boy or girl?

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The Lady Scorpio
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First and foremost, I would like to go for adoption unless outstanding circumstances happen and a pregnancy happens between my SO and I.

Boy or a Girl, it matters not. I will love my child regardless of their gender, it would be such silliness to want to choose.

Would you love your own child less, if they are of a specific gender?

What if they decide they want a gender reassignment when they are older, would you love your child less?

If an individual wants to become a parent, I do not believe they should carry such a mindset or such a heart in raising their own child. It would be unfair to them, to have them strive for something they inherently cannot change about themselves.
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Obviously doesn't matter but we are hoping for a boy lol
You are pregnant Libra?


No way!! Lol
Oh right

*hoping for a boy* sounds like ye are

Do the test! 😄
I have an IUD. I'm not lol. Plus we already did that test a few times and I definitely am not. He brings up the baby thing so much. And we agreed we hope for a boy lol. But I said not for at least 2 years after we marry.

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Good luck with it! 🙂
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
First and foremost, I would like to go for adoption unless outstanding circumstances happen and a pregnancy happens between my SO and I.

Boy or a Girl, it matters not. I will love my child regardless of their gender, it would be such silliness to want to choose.

Would you love your own child less, if they are of a specific gender?

What if they decide they want a gender reassignment when they are older, would you love your child less?

If an individual wants to become a parent, I do not believe they should carry such a mindset or such a heart in raising their own child. It would be unfair to them, to have them strive for something they inherently cannot change about themselves.
I agree. The mindset is first and foremost, " how am I gonna be able to raise this child, under what circumstances, financial, and prepare for everything, have the baby room ready, will I breast feed, will I set the baby bed in the room so he/she wakes in the middle of the night, she/he will be right there to feed." that kind of thing is important, especially in the early years when the baby is born, they wake up hungry in the middle of the night, there is lack of sleep. get ready for a lot of hard work.