
E. M. Henderson
@Emhendo
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Posted by saggurl88
All women are different. Some are gold diggers and appreciate gifts. Others are not.
They aren’t grouped into one certain category. I’m not a gold digger and don’t care about material things but if my significant other planned vacations with me to new destinations all the time, it would be a match made in heaven and I would never be ungrateful.
If I got a gift that makes no sense to you he type of life style that I live, I may be unhappy with the gift. This is part of the issue. Most gifts from men come from what they want to get you, there isn’t much to bought behind what their spouse/partner wants.
I had to tell my ex to stop getting my track suits (? Those adidas suits ) and tennis shoes. I never wore them and he kept getting matching ones for us. I didn’t even wear them and don’t like matching my spouse. He didn’t care and still bought them. 🙄

Posted by virgoOPPP
hahah @ best sex
unrealistic asf
even my best sex isn't always the best at other times
idk man i just experienced a gold digging ivory coast d and he's not even tall enough
shit goes both ways tbh

Posted by Arielle83
My bf gets me weed and viagra and some good dick. I cook him a mean feed so he can keep giving it to me.
I don’t like clothes or cars.

Posted by EmhendoPosted by saggurl88
All women are different. Some are gold diggers and appreciate gifts. Others are not.
They aren’t grouped into one certain category. I’m not a gold digger and don’t care about material things but if my significant other planned vacations with me to new destinations all the time, it would be a match made in heaven and I would never be ungrateful.
If I got a gift that makes no sense to you he type of life style that I live, I may be unhappy with the gift. This is part of the issue. Most gifts from men come from what they want to get you, there isn’t much to bought behind what their spouse/partner wants.
I had to tell my ex to stop getting my track suits (? Those adidas suits ) and tennis shoes. I never wore them and he kept getting matching ones for us. I didn’t even wear them and don’t like matching my spouse. He didn’t care and still bought them. 🙄
That whole last part about the Adidas tracksuits.. And the fact that he wanted to match outfits with you - speaks of how he was as a boyfriend.. He wanted the mainstream, onboard, social media coupling. He truly wanted ya'll to be an "item". "We're a team". That's cringe.
Now, this why I say stop buyin women shit when it's not really warranted...
If a man wanted you to travel with him, what are you doing as a woman to earn such a reward? I'm just sayin, we trick off on girls for no reason..
Say if your ex didn't buy you track suits.. Which was for his own force of an image.
He instead he bought you dresses and heels, using this as an example cuz it's still clothing..
Something you would actually wear, right?
You saying materials don't interest you, but you would prolly wear the free dresses and heels.. You even mentioned going on trips.. A material.
See, it's a difference between not being happy with the gift and just wanting what you want.
You like materials. Just how you want it.click to expand



Posted by Pandora101
If you give a gift to buy someones affection - bad
If you give a gift just to show off what can you get for your gf/bf, regardless what they would wish for or care for- bad
in these cases giving gifts is selfish , doing it just for gain something - good sex, ego-boost, etc.,.. that person deserves to be despised not making an effort to know better their partners and for following just their own wishes - so no sympathy with this kind of losers
everyday mutual little gifts and mutual doing things for each other which are not brag-worthy to other people is the way, imho 🙂

Posted by Lionheart917
Lol I might take a picture of lebrons house in LA this Thursday I’ll post it here.

Posted by EmhendoPosted by virgoOPPP
hahah @ best sex
unrealistic asf
even my best sex isn't always the best at other times
idk man i just experienced a gold digging ivory coast d and he's not even tall enough
shit goes both ways tbh
Best sex is realistic "asf".
You prolly can't even fuck that good.. Or as good as them easily sprung betas hype your head up to think you do.
Women have sex with different men differently..
Women are attracted and women are aroused. These two different things.
She has sex with guys she's attracted to.
But fucks guys she's aroused by.click to expand

