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And what of woman who beat their men? Its not just men who are guilty. I cant stand any form of abuse. I've been with someone who has chocked me before. I left the very next day.

Those instances do happen.

I'm asking when it's appropriate. Not a simple question and not a simple answer.
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I dont think its ever appropriate. But it really is not as simple as black and white either unfortunately
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Idk I’ve seen women violently attack men before and it’s really not fair that he’s not supposed to defend himself

I’m not saying he should ball up his fist and punch her back, but I wouldn’t fault him if he resorted to choke slamming her 🤷🏼‍♀️

Were there weapons involved other than fists?
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If you consider an object like a phone or a shoe a weapon when used to hit someone
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Idk I’ve seen women violently attack men before and it’s really not fair that he’s not supposed to defend himself

I’m not saying he should ball up his fist and punch her back, but I wouldn’t fault him if he resorted to choke slamming her 🤷🏼‍♀️

Were there weapons involved other than fists?

If you consider an object like a phone or a shoe a weapon when used to hit someone
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I don't.
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Idk I’ve seen women violently attack men before and it’s really not fair that he’s not supposed to defend himself

I’m not saying he should ball up his fist and punch her back, but I wouldn’t fault him if he resorted to choke slamming her 🤷🏼‍♀️

Choking in that way is a big no no IMO.

There are other ways to keep people at a distance. Especially if you are taller.
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It was more for effect 😅 not a lot of people have the arm strength to choke slam anyway

But seriously I’ve seen women jump on dudes like little spider monkeys and start wailing...imo they deserved whatever it is they had coming to them. You shouldn’t assume someone won’t defend themselves simply because there’s some rule that says men should never put their hands on women.

In these instances other people had to intervene and pull her off him. I can imagine it would be difficult to get away if you didn’t have the assistance of others. You’d probably have to put her down. 🤷🏼‍♀️One can only hope you’d do it nicely
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.


Gtfo.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Ew. Like you don’t have agency to get out of a shitty relationship.
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A few shitty characteristics that need major addressing don't mean it's a shitty relationship. You do realize women hit men all the time? What's that say about 'getting out of shitty relationships'? To either party
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.
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Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

I like what you said about one argument.

*but not the rest.
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Care to elaborate? It's all one single argument the way i see it.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Like it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship but just losing respect for someone isn’t an excuse to get physical. That’s dumb as fuck and Sean Connerys statement was trash.
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My memory is sketchy here. Is this the same user who did a psa for woman on this site, who were being trapped/conned by nightcap? The same user who now says its open season if respect is broken by either party?
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Like it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship but just losing respect for someone isn’t an excuse to get physical. That’s dumb as fuck and Sean Connerys statement was trash.

My memory is sketchy here. Is this the same user who did a psa for woman on this site, who were being trapped/conned by nightcap? The same user who now says its open season if respect is broken by either party?

Yes and I railed against both him and NC in that thread.
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Lol. See what I mean, what I said earlier people make themselves look stupid.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Ew. Like you don’t have agency to get out of a shitty relationship.

A few shitty characteristics that need major addressing don't mean it's a shitty relationship. You do realize women hit men all the time? What's that say about 'getting out of shitty relationships'? To either party

You said lose respect for and Sean Connery basically called women hysterical and said they should be slapped when they aren’t his little robot.

Those aren’t abusive behaviors in and of themselves.

Your comment reeks. Maybe edit it if you meant something else.
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He literally didn't say they should be slapped if they aren't his little robots. You are so black and white. He literally said that if he lets her have the argument yet she keeps coming at him over and over again harrassing him, then well ... basically expect toxicity to be cured with toxicity. I agree with that.

Of course both have the option to divorce before things move to new territory, but who are we to judge their choices?
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.
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If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.

If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.

What advantage is that?
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You are literally living 'em. As am I.

You been sleeping the past 100 years or so?

I don't have time to go through the whole Western civilization with you, at the gym atm working out so i can beat up my bae
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Shocking that the rape apologist thinks women should be be reminded of the 'physical advantage' men have if she's disrespectful. Totally didn't see that coming guysss

Typical libtard narcissist to not acknowledge the privileges and advantages she has for her vagina not only in relatiinships to men but in the society as whole
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Suuuurrrrrrre buddy.

