Winning over a Taurus female, help needed! (Page 3)

😛 did i mention that leos are full of it?

Posted by tubbyscubby
USC - bull fems/leo males are difficult like any fixed sign union is difficult....what happens if a taurus woman earns more money than a leo man? that's what i think ultimately made my relationship difficult. i couldn't speak of my successes without feeling as if we were competing.

I am still new to navigating this terrain of signs and all of that mumbo jumbo (no disrespect to anyone, because I DO believe in astrology, I just don't know everything about it).

And yes, we both were stubborn and unbending in some ways; plus, I am loving and compassionate, but I guard my heart fiercely. It wasn't until we had been "together" (I use the term very loosely) for about 3 years that I really opened up and told him how I felt. Neither one of us wanted to be the "first" to say certain things. Also, he moved to another state and some things went horribly awry...we have recently gotten back in touch with one another. I'm being more cautious now than before, but there are some serious situations surrounding his life/situation, so only time will tell what could happen, but in the interim, I'm living my life and doing me...that's all I can do. With all of that said - I loved my Leo Lover! LOL!

Posted by magician
lol usctaurus gal i like your style !

Merci beaucoup 😉

Posted by magician
that really makes us lust for

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And lust...is such a wonderful, tittilating, toe curling feeling. Yum.

Posted by tubbyscubby
USC just stroked the hell out of you. MEOW!

LMAO...purrrrr. I'm a lover, not a fighter. I'll put the smack down if I have to, but it won't be pretty, and not soon forgotten. "Make Love Not War!"

Umm... wow... like 2 pages of irrelevant data!

Ok anyway I'm just here to rant... recently she's been feeling moody and this is affecting me as well.. it's like she is in her own world and there is no way into that world since she does not want to open up..

Soooo... yea.. this is affecting my life to some extent, and I'm rather skeptical as to whether I should pursue something more with her. Maybe it's just me. Since I have not been in a relationship for about 4 years... but I dunno... it's terrible to have this kind of feeling floating around in me. It's affecting my mood which in turn is affecting my work..

Maybe some of the ladies can give some advice on this situation. It probably issn't a Taurus thing.. more of a lady thing.. thanks in advance for the help!

we were entertaining ourselves in your absence.

what do you want/need from her at this point besides "stop being moody?' what specific changes do you feel need to occur?

Probably wanted her to open up and share her problems instead of being all emo and stuff..
She might not know it but it affects me as well..

well i meant, is she calling/texting/emailing less or something?

or is it that she's being a bitch, clamming up, moody when you do see/talk to her?

how is she shutting down...what were the circumstances?

outside of PMS, i get moody for different reasons. certain things trigger me more than others though. as far as this chick, it'd be helpful to know what prompted the change/made you notice a difference in her behavior...specifics if you will.

And I thought it was bad dealing with myself when I'm moody...

It happened only recently so I do not think she's the kind to get emo all the time. BUT.. not being able to make her feel better is kinda what's making me feel all messed up atm...

Heck I'm not even in the mood to work today...

Thanks for the heads up Bella..

Well Tubby she just texted to say she's having mood swings and doesn't wish to talk atm. So I told her it's fine.

It was after I asked her how her day went..

I can just do the Capricorn thingy and disappear for awhile and hope she'll feel better and text me back or something? It's pretty easy for me to do it, but I'm not sure if it's going to have a negative impact on this whole thing...

Btw... what is a cookiemonster...??

hmm...this is a tricky one. i'm not sure how to vocalize this or even if it's specific to taurus. this is going to sound confusing but i'll do my best...

if i tell you i don't want to be bothered/upset/occupied/whatever, i generally want to be left alone.

do NOT ask me repeatedly if i'm ok.

do NOT ask me why i sound sad after i already told you that i was bothered by something.

do NOT ask me the next day if i'm better 😛

do NOT try to cheer me up. i'd much rather you talk about the gum you stepped in than your deliberately trying to cheer me up. effort to cheer me up generally come across transparent. and let's say i'm not sad. what if i'm just mentally tired? i obviously don't need cheering up so you'd just be annoying me.

the point is, i don't know if there's a magic way to get me out of my funk. the one thing i will say is that visiting with me works wonders. but it has to be the right person. i have to feel as if you don't have an agenda while you're there. just an innocent, in the neighborhood or was thinking of you visit.

as a guy who's interested in her, it has to be a short visit...not a date night. you're not trying to stay the night. you're not trying to hug up on me. you're treating it like two friends hanging out.

so you might come over, watch a lil tv, then leave. i'd enjoy that thoroughly and it would put me in a better mood. enough of these type of encounters and i'd get to the pt where you could randomly drop by whenever. this is how my Virgo male friend became my bff. he was just a friend who was always there...literally.

I guess I'm ranting too much because it so happens that I'm sick atm... so her being all moody and stuff is actually adding on to my mental strain..

It should be fine after awhile, I'll try not to think too much about it.

Yea I'll do just that..

So anyway I'll be going out with her and her Gemini sister this Friday for dinner. I was thinking, has anyone here been in the same situation as me?

I believe she's going to ask her sister for opinions on me.. kinda like a sign off thing. I'm not really nervous or anything, just wanted to know if people here experienced such stuff and maybe some pointers on what to look out for and what to do?

Thanks again!

Yeppers. So here's a friendly kick in the butt from the Bullettes to you my friend. I hear one bad word about someone in my favor out of anyones mouth ( and that includes their own ) it makes the ol' defense thing kick up.

Haha... I'm starting to wish I dated Bella instead ^_^

eeewhew

lol.. why?! She seems like a nice taurus!

you're an unstable and psychotic not to mention ugly inside and out you STALKER!

and it doesn't surprise me that you'd make yourself available to a stranger. you're desperate, shameful and it shows.

nite!!!!!

^^remove the "an" as i was going to call you a name but unlike you, i know how to use restraint.

but you can go back to the google you freak.

So much hate within a thread that is focused so much on love..~

^_^

Success! =)

WTG Cappyboy! All hail the Capricorn male. 🙂 Trumpet serenades and canapes served on the Ledo deck at 1400. Woop woop!

Haha.. BIG thanks to all the females who given so much advices and support throughout this journey! ^_^

Hi venusianbull, tubbyscubby and cappyboy, how are you? I am taurean guy and I had my first ever date with a taurean girl would you believe. We met at a nice cafe, she wouldn't let me pay for the coffees and insisted on paying for both of us. It was a really nice day so we sat outside and our conversations were so free flowing and nice. I could have sat there for hours chatting to her about anything really. She is a very pretty woman and so laid back like I am. I must say I was very attracted to her and she dressed casually but smartly too. Anyway, after 45 minutes of chatting I offered to get us both another coffee but she ended up saying that she was going to home. We walked back to the car still chatting away, I was being my normal self and making her laugh. Just before we got into our cars, she said that she'll be in touch but I have to say that I honestly cannot get a reading of her. May I get your advice on how to proceed next? I know we taureans love our space and do not like to be smothered so I will wait to see what happens. How soon should I message her again? Like taurean women, I fear rejection and hope that she'd like to see me again.

SensualBull, do you have any updates on your romance with the Taurean girl?