Do dudes do this too?

Women will specifically place themselves in certain spotlights. Sometimes, it's so natural/normal feeling to them, that they cannot recognize it as being fucked up.

They often mold their environment so that they are the center, often befriending ugly or stupid women, so that they look better.

It doesn't take a genius to realize that people are with those that want them. You can not be initially attracted to a person, but, then once you realize this person likes you, suddenly, you're gaining interest. So, that isn't your attraction to them, that's you responding in like because it benefits you to be with someone who likes you.

I'm talking about arranging your life. I have one friend of mine (Aqua) who decided it was time for him to marry and start a family. He chose a woman who was under his league in the looks department, but, she was very intelligent, responsible and ambitious. He was right, she did make a very good woman to take care of him, and reproduce a good stock.

And then of course, men playing the field want stupid women, who won't have enough wits to question them.

I guess my question to you guys is ....... do you find yourself maneuvering the path of your destiny according to the people you've chosen to be in your environment?

This spinning of people/truths/situations is so prominent in females that they can only detect it in others - they can't see it in themselves ... so perhaps, I 'm asking a mute question, because if it is present in you, you would be too ignorant to recognize, like women.

Are your people chosen according to how it benefits you?

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lol ... what a moron. That's not a typo, they don't even have the same meaning.

Perhaps, I didn't present my thoughts accurately enough to get my point across.



When my thoughts were formulating this, I was using females for comparison .. and what popped in mind is how a woman getting married will purposely dress her wedding party in very unbecoming garbs, sometimes to the point of drab ... so that she is in the spot light.

or women will befriend another just for intel

Women often make choose a mate who she isn't attracted to, so that she gets something from him.

Would you befriend another dude to showcase yourself? ... is more what I'm meaning.

would you befriend a guy because you think you're better looking than him, so being seen around town would draw eyes on you, rather than him

would you befriend a guy because you're better at a game than him, so you feel superior around him because you can beat him.

btw, for guys who don't know (yet) ... the typical female's thoughts are consumed with how to work the situation to where she is the center.

You can bet behind nearly every action (of this type of female, which is the majority), the intention is self centered.

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btw, for guys who don't know (yet) ... the typical female's thoughts are consumed with how to work the situation to where she is the center.

You can bet behind nearly every action (of this type of female, which is the majority), the intention is self centered.

I'm amazed that some guys don't know this.

Probably the majority. And certainly any man under 35.

Did someone choose your ugly ass to get more attention? Some females did it huh? Now you're jealous. That's my observation. CTFU

I don't naturally get along with other guys so the sample pool is small, but when I do they're usually the court jester -types. lol

Intredasting.

why do you think firebunny is hanging out with ands?
Also this whole clique of retards here on DXP, there must be someone looking good in the middle of them ,I have not found this person yet tho

I met a Leo girl who I love dearly and she always loves other girls who are super pretty and she is super pretty too.
And if a girl is pretty but doesn't know how to go out and dress to her own advantage my friend will take her under her wing and get all the gals together and they will just have fun getting ready together - and I notice my friend will lend her an outfit or a bag or do her nails and make up just as part of the fun of getting together but secretly to be kind and help her make the most of her looks. It's not coming from a bitter place at all.
So I think that's very sweet and also demonstrates that not all women are like that.
Some women will celebrate each other and some women or people in general will be self-interested and that's just life sometimes *shrugs*
Anyway I learned a lot from her about lifting others up and how not to be jealous or petty. Still learning trust me. but yes, she is nothing like that.

I'm glad to see all the men have confirmed that they don't manipulate their surroundings with the goal of placing themselves on a shelf.

I love men.

Posted by P-Angel

I'm glad to see all the men have confirmed that they don't manipulate their surroundings with the goal of placing themselves on a shelf.

I love men.

Maybe the men on Dxp aren't all like that.
Let's ask all the women raped in war, the women burned at the stake, the women experiencing genital mutilation and the women who send their sons and daughters to fight, about how men "don't manipulate their surroundings with the goal of placing themselves on a shelf"...?
But men in general are the number One threat to women throughout history and I don't see why a woman shouldn't be entitled to reach through that glass ceiling...

...oops

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* moot



lol ... what a moron. That's not a typo, they don't even have the same meaning.

You're even an asshole to yourself.

lol