Posted by EmhendoPosted by virgoOPPP
hahah @ best sex
unrealistic asf
even my best sex isn't always the best at other times
idk man i just experienced a gold digging ivory coast d and he's not even tall enough
shit goes both ways tbh
Best sex is realistic "asf".
You prolly can't even fuck that good.. Or as good as them easily sprung betas hype your head up to think you do.
Women have sex with different men differently..
Women are attracted and women are aroused. These two different things.
She has sex with guys she's attracted to.
But fucks guys she's aroused by.click to expand

Posted by EmhendoPosted by Pandora101
If you give a gift to buy someones affection - bad
If you give a gift just to show off what can you get for your gf/bf, regardless what they would wish for or care for- bad
in these cases giving gifts is selfish , doing it just for gain something - good sex, ego-boost, etc.,.. that person deserves to be despised not making an effort to know better their partners and for following just their own wishes - so no sympathy with this kind of losers
everyday mutual little gifts and mutual doing things for each other which are not brag-worthy to other people is the way, imho 🙂
I think that's why women are repulsed by nice guys and don't truly respect a man that does that simpin/trickin shit.. Cuz women know what's that shit is all about. You buying love, buying sex.
Yeah, you'll have sex with her - but you not gon get her best performance.. Women are to be rewarded, not gifted. Rewards come with hard work/good behavior/effort. A lot of women lack that.. It's also worth a lot more. Gifts are "just because" with a motive behind it.. Hoping for something outta her. Guys gotta stop that shit..click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by EmhendoPosted by saggurl88
All women are different. Some are gold diggers and appreciate gifts. Others are not.
They aren’t grouped into one certain category. I’m not a gold digger and don’t care about material things but if my significant other planned vacations with me to new destinations all the time, it would be a match made in heaven and I would never be ungrateful.
If I got a gift that makes no sense to you he type of life style that I live, I may be unhappy with the gift. This is part of the issue. Most gifts from men come from what they want to get you, there isn’t much to bought behind what their spouse/partner wants.
I had to tell my ex to stop getting my track suits (? Those adidas suits ) and tennis shoes. I never wore them and he kept getting matching ones for us. I didn’t even wear them and don’t like matching my spouse. He didn’t care and still bought them. 🙄
That whole last part about the Adidas tracksuits.. And the fact that he wanted to match outfits with you - speaks of how he was as a boyfriend.. He wanted the mainstream, onboard, social media coupling. He truly wanted ya'll to be an "item". "We're a team". That's cringe.
Now, this why I say stop buyin women shit when it's not really warranted...
If a man wanted you to travel with him, what are you doing as a woman to earn such a reward? I'm just sayin, we trick off on girls for no reason..
Say if your ex didn't buy you track suits.. Which was for his own force of an image.
He instead he bought you dresses and heels, using this as an example cuz it's still clothing..
Something you would actually wear, right?
You saying materials don't interest you, but you would prolly wear the free dresses and heels.. You even mentioned going on trips.. A material.
See, it's a difference between not being happy with the gift and just wanting what you want.
You like materials. Just how you want it.
What am I gonna do to earn what??!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He bought this stuff for birthdays, anniversaries and Christmas. They weren’t just because. Maybe that’s why I got so upset that it wasn’t anything I actually wanted.
I don’t do “just because” gifts so I hardly get them and don’t expect them.
But yes if they were bought and I liked it then I would wear it.
As far as what I do? My time is valuable and I’m fun. I don’t need someone to spend money on me but if they do I show my appreciation. That’s what gifts are for. There is usually someone who wants to spend when they gift things, it’s the other person who needs to show some appreciation.
Doesn’t matter the sex. There are plenty of men who lay up and expect women to pay their way, just because of good sex.
I’m the type that would rather spend my own money then wait around for someone to do something for me. I could care less about gifts. Feels like it’s buying my affection anyways.click to expand
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But most women don't even deserve THAT. It really disgusts me how much we trick off on girls.
