Why you possessive over fwb

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by PurtyWingzFly2 on Monday, July 9, 2018 and has 8 replies.

Understanding Possessiveness in Friends with Benefits Relationships

Possessiveness can stem from emotional attachment, insecurity, or fear of losing the connection. Even in FWB arrangements, feelings can develop, leading to jealousy or territorial behavior. Recognizing these emotions helps clarify why possessiveness occurs and how to address it healthily.

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@PurtyWingzFly2
8 Years

Why would you be possessive over a fwb ? Me and my Taurus was off b on for awhile. I don’t know where he thought it was going but why would he be mad he got rejected if he wanted a fwb. I’m single he single so why be possessive when you see me with another guy. Makes no damn sense. He says he used to like me but I don’t know what he’s trying to be up to.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

This ones easy. He’s possessive. Just cause he doesn’t want to give you the wifee crown, doesn’t mean he wants to share the pussy🤷‍♀️

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@Metatron
8 Years1,000+ Posts

regardless of what you label a relationship, people still have emotions, form connections, have an ego, get jealous etc....have read a couple posts lately about what the "basic man" needs on dxp - allegedly, men are primarily looking for a physical relationship....I'm not that way, but suppose a lot of dudes are, or your dude is, then fwb is pretty much what the basic dude wants to get out of love....easy to get confused....

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@PurtyWingzFly2
8 Years

Ctfu he can take his ass on somewhere. But I don’t want nothing to do with him so why come back 😂😂

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@PurtyWingzFly2
8 Years

He showed his emotions and I didn’t. I didn’t get his motives tbh I was confused as hell. I don’t get it. Like what tf did he want sounds like a relationship but he’s not going to say that. Why would you have to announce you single then be single and don’t get mad I don’t want to give you sex. You been getting it so why trip tho ?

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@PurtyWingzFly2
8 Years

People don’t know the definition of fwb. You don’t tell them your motives or don’t close other options for a fwb. He blocked two girls supposedly why if he sees us as fwb ? Like I don’t get that concept.

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@Metatron
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2

People don’t know the definition of fwb. You don’t tell them your motives or don’t close other options for a fwb. He blocked two girls supposedly why if he sees us as fwb ? Like I don’t get that concept.

why can't you just tell yourself "maybe he caught feelings", and move on from thinking about it? you're using an ancient form of divination to try to understand the mind of someone you no longer care about....sounds like you have some issues with him that are unsettled still....

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Metatron

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2

People don’t know the definition of fwb. You don’t tell them your motives or don’t close other options for a fwb. He blocked two girls supposedly why if he sees us as fwb ? Like I don’t get that concept.

why can't you just tell yourself "maybe he caught feelings", and move on from thinking about it? you're using an ancient form of divination to try to understand the mind of someone you no longer care about....sounds like you have some issues with him that are unsettled still....

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Lol @ ancient form of divination

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@PurtyWingzFly2
8 Years

Posted by Metatron

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2

People don’t know the definition of fwb. You don’t tell them your motives or don’t close other options for a fwb. He blocked two girls supposedly why if he sees us as fwb ? Like I don’t get that concept.

why can't you just tell yourself "maybe he caught feelings", and move on from thinking about it? you're using an ancient form of divination to try to understand the mind of someone you no longer care about....sounds like you have some issues with him that are unsettled still....

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Yup.