Tell us more about how that make you mad
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Shocking that the rape apologist thinks women should be be reminded of the 'physical advantage' men have if she's disrespectful. Totally didn't see that coming guysss

Typical libtard narcissist to not acknowledge the privileges and advantages she has for her vagina not only in relatiinships to men but in the society as whole

Suuuurrrrrrre buddy.

Tell us more about how that make you mad
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Typical libtard response. 0 content
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.

If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.

What advantage is that?

You are literally living 'em. As am I.

You been sleeping the past 100 years or so?

I don't have time to go through the whole Western civilization with you, at the gym atm working out so i can beat up my bae

So basic equality is a privilege is what you are saying? Instead of what should be the base line of respect.
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But we aren't equal, that's the point. One is a man with all that that entails, the other is woman. We can never be one and the same.

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Shocking that the rape apologist thinks women should be be reminded of the 'physical advantage' men have if she's disrespectful. Totally didn't see that coming guysss

Typical libtard narcissist to not acknowledge the privileges and advantages she has for her vagina not only in relatiinships to men but in the society as whole

Suuuurrrrrrre buddy.

Tell us more about how that make you mad

Typical libtard response. 0 content
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So are you mad that I'm a woman or are you mad because of my so called perceived political views?
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Shocking that the rape apologist thinks women should be be reminded of the 'physical advantage' men have if she's disrespectful. Totally didn't see that coming guysss

Typical libtard narcissist to not acknowledge the privileges and advantages she has for her vagina not only in relatiinships to men but in the society as whole

Suuuurrrrrrre buddy.

Tell us more about how that make you mad

Typical libtard response. 0 content

So are you mad that I'm a woman or are you mad because of my so called perceived political views?
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Your ignorance. You be the judge.
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.

If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.

What advantage is that?

You are literally living 'em. As am I.

You been sleeping the past 100 years or so?

I don't have time to go through the whole Western civilization with you, at the gym atm working out so i can beat up my bae

So basic equality is a privilege is what you are saying? Instead of what should be the base line of respect.

But we aren't equal, that's the point. One is a man with all that that entails, the other is woman. We can never be one and the same.

We can be treated as equals even if we all express our gender roles on a spectrum.
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Ok then so why aren't we?

Where are all the men's shelters.. abuse isn't only physical cuz then all the women subjected to it would have left their tormentors. So we have to assume women play the same mental games as men, in fact you' re the fucking masters of that end of the spectrum, and when shit hits the fan it's also perfectly fine to beat his ass anyway you plz... you don't need physical strenght to pick up a bottle or knife or whatever, but where are the statistics on that? Unreported cuz woman-on-man violence in domestic relationships isn't as soul-crushing apparently.

Vagina privilege?
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Bill had an abusive father and cowering mother. Even given his obvious issues, he still says you just never hit a woman, regardless of what she does.
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He also says there are tons of reasons to hit a woman. He's basically arguing you don't do it not cuz it doesn't make sense, but cuz of conditioning. You can be the good guy and see things from different perspectives, clearly a lost artform.
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Shocking that the rape apologist thinks women should be be reminded of the 'physical advantage' men have if she's disrespectful. Totally didn't see that coming guysss

Typical libtard narcissist to not acknowledge the privileges and advantages she has for her vagina not only in relatiinships to men but in the society as whole

Suuuurrrrrrre buddy.

Tell us more about how that make you mad

Typical libtard response. 0 content

So are you mad that I'm a woman or are you mad because of my so called perceived political views?

Your ignorance. You be the judge.
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I really don't gaf. I'm just amused your mad to begin with ayyyeeeeee
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Bill had an abusive father and cowering mother. Even given his obvious issues, he still says you just never hit a woman, regardless of what she does.

He also says there are tons of reasons to hit a woman. He's basically arguing you don't do it not cuz it doesn't make sense, but cuz of conditioning. You can be the good guy and see things from different perspectives, clearly a lost artform.

I think it's pretty clear that he means that women run their mouths, just as men do, and that women sometimes say things to a man that a man would hit another man for, but you still don't hit them, because it's not a fair physical fight.

