why is it so hard?

to find a descent man who is about family,with some realistic goals and ambitions,,i cant seem to find one,most persons i meet are in relationships or married,what is up with that.is it too much to ask for?then u have those u have dated who come to this realization 5/10 yrs after dating u and say u are the one.well i dont even go down that road because to me those relationships never work because i guess i feel that u have had your chance..anyone else feel this way,,maybe because i had a birthday yesterday,,and taking time to reflect on how to improve myself and surroundings

You and I, honey, we're in the same boat. I feel the EXACT same way. Not to say there aren't good guys out there, it's just the pickings are slim and I'm very picky 😢.

Oh well there are more important things in life, than a man. I'm just going about my single life concentrating on me.

Happy belated birthday Taurus 35. I've read somewhere that if you get yours' in order. You will not have to look for the man, because he will find you.

Being a little picky is okay, however being very picky will close more doors than it opens in the long run. There really is no way of telling who, or what is around the corner. Especially what shape or form it may appear to you in.