Domineering People are energyvampires

I just need to vent, the recent thread, "did you have enemies" got me thinking, I dont have enemies, but there are assholes, chatterboxes, domineering people at work,

which makes is it impossible to get rid of them. It feels like a deep intrusion of my boundary, when they dictate to the group what to do, women who want you to agree

in public, which makes you feel like their castrate of you, the only time I feel like that, when I got bullied and beat up in my childhood. I feel wronged, and while the rest of the world moves on, to me time has stopped until I inflicted some punishment on the person, the world could be pleasant if people are fair (libra rising), what are

your thoughts on asshole and domineering people, or are you domineering?

I remove myself from the situation emotionally and detach.

There is definitely an energy withdrawal felt

It’s almost like their lack of boundaries give you some ptsd reaction to what happened in childhood. I think it’s very common.

A lot of people think being domineering and “right fighters” gives them a strong character, when in actuality it reflects a weak ego.

The lesson is for you to remove yourself in the moment and not react to them, because then they feel validated. Hold your own and take a breath and talk to them calmly. They won’t understand why they can’t dominate you and it will reveal their lack of strength.

Rude ass representatives, customer service, sales people and food service workers!

I'm very nice to them and whenever take advantage of that. Fatal mistake. I have no problem going from sweet and kind to nasty, bossy, rude, unpleasant and downright evil.

Domineering co-worker? Not a problem. I just become a nasty, rude, underhanded, conniving and sadistic POS and attack them from all sides until I wear them down. I yell at them, give them nasty looks, start smearing them, snitch on them, set them up, find people who dislike them to back me up by pressing the right buttons to make them explode in anger towards that person by telling stories or incidents that parallel how they were treated by that person and have them join me in conspiring against the bossy/domineering co-worker and just make their time at work a living hell. It fixes the attitude problem towards me... permanently.

These motherfuckers need to learn to respect people. Especially people they don't know. Some people have no problem going to great lengths in order to rip someone a new one.

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Posted by Parkourler

I just need to vent, the recent thread, "did you have enemies" got me thinking, I dont have enemies, but there are assholes, chatterboxes, domineering people at work,

which makes is it impossible to get rid of them. It feels like a deep intrusion of my boundary, when they dictate to the group what to do, women who want you to agree

in public, which makes you feel like their castrate of you, the only time I feel like that, when I got bullied and beat up in my childhood. I feel wronged, and while the rest of the world moves on, to me time has stopped until I inflicted some punishment on the person, the world could be pleasant if people are fair (libra rising), what are

your thoughts on asshole and domineering people, or are you domineering?

Good thing that you got this off your chest.

I don’t like domineering people. Just tell the dictators that there is no “I” in team. Don’t think it is a good idea to “punish” them. I know you think in terms of fairness, but the truth is: nothing is fair in life. When you accept that as the truth, you can rise above it.

For the chatterbox that talks about herself all the time, I can tolerate those people.

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I can accept that life is not fair, thank you, asserting boundaries and confronting people is better than settling the score. The chatterbox is always kind, but she vents too much cause she will retire on wellfare which is why she is looking for a new job, (damm german government) so I will be nice to her, I came across social Entrepreneur ship maybe i find somebody in that space who can help her.

I just put my foot down and do it swiftly. And would be obligied to take it however far they wanna take it. I just went thru this ALL weekend. A dude was yelling at a young girl that worked at wal mart. Before I knew it I told him it couldnt be met. He stopped and looked. I told him talk to me like that and bring ya ass outside.

I dont tolerate thosw kinda ppl on any mf level. I learned in the past that they wont stop until you get firm with em. Just assert ya self. If its a group thing I just bounce. But soon as you cross them lines into the shadows, im on ya ass and may god have mercy on us both

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I am not easy to dominate, and actually enjoy giving domineering people a hard time lolz.

why not give them a hard time. we all try to get through the day and thats always stressful, so any jerk who adds to it deserves to get punked. why cant everybody be friendly?

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Posted by Hamsthetics

I actually feel bad for them. It's so sad that they are not able to feel alive without someone in their lives to be dominated and manipulated.

Exactly. Its a dependency problem. And most victims who dont have firm understanding of themselves will fall into the trap

I mean, it's kinda okay/tolerable if they are somewhat attractive or smart, but most of them are unbelievably stupid with big ego and their rotten personality is very obvious even to the most gullible/naive target victims.

Their inflexibility to see life in different angle and failed to recognize that personal freedom is exist will keep them miserable to be around/live with.

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do you watch suits? Which one would you tolerate?

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Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by Hamsthetics

I actually feel bad for them. It's so sad that they are not able to feel alive without someone in their lives to be dominated and manipulated.

Exactly. Its a dependency problem. And most victims who dont have firm understanding of themselves will fall into the trap

I mean, it's kinda okay/tolerable if they are somewhat attractive or smart, but most of them are unbelievably stupid with big ego and their rotten personality is very obvious even to the most gullible/naive target victims.

Their inflexibility to see life in different angle and failed to recognize that personal freedom is exist will keep them miserable to be around/live with.

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do you watch suits? Which one would you tolerate?

I tune them out especially when they're chatterboxes... I don't have the time for it.

i found myself extremely subservient in a recent relationship. but i suppose that's nothing new coz i tend to lean that way but that was just so beyond. this man had my phone everyday for months since we started living together. i go to work everyday without a phone. i didn't care so much that he had it coz i knew that i was so boring and clean. dude had access to all my social media, my emails, knows everything i do at work through skype, checks my spam, past convos i've had about antiques, looks through my search history and watches videos i've recently watched.

can't turn to my family, my friends are disgusted with my choice in life. if he told me to stop making contact with someone, i obey. and he gets to tell me when i gotta sleep.

no control's ever enough for some people. you can surrender your basic human rights, your privacy, your personhood don't matter. it's never enough.