@Gem03
9 Years
How often do you have sex in the talking/dating stage?
Frequency of Sex During the Talking and Dating Stage
The frequency of sex in the talking or dating stage varies widely among individuals and depends on mutual comfort and attraction. It is not exclusive to relationships and can happen at different paces. Communication and consent are key to understanding each other's needs during this phase.
If we've made it to sex, then I want it every time I see him. I don't want my visit to go unwasted. I'll pass on it if there is no time but usually there's always time for it.
Sag Sun
Cancer Moon
Been awhile since I was dating/talking but once we start sleeping together I’d say we’re firmly in the dating category because I never liked the casual sex thing...kinda gross to me ...but I’m gonna go with as often as possible because I want to set the right expectation
Sag sun
Leo moon
Never. Relationship only.
Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
Never. Relationship only.
Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
I need a taurus man lol
Because men usually want to fuck during the talking stage and im like no sir. The only dick allowed in me is if it belongs to me. You’re not my man so lets not lol
Never. Relationship only.
Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
I need a taurus man lol
Because men usually want to fuck during the talking stage and im like no sir. The only dick allowed in me is if it belongs to me. You’re not my man so lets not lol
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Lmfao.
Never. Relationship only.
Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
I need a taurus man lol
Because men usually want to fuck during the talking stage and im like no sir. The only dick allowed in me is if it belongs to me. You’re not my man so lets not lol
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So would you get into a relationship after 2 weeks or so? This is interesting. How long does the dating stage have to last before a title and sex?
Never. Relationship only.
Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
I need a taurus man lol
Because men usually want to fuck during the talking stage and im like no sir. The only dick allowed in me is if it belongs to me. You’re not my man so lets not lol
So would you get into a relationship after 2 weeks or so? This is interesting. How long does the dating stage have to last before a title and sex?
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Nope, I would never rush into commitment. I take it seriously. So the talking stage needs to be 3-4 months then the title. IF everything is going good. Also if the guy only does want to fuck me so he'd leave way before then lol. I value physical intimacy which is why I get turned off when a guy starts sexualizing me early on or is only talking about sex whenever we talk. Like boy you gonna get your ass blocked 😄
Why does it matter?
Bc hookups really aren't for me. I am way too emotional and needy lol
Aries/Virgo
I try to wait a month, most serious longest relationships I had started by waiting. But they knew that I wanted it😉
Never. Relationship only.
Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
I need a taurus man lol
Because men usually want to fuck during the talking stage and im like no sir. The only dick allowed in me is if it belongs to me. You’re not my man so lets not lol
So would you get into a relationship after 2 weeks or so? This is interesting. How long does the dating stage have to last before a title and sex?
Nope, I would never rush into commitment. I take it seriously. So the talking stage needs to be 3-4 months then the title. IF everything is going good. Also if the guy only does want to fuck me so he'd leave way before then lol. I value physical intimacy which is why I get turned off when a guy starts sexualizing me early on or is only talking about sex whenever we talk. Like boy you gonna get your ass blocked 😄
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Nice. That’s a decent amount of time to get to know someone. I like it!
Why does it matter?
Bc hookups really aren't for me. I am way too emotional and needy lol
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What happens if the sex is horrible but now he’s your boyfriend?
You’d get emotional and needy with a partner who sucks in bed?
The topic is about sex, which is why I’m asking.
Some people are fine with the other aspects of a relationship.
I was just wondering if you can have a good connection without sexual intimacy in a relationship.
Why does it matter?
Bc hookups really aren't for me. I am way too emotional and needy lol
What happens if the sex is horrible but now he’s your boyfriend?
You’d get emotional and needy with a partner who sucks in bed?
The topic is about sex, which is why I’m asking.
Some people are fine with the other aspects of a relationship.
I was just wondering if you can have a good connection without sexual intimacy in a relationship.
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If sex is bad then you can have a discussion and understand what turns you on and what turns them on. Practice makes perfect 🙂
Sex isn’t a deal breaker for me. Also boyfriend doesn’t mean hes my husband lol. Boyfriend holds value but if shit goes south you can leave.
I don't.
Why does it matter?
Bc hookups really aren't for me. I am way too emotional and needy lol
What happens if the sex is horrible but now he’s your boyfriend?
You’d get emotional and needy with a partner who sucks in bed?
The topic is about sex, which is why I’m asking.
Some people are fine with the other aspects of a relationship.
I was just wondering if you can have a good connection without sexual intimacy in a relationship.
If sex is bad then you can have a discussion and understand what turns you on and what turns them on. Practice makes perfect 🙂
Sex isn’t a deal breaker for me. Also boyfriend doesn’t mean hes my husband lol. Boyfriend holds value but if shit goes south you can leave.
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I guess that's where you and I differ, and why I was asking.
Man-cave that has mostly women responding.
No where is safe for DXP.
Not a woman hater but if OP wanted a females opinion on the matter they would have asked in the "misc." or whatever the equivalent is of this sub-forum is for women.
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Most people don't pay attention to the sub categories, since the titles are in bold and it's whatever is trending that comes first.
If it were up to the guys, most of these men issues wouldn't even be answered.
It’s like the real life equivalent of men not being able to get a word in
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Since the 3 men on dxp have responded I guess this thread now belongs to us ladies lol
I won't get into a relationship without testing the goods. But we need to be sexually exclusive with one another, get tested, have the chemistry/connection/trust built. So however long that takes. Been anywhere between 1month to 1 yr. Depends on the dating frequency and the person.
No fast and hard rule with me.
So all these single women aren't having sex at all? Cause you wait until a relationship? That's pretty hard to believe 😏
I don't just Fuck when I have sex. So things can get messy and not on my end either.
As to when, it depends on the connection and whether we can handle adding that to the mix. There is no milestone limitations for me, like dating or any other kind of relationship. Sometimes I just really want that kind of intimate connection with someone and my libido will go into overdrive for her.
Virgo Sun
Taurus moon
Virgo mercury
Libra Venus
Sag mars
Man-cave that has mostly women responding.
No where is safe for DXP.
Not a woman hater but if OP wanted a females opinion on the matter they would have asked in the "misc." or whatever the equivalent is of this sub-forum is for women.
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Im asking the men but anyone can answer and if someone is SPECIFICALLY asking me something I'll answer
Talking without sex, what's that??
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Or is that in a relationship only thing? Pls state your sun+moon sign 🙂