! Im an Aquarius woman. I tend to like my space, and my time to myself also. .... almost too much some times, like the Taurus man. Aquarius is also a fixed sign. So we have that in common. In the beginning he was showering me with attention. So I expected it all of the time. And when he began to go all day & more than one day w/o calling me or seeing me for a week or three at a time. I became furious. So, I brought it to his attention and he explained to me what was going on. He's a music engineer and had been very busy. Once I got the explanation.....I was fine! I went in Aquarius girl mode and went into my own little world, LOL! Patience is a virtue with this man. We are only 6mths in, but I've learned some things about him and how to approach him and deal with him. I hope my patience and tenderness with him will pay off in the long run! He's a faithful man .... so far ... and ALWAYS comes back ... STRONG! So, I've gone past the point of doubting his love. I've even gotten him to listen to me and very shortly express his feelings to me and agree with me on our mutual feelings. So, he's come a long way. So patience is a virtue. That's what I've learned with a Taurus man. Also, if you shower him w/ love and support when he is there, his devotion will grow stronger and he will do anything for you. All you will have to do after putting all of that love and support in is tell him what you want, and he will do it for you....Aquarius woman with a Taurus man
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Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂

I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.

Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.

I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.

My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.

Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.

I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...

Please tell me what I should do 😢


Astrology aside, if you have to question yourself if your're wasting time then most likely you are. The moment you feel like your're going out of your way or jumping through hoops - you're doing too much. You must remember you're the prize and anything that you chase runs away. I'd take a step back if I were you and let him come to you. If a man wants you he will go out of his way to get you.
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Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂

I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.

Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.

I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.

My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.

Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.

I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...

Please tell me what I should do 😢

Astrology aside, if you have to question yourself if your're wasting time then most likely you are. The moment you feel like your're going out of your way or jumping through hoops - you're doing too much. You must remember you're the prize and anything that you chase runs away. I'd take a step back if I were you and let him come to you. If a man wants you he will go out of his way to get you.
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i wonder if men ever think they are the prize?

remind me again why women are automatically a prize?
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Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂

I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.

Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.

I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.

My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.

Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.

I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...

Please tell me what I should do 😢

Sounds like history is repeating itself .

Yes Taurus is slow moving but not to be a downer but he doesn't seem interested. By now there should have been at least one date.

I'm afraid he's leaving you on the back burner, and keeping his options open

You're in college for peets sake

Enjoy it and be single and don't waste time or focus on this flake.

Do you know his other placements out of curiosity?

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Posted by ananana2468

Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂

I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.

Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.

I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.

My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.

Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.

I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...

Please tell me what I should do 😢

Astrology aside, if you have to question yourself if your're wasting time then most likely you are. The moment you feel like your're going out of your way or jumping through hoops - you're doing too much. You must remember you're the prize and anything that you chase runs away. I'd take a step back if I were you and let him come to you. If a man wants you he will go out of his way to get you.

i wonder if men ever think they are the prize?

remind me again why women are automatically a prize?

Not to be over the top but I'm definitely the Prize. My attributes are seemingly rare because of the demand.
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