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Posted by ananana2468
Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂
I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.
Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.
I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.
My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.
Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.
I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...
Please tell me what I should do 😢

Posted by virgal_perfectionistPosted by ananana2468
Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂
I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.
Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.
I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.
My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.
Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.
I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...
Please tell me what I should do 😢
Astrology aside, if you have to question yourself if your're wasting time then most likely you are. The moment you feel like your're going out of your way or jumping through hoops - you're doing too much. You must remember you're the prize and anything that you chase runs away. I'd take a step back if I were you and let him come to you. If a man wants you he will go out of his way to get you.click to expand

Posted by ananana2468
Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂
I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.
Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.
I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.
My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.
Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.
I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...
Please tell me what I should do 😢

Posted by LibraSupremePosted by jeanePosted by virgal_perfectionistPosted by ananana2468
Hi everyone, if you could kindly share your opinions on my case, I would really appreciate them 🙂
I am a Libra-Scorpio cusp, the Taurus man and I was closed friends when we were 13 years old and we stopped talking as friends because he toyed me 3 times and finally confessed his love to me but it was too late for me because I lost my faith in him.
Now, our paths crossed again in university, it happened during the orientation and I was nervous to approach him so I contacted him through Instagram, we talked as friends for about a week? He asked to exchange numbers and I was not expecting him to make a move and he texted me after 2 days. We continued talking and we shared a bit of our personal life. It was going great and he asked me out for a meal, we took a month to choose a date but it did not happen because I felt like I did not know what he initially planned so I suggested a museum because I love to admire artworks but I guessed I made a wrong moved and scared him away... afterward he ignored me for a month... and in September, I saw he needed help in his schoolwork so I shared my knowledge with him and he was amused by it and recently his mother applied for a job through my company and his mother seemed to like me so she told him that she finds me cute and he told me about the news...which I do not know how to react...but I told him to thank her for the compliment. He told her that "she pretend to be cute in front of you keke". The following day, he sent me a random message about how he is going down to help his mother to settle something important/personal.
I did suggest again that we could go out to eat when both of us have the time... and he applied "Okie 🙂" Afterwards, he saw my Instagram story and gave me a birthday greeting on the wrote date and he asked me when was my birthday. So a few days before my birthday, I sent him my selfies and he complimented me and also gave me a birthday greeting on the date of my birthday, I was jumping for joy when he did that.
My apologies for the long story but honestly, I always see that he needed someone to love him as a whole and someone to rely on, like what I had done when we were 13 years old, I would always support him and cheer him on because I believe in his capabilities. The previous Friday (25th Oct), I asked him out for a meal after our last upcoming paper and he said he was feeling unwell and have to rush his assignments (he mentioned to me before the dateline for it). I told him to visit the doctor and not to overwork himself as it will affect his immune system. He did not reply so I deleted that message (i assumed he saw that on telegram on 29th Oct) and he apologised for being rude through the audio message (I don't find him rude though, he sounded ill to me). He also mentioned that we could meet another time to have a meal and honestly I do not know what to expect from him already. I understand he has his own priorities but god damn it, I want you to talk to me like how is your day and all, I did ask him a few times but I just don't want to pester him or any negative reactions towards him. I did tell him that when you have the time then you can ask me but just not on Sundays as it is a family day for me (I am Single, I want to spend time with my siblings and parents). He told me was busy the past 3 days and he hoped I understand how he could not reply to me... Afterwards I suggested that we could go and study together sometime as we are studying the same things but I think he overlooked it and asked me about the assignment as the dateline is due the following date.
Can you guys tell me whether I am wasting my time with this Taurus man? I too would want personal space so I do not like to trouble him a lot or bother him a lot. I think we can be powerful couple but I do not like to play mind games, I cannot read your mind, I don't have psychic powers or telepathy, the key to every relationship is communication if not how in the world are you going to develop one!? You might as well date yourself.
I do not know whether I should confess to him that I would always want to be there for him and support him through every obstacle he faces in life and assure him that he is not going through them alone... because I am afraid that he might be overwhelmed with what I want to confess and I would prefer to confess face to face so that I could observe his body language...
Please tell me what I should do 😢
Astrology aside, if you have to question yourself if your're wasting time then most likely you are. The moment you feel like your're going out of your way or jumping through hoops - you're doing too much. You must remember you're the prize and anything that you chase runs away. I'd take a step back if I were you and let him come to you. If a man wants you he will go out of his way to get you.
i wonder if men ever think they are the prize?
remind me again why women are automatically a prize?
Not to be over the top but I'm definitely the Prize. My attributes are seemingly rare because of the demand.click to expand

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I've had my ups and downs with both Taurus guys, but I still think that Taurus was a good compliment to Libra. Both ruled by the love goddess, Venus ((Aphrodite)))). Taurus exhibits the feminine venus traits and Libra exhibits the masculine ones. I've experienced loads of ~~~~yummy lovin'**** with my Taurus. We do have communication issues. Taurus does not appreciate my light, airy, indepedent streak too much. In the same way Libra needs more freedom in the Libra- Taurus relationship, and may not appreciate feelings of being smoothered, but all in all, I still think this is still a good connection, and if both can get pass their hang- ups, then they will experience all that loving Venus has to offer.