My homie has a boyfriend... He just bought her a pair of YEEZYS last week.
Me and him talk that redpill talk, but he ain't really about it..
He has made a lot of false moves during the courting of their relationship, and honestly I don't feel bad for him about the outcome. I like her boyfriend because he reminds me how NOT to be with a woman. Yeah, he holds his frame, he uses less words.. All the things that appear strong on the outside.. But he's totally weak for her and I see it. I just admitted to him not too long ago that he moved in with my friend WAY TOO SOON.. She's already taken the power in very small ways.
You don't want your girlfriend to have the power.. They just simply don't know what to do with it. It panics them and makes them anxious. They abuse it. Also, whether they realize it or not.. Women will lowkey DESPISE you for letting them have the power.
She jokingly insults him ALL the time. She plays with him WAYY too much, in my opinion.. She got a smart ass mouth, too. She always has. She uses her smart ass mouth with him.. She shut him up for me one night when he was rambling while we were drinking.. I did not like that she did that, but she did it because she wanted ME (her homie) to have a word in edgewise. Which I appreciate, but I really wanted her boyfriend to tell her to chill, instead of just shutting up.. I just accepted the courtesy and said what I had to say.
Let's not forget the classic shit tests women unconsciously do.. Sometimes he fails, sometimes he passes. He should be passing 100% of the time, how I see things.
All the shit she does, and the habits she lacks.. Like keeping their space clean, cooking often, making sure he's homecook fed - instead of eating resturant food every night.. That HE buys HER...
All the shit she does...
What the fuck she do to deserve some fucking $ 300-500 YEEZYS?!?!?!—
As Lil Wayne said "It ain't trickin if you got it.", and in the words of Gucci Mane "It ain't trickin if you got it, so I pay these hoes for pleasing me."
He really ain't got it like that...
"He can fool her, but he can't fool me." Also in the words of Gucci.
I understand they have sex, and he might think he in love... But I KNOW for a FACT he not getting her best sex.
Women have sex two ways...
They have sex with you, and they FUCK you.
He's not getting that soul catching, porn star quality.. He's not. He's not seeing her best performance. I don't give a fuck what anybody say.
While it's really not my business what they do; I'm only speaking on this because a few months ago, me and her actually talked about an argument they had.. Guess what the argument comprised of?
SEX...
All I thought to myself was.. Maybe he told her she wasn't suckin his dick good enough, or just not sucking it... Enough.
AHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!!!!
Anyways..
Lebron James worth $ 450 Million, bought his wife a Ferrari Testarossa back in 2016. That is a $ 155,000 dollar car, on average. Some cost more than that.
It's not a problem that he bought her this vehicle... After all, it was her birthday. Most importantly, he can AFFORD IT.
She's a decent wife.. He cheats, she shuts the fuck up. She probably rubs his feet, sucks his dick.. All the things a wife should - whether she is or is not a breadwinner.
She accepted the gift, and she did better at saying what most women say when a man tries to treat her good.. She said it was an "expensive and useless gift".. "But it will be awesome when I learn to drive it, because I cannot drive a manual car".
Doesn't that familiar?
She just did what most do, but said it with less letdown.
These guys be like:
"Honey, I made you breakfast" .."Ooo, I just ate... I'm not hungry."
"Get ready, we're goin to the beach" I get sunburned.. I can't go"
Little shit like that...
Which sounds reasonable to a clean ear, but shit.. If you fall for that shit - oh boy...
This could mean a two things:
Women just subconsciously get annoyed and turned off when you do too much for them. She will secretly despise you for it. She knows she doesn't deserve such things and is annoyed by it.
Or that's her way of saying "MORE".. Challenging you to do better at trying to please her.
You just can't ever completely please them.. The more you give, the more they want. Women are natural hypergamous. In order to satisfy and manage their insatiability of resources .. You have to give them LESS.
LESS is truly more .. Especially with women.
And like I said... Most women don't even deserve most things.. And what's crazy is.. THEY FUCKIN KNOW THEY DON'T..
In Savannah James' case - she just was not impressed with the Ferrari.. Maybe she wanted a (insert kitchen joke)