Will Taurus guy lie about how many people he’s slept with since we met?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Scorpiogrlll on Friday, December 14, 2018 and has 17 replies.

Why a Taurus Guy Might Avoid Answering About Past Relationships

A Taurus man may be reluctant to share details about past partners due to privacy, pride, or a desire to protect his image. He may feel insecure or unsure how you will perceive him, leading to evasiveness. Honest communication is key in understanding his true feelings and intentions.

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@Scorpiogrlll
9 Years

We used to have a purely hook up situation happening, but I feel like now it’s at least something more. I casually asked him how many other people he had slept with, and he kept laughing awkwardly and avoiding the question. I had to keep prying before he told me ‘a few’, and did I think he “was a Casanova?”

My question is - do you think he was making the numbers up out of pride because he thinks I’m sleeping with other people too? Why would he be so reluctant to answer my question when he used to answer it so readily?

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@Scorpiogrlll
9 Years

Posted by MademoiselleFisk

"a few" is not a number, though. He's tactfully answering your question because he probably thinks it's really none of your business. His answer will probably trigger your insecurity and judge him.

Yeah that’s what I thought too but why would he suddenly not want to answer when he used to do it so readily?

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@Majin
7 Years

Maybe he doesn't want to answer that question for various reasons and thus avoiding. If he says 0/5/10/20 your view might change of him in a (positive or) negative way so yea.. He knows the answer but hides it for now.

Thats like if he would ask that to you and you would say happely "with alot of men..". What do you think he would think about you then.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

It’s so stupid! Just lie! Who will know really? And if person who asking stupid question actually asking stupid question...they deserve stupid answer.

If he said 3 but omitted 0 after...how would anyone KNOW— 🤷‍♀️

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@Boots1313
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Slippery slope...depending on your age just assume its anywhere between 1 and 100. Mqybe he doesnt even keep count?

My guy didnt...and we just ledt it as more thnb 5 less than 20.

As long as hes been tested and clean wtf cares...you sound insecure in the relationship.

Makes sense fwb or hook up buddies whom want more usually are.

If you want him to date you legit then say that...dont fish around and try to figure out if hes a "player"

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

It's funny, just last week a fwb scorpio asked me the exact same thing, and I gave her the exact same answer 'a few', but she wouldnt leave... she kept bugging... and I had to lie some number...

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Scorpiogrlll

We used to have a purely hook up situation happening, but I feel like now it’s at least something more.

If you want more....

You may want to speak up now rather than later.....

Side-stepping with passive-aggressive questions will not work in your favor.

Good Luck!

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@Nefertari
9 Years

A Taurus won't feel obliged to answer you that question until you're confirmed BGR status. Even then, he won't feel it is your business to know about his past unless he is the one who wants to open up to you first. How well do you actually know him?

Yes, second TaurusBull1977, if you want to have a status, better tell him clearly what you want or you will just be a fwb to him.

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@Majin
7 Years

Posted by Aquaman4848

Taurus are good liars, so i bet he has been with more than 7 women....and in future he will he will cheat surely!!

Just saying from my taurus male friends ( all about 5 friends) all are same 🤣🤣

Keep them in control just.....this will help you

Bullshit.

Nice story neverthless..

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@Scorpiogrlll
9 Years

Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

Posted by ScorpiogrlllYeah that’s what I thought too but why would he suddenly not want to answer when he used to do it so readily?

What kind of Scorpio degrades theirself by dating a dude who was busy fuckin other chicks while she was practically right in front of him the whole time?

Dude is a playa, don't set yourself up for a failed relationship. I thought that was Pisces M.O?

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It’s just so good I’d look past the other chicks to keep this going, feel like I’m not gonna find someone I have this much chemistry with that easily. Like he’s the first person I’ve actually felt ‘sparks’ with. I’m definitely overattached.

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@Scorpiogrlll
9 Years

Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Bcuz itz nun o’ yah bidness

Lol, yes it is. She just said it's getting serious. If you get involved with someone romantically you HAVE to let them in on anything relevant to... You know... A committed relationship?

Especially with men, it's scientifically proven that the better looking a guy is(and subsequently his pussy game by extension). The more likely he is to cheat.

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I don’t know why I’m defending but to be fair, nothing relationship-affirming was talked about. It’s just the things he did that made me assume he also saw this as more than a fwb/hookup sitch.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by PostHuman

Posted by Gemitati

Who actually counting? Few means more than one...so he is a slut!

Find a Virgin...my ass...😝

You want anal? What’s up?

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Well...does anybody really WANT anal? I think it’s an accident that happens on purpose but I don’t know anyone who goes like ‘YEAHHH! My butt is getting fucked today!!!’ Do you?

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Nefertari

A Taurus won't feel obliged to answer you that question until you're confirmed BGR status. Even then, he won't feel it is your business to know about his past unless he is the one who wants to open up to you first. How well do you actually know him?

Yes, second TaurusBull1977, if you want to have a status, better tell him clearly what you want or you will just be a fwb to him.

"Will Taurus guy lie about how many people he’s slept with since we met?"

She doesn't care about his past. She's wanting to know SINCE they started fucking. I think its a reasonable question. I wouldn't continue to fuck someone without having exclusivity tho.