@enfant_terrible
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Dealing with creepbags
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by misoWhat's your angle? This random half-wit last night kept coming up to me and asking me "is that really your boyfriend?" over and over again and told me he wanted to "rape" me (excuse me?) .. my boyfriend was standing right there. He's really protective and possessive over me, so I was surprised that he didn't react, but in a way I'm glad he didn't. Yeesh.
I think you should check your bf for pulse cuz that was his cue.
Even if he so was a progressive 21st century gender-bender who figures you're a big girl and you can fight your own battles (as if that has to do with anything) there's really no excuse for him to tolerate someone talking to you like that in his presence. Bottom line is if that guy was bothering you, that fact alone should have bothered him too. It's not like the line crossed here is up for interpretation.
Welcome back btw 🍹
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If some said anything like that to my girl they'd be on their back in seconds. I'm not sure how he was able to just stay calm. Oh well, to each their own. Maybe he doesn't like confrontation.
It's all about the stare. When you're telling them to go away, stare them straight in the eyes.
I have what you call the 'death stare'... "If you don't F off I'm going to hurt you" stare.
It works, most of the time. If it doesn't I'll ask for some male help. 😛
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I think you should check your bf for pulse cuz that was his cue.
Even if he so was a progressive 21st century gender-bender who figures you're a big girl and you can fight your own battles (as if that has to do with anything) there's really no excuse for him to tolerate someone talking to you like that in his presence. Bottom line is if that guy was bothering you, that fact alone should have bothered him too. It's not like the line crossed here is up for interpretation.
Welcome back btw 🍹