At any rate, I don't agree. No one should hit anyone. And if you know a man won't hit a woman, that's even more reason to never hit him. People shouldn't be emotionally abusive and toxic either, but taking it to physical violence is another level.
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"Fair physical fight" is such a flawed reasoning. There are too many variables, like imagine you're a large mousy guy with poor self image and this overbearing bytch of a girlfriend is constantly practising her superiority over you in that sense, and tormenting you any time u disagree. She clearly has the advantage mentally over your physical strenght. Most ppl would agree that psychological torment is as bad as physical if not worse.. u telling me women are saints here just cuz that doesn't make it into the statistics, just cuz men don't seek out shelters that don't exist? Lol

If someone picked on me back in the school days, you think I didn't give him a beating if I had a few inches on him?

By your logic small guys should be allowed to torment and talk shit in your face with no consequences?
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.

If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.

What advantage is that?

You are literally living 'em. As am I.

You been sleeping the past 100 years or so?

I don't have time to go through the whole Western civilization with you, at the gym atm working out so i can beat up my bae

So basic equality is a privilege is what you are saying? Instead of what should be the base line of respect.

But we aren't equal, that's the point. One is a man with all that that entails, the other is woman. We can never be one and the same.

We can be treated as equals even if we all express our gender roles on a spectrum.

Ok then so why aren't we?

Where are all the men's shelters.. abuse isn't only physical cuz then all the women subjected to it would have left their tormentors. So we have to assume women play the same mental games as men, in fact you' re the fucking masters of that end of the spectrum, and when shit hits the fan it's also perfectly fine to beat his ass anyway you plz... you don't need physical strenght to pick up a bottle or knife or whatever, but where are the statistics on that? Unreported cuz woman-on-man violence in domestic relationships isn't as soul-crushing apparently.

Vagina privilege?

When did I advocate for women committing violence against men??
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Well hon there isn't hell of a lot argumenting against it either , neither by you or anyone else tbh. It's usually like you said, "When did I advocate for women committing violence against men"? But you are clearly arguing against men's violence
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.

If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.

What advantage is that?

You are literally living 'em. As am I.

You been sleeping the past 100 years or so?

I don't have time to go through the whole Western civilization with you, at the gym atm working out so i can beat up my bae

So basic equality is a privilege is what you are saying? Instead of what should be the base line of respect.

But we aren't equal, that's the point. One is a man with all that that entails, the other is woman. We can never be one and the same.

We can be treated as equals even if we all express our gender roles on a spectrum.

Ok then so why aren't we?

Where are all the men's shelters.. abuse isn't only physical cuz then all the women subjected to it would have left their tormentors. So we have to assume women play the same mental games as men, in fact you' re the fucking masters of that end of the spectrum, and when shit hits the fan it's also perfectly fine to beat his ass anyway you plz... you don't need physical strenght to pick up a bottle or knife or whatever, but where are the statistics on that? Unreported cuz woman-on-man violence in domestic relationships isn't as soul-crushing apparently.

Vagina privilege?

When did I advocate for women committing violence against men??

Well hon there isn't hell of a lot argumenting against it either , neither by you or anyone else tbh. It's usually like you said, "When did I advocate for women committing violence against men"? But you are clearly arguing against men's violence

I would argue against any violence, if that was the original question.
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So now it's "I'm against ANY violence"? That's like saying All lives matter at a BLM rally. You really can't say the words, can ya?
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What Sean Connery said. No joking. If you hear her out and basically and u bending your back backwards for her being patient and she still keeps coming at you and won't let shit rest, then I can't judge. She abusing her privileges.

Imagine being in a domestic situation with a person with such toxic tendencies. You have two choices, either divorce her and gtfo which is kind of extreme thing to do over one huge argument that in her mind goes on for weeks and months..

Or you take things to her level.

I mean why do women always think shit is gonna go down on their terms, like they have a natural right to it?

A woman needs to respect the (physical) advantage a man has over her , aswell the advantage/privileges she has over him. A man too needs to respect his own advantages he has over her and not abuse those.



If the respect is broken by either party it's open season imo.

Gtfo.

Of course.

All the privilege, no accountability.

Your noddy badge is in the post.

If you as a woman don't respect the privilege and advantage you have over a man in a supposedly loving relationship, how can you expect him to respect his own advantages in relation to you? Bottom line.

What advantage is that?

You are literally living 'em. As am I.

You been sleeping the past 100 years or so?

I don't have time to go through the whole Western civilization with you, at the gym atm working out so i can beat up my bae

So basic equality is a privilege is what you are saying? Instead of what should be the base line of respect.

But we aren't equal, that's the point. One is a man with all that that entails, the other is woman. We can never be one and the same.

