Something probably more men have gone through....

First off excuse me for this weird question, but I'm concerned about it.

So I was about to lose my goddamn virginity to one of the hottest girls I could imagine, full of courage and all..

And then I couldn't get it up. NOTHING!! I was so confused. 😛

How do I fix this next time? Those who also had this: how did you get over it, and how long did it take?

Yes, but at the moment itself even that didn't work lol

You're just nervous. I'm with Tiz on the one shot of something.

Do you guys do oral? Start with that. I doubt it won't get up while it's in her mouth.

When I first had sex, it was with a virgin too. Talk about the blind leading the blind.

Take lots of time. Have fun, laugh, fumble your way through it.

Don't consider losing your virginity to be THE pivotal moment of your life. Only adds pressure.

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Posted by Damnata
When I first had sex, it was with a virgin too. Talk about the blind leading the blind.

Take lots of time. Have fun, laugh, fumble your way through it.

Don't consider losing your virginity to be THE pivotal moment of your life. Only adds pressure.

😆

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And it was the 4th of July!!! I was in spirit with the muricans.

Should check my 8th house transits for that day..lmao.

You should also watch Mrs Robinson. You cannot come across more clueless than Dustin Hoffman in that movie.

Guaranteed.

Posted by tiziani
But D is right

You know, in the context of this thread...that statement alone sounds like a massive burn.

wacky humor day.

Posted by tiziani
Yeah I regretted calling you that as soon as I read back what I posted lol

lmao

i was like "did tiz just say "the dick is up""? in a topic where the problem is the opposite?

this pimp hand i have isn't staying strong by itself, tiz.

^^^^
this woman is kind of a boner killer

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Posted by LillyBlossom
He has nice legs.

I think it's a good idea to torture each other, meaning, be around each other, touch and flirt, talk, look at each other, focus on another activity so that your hunger for physical...meshing plays at the back of your mind while you struggle to focus on the puzzle you're working on together, for example. Until it builds up and you just want to kiss her so badly. Her hand on your thigh will send your blood rushing. There's something very special about a woman's touch. Biology will take over from there. Your intention when seeing each other is NOT to have sex. That way, sex will be all you want. Self-imposed reverse psychology.

That's quite ingenius. Damn good advice,

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Indeed, sounds very logical. Going to try that out, thanks! Actually that's kind of the way I got her attracted to me, sneaky manipulative bastard that I am 😛

ellie kemper is like the lovechild of a cabbage patch kid and a xenomorph, are you trying to turn the kid gay?

All part of learning I suppose. I mean my first time... wow... it was pretty embarassing... for the both of us.

Like.. how do I even sex. Just don't think about it too much, have a drink but yeah... just a drink... or two... not too many.

I guess different for me as was with a guy and am bottom so don't need to get hard, but have been with guys that have had that problem. usually a bj or doing something none sexual, or better i find naked hugs works wonders.

Posted by Taniwha
How often to you watch/jack off to porn?

Never, tried it some times because I thought I wasn't normal for not watching porn but I didn't find it very interesting 😛

Any updates, OP?

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Posted by Taniwha
How often to you watch/jack off to porn?

Never, tried it some times because I thought I wasn't normal for not watching porn but I didn't find it very interesting 😛

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Ok now this is a bit weird.
either there is a biological problem or you aren't really into girls.
Most guys your age are aroused at the smallest wind breeze

Wait, I put it wrong - I do find it 'interesting' but not necessary.

so did you put it in or not?
Damnata needs to know

Almost. Lol

Vulgar details:
It went down again while putting on the condom and then I prematurely ejaculated while trying to put it in. Lmao