We can be treated as equals even if we all express our gender roles on a spectrum.

Ok then so why aren't we?

Where are all the men's shelters.. abuse isn't only physical cuz then all the women subjected to it would have left their tormentors. So we have to assume women play the same mental games as men, in fact you' re the fucking masters of that end of the spectrum, and when shit hits the fan it's also perfectly fine to beat his ass anyway you plz... you don't need physical strenght to pick up a bottle or knife or whatever, but where are the statistics on that? Unreported cuz woman-on-man violence in domestic relationships isn't as soul-crushing apparently.

Vagina privilege?

When did I advocate for women committing violence against men??

Well hon there isn't hell of a lot argumenting against it either , neither by you or anyone else tbh. It's usually like you said, "When did I advocate for women committing violence against men"? But you are clearly arguing against men's violence

I would argue against any violence, if that was the original question.

So now it's "I'm against ANY violence"? That's like saying All lives matter at a BLM rally. You really can't say the words, can ya?

Uh okay bro. I literally talked about women committing abuse against men in my first and second post. 🙄
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Yes you literally said the same thing as I've said, using different words so what exactly did you find so controversial and icky in what I said? Bc you don't approve of violence? I don't either but here's the thing

Clearly any sensible human being would remove themselves from a person who makes them feel in a certain way, or makes them lash out in a certain way. But people aren't sensible, every single one of us has blind spots.. love is only logical in the sense that we seek those who match our dysfunctions no matter how small or big. There are too many interpersonal variables. Violence is a result of that.. and that's kinda ok with me.
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“I don’t either”

“Violence is a result of that.. and that’s kinda ok with me.”

.................

My own use of violence or the lack therof, as in removing myself from toxic situations for most part - and understanding other ppl who don't and their mechanisms, those two things can co-exist. One approach is ideal, the other isn't. And like I said, that's ok.

You can hold two opposing ideas in your head, one personal and one general, and acknowledge the driving force between both without necesserily thinking that a non-violence approach is best considering how flawed we are and a whole set of other individual variations . But I can choose which one is right for me specifically without necesserily making that decision for everyone cuz hey everyone's not me. I may have had the privilege to cultivate or acquire certain skills that the next person hasn't.
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Bill Burr's advice was good.

It's a good exercise to practice this in general with people but especially with women. I don't know why but whenever I have had a verbal fight with a woman she almost always became nicer afterwards.

Anyway, I am actually interested in reading a Red Pill Fact #23 on this topic soon from an alpha male perspective @iamnotbot
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This is why we see the prevalence of women pimps sex trafficking men. Now get out there and make me my money

*flexes hand

It's funny how it's a gender thing when men are pimping out women, but when the pimp is female pimping out females then it's .... err, what? Socioeconomic factors? lol
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Don’t talk back bitch. I said get out there and get me my money ho. Or no Facebook for you tonight.
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So if she doesn’t come around and acquiesce to his idea of what is correct then she can get hit.

I could argue the same - if HE doesn't come around and acquiesce to HER idea of what is correct, she's gonna what? - keep coming at him and coming at him until, what? When is enough? That's Connery's whole point. He has surrendered, given her right, yet she keeps at it.

Your blind spot (stemming from your female privilege ) is assuming that, not only do women get to set the rules to what the bottom line is, but that for some fucked up reason you get to decide what an appropriate reaction from him should be?

Again, WHY DO WOMEN ASSUME THESE THINGS WILL GO DOWN OF THEIR TERMS IF THEY KEEP POKING? That's female fucking privilege right there, that mindset.

You can train a bear to do things on your terms and that's fun and games, but you also need to respect the ways he is superior to you, as he respects the ways you are superior to him. You cannot keep poking and poking at him just cuz you're holding the stick. You don't get to decide what his eventual reaction will be.
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Defending one's self (or another person) from imminent bodily harm.

The key is imminent bodily harm. If it's Snookie squaring up with The Rock, then it's a no. If it's a grown ass heifer beating a small child, she's getting layed the fuck out.

The heffer would probably get a MAX of seven years for child abuse. Youd get a minimum of 10 for "laying her out" so run away after if you ever plan on doing that because the cops will be looking for you to arrest.
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You'd be surprised...

I can only say for my state of course... but its 2-6 years for child abuse and 6months for assault (punching).
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