Help me choose a lesbian escort. (Page 2)

Personal feelings about sex work aside, don’t go for the one with only one nipple piercing. My OCD’s acting up just thinking about it. 😄

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Heading to Barcelona, Paris, Berlin, and Amsterdam for my 31st in March.

Amsterdam is home to one of the only lesbian-owned / for lesbian escort services which I read about in article posted on Vice.

Should I hire a girl for my 31st?

maybe it would be better if you find someone on some dating application, like tinder or something and say you are looking for date for your short-stay, she can show you the city and then you will see.... you can chat beforehand and you can see her pictures ?

or is it a hiring an escort aspect what is fascinating/thrilling, as a gift for yourself rather than a company of a girl in those cities?

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e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.

i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person

then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.

a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

a common misconception is that consent is freely given? shouldn't consent be freely given? are you advocating otherwise?

you can justify being a consumer of prostitution however you like. it's my opinion that it's distasteful to purchase another person in this way.

i don't agree with comparison that sex outside of prostitution is far more dangerous which means that buying an escort is necessary.

consent isn't freely given in non escort scenarios.

that was my point.

women feel pressured to do things they don't want all the time even with other women....

but agree to disagree.

and while again it may not be necessary for you that is your own personal opinion based on your own experiences.

if you're willing to be open to this idea enough to learn about it at a later date and maybe challenge some of your assumptions you can read an article posted on vice and the services they provide here :

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/594wzz/what-ive-learned-from-working-as-a-lesbian-escort

i've had quite a lot of first hand experience with women who work as prostitutes. they're not doing it because it's fun and it's their first choice of occupation.

but yeah agree to disagree. i could never support such an industry.

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I agree with you there but I'm assuming the conversations you had were with heterosexual women catering especially to men and couples which is a bit different.

In Europe in some counties where prostitution is legal..... some sex therapist-coaches and tantric masseuses who work

exclusively with queer clients, sexual minorities, people with body dysmorphia or gender dysphoria etc fall under the same jurisdiction as prostitution and after extensive research , reading interviews...i can say in a lot of these cases for these sex therapist/coaches and masseuses their occupation was their first choice!

It wasn't something they just fell into ...especially since the occupations I outlined above take at least 1-2 years of training at an institution with tuition.

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I'm enjoying this thread but it makes me ponder if the posts would be different if OP was a man.

OF COURSE...it would be!!!

finally, a double standard that works in my favor lol.

one assumption which is true is that if i was a man i definitely would want to have sex with this escort.

as a woman who falls under the asexual umbrella...sex is most likely not going to happen tbh

but this is a safe , intriguing environment to at the very least have some wine , food and conversation with a niche sex worker in a legal highly regulated environment

the service offers teaser dates....which are more company/conversation orientated.

especially catering to first-timers and curious women who have never had a "lesbian encounter"

That’s interesting, I misunderstood the post. So really you’re looking for a true ‘escort’ rather than it being about sex. I see why you posted their descriptions now. I’d choose B on that basis, seems she would have a lot to talk about.

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also really curious to see what the members of the DXP would choose and why.

Like what people are into / what is important for people in choosing an escort?

super fascinating.

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Heading to Barcelona, Paris, Berlin, and Amsterdam for my 31st in March.

Amsterdam is home to one of the only lesbian-owned / for lesbian escort services which I read about in article posted on Vice.

Should I hire a girl for my 31st?

maybe it would be better if you find someone on some dating application, like tinder or something and say you are looking for date for your short-stay, she can show you the city and then you will see.... you can chat beforehand and you can see her pictures ?

or is it a hiring an escort aspect what is fascinating/thrilling, as a gift for yourself rather than a company of a girl in those cities?

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lesbian dating apps are horrifying.lol

and hiring an escort in Amsterdam seems like a good story no?

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I thought you were demisexual or something? You gonna pay an extra hour for have some deep emo conversation before doing da nastay?

probably not emo.....

more like an ethnography in Amsterdam......

i'm currently taking this neuroscience/anthro class entitled "sex and human nature"

maybe we will get high , eat a doner kebab with fries , and or get ice cream

and walk around the canals and talk about sex

This sounds achievable with hooking up a local. Granted the sex is not guaranteed and you can't hand-pick what she looks like... and you can't really be 100% certain she's also gay.

K. Forget I said anything. Good luck. God speed. Be safe.

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LOL

do you want me to bring you anything back?

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Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.

i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person

then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.

a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

a common misconception is that consent is freely given? shouldn't consent be freely given? are you advocating otherwise?

you can justify being a consumer of prostitution however you like. it's my opinion that it's distasteful to purchase another person in this way.

i don't agree with comparison that sex outside of prostitution is far more dangerous which means that buying an escort is necessary.

consent isn't freely given in non escort scenarios.

that was my point.

women feel pressured to do things they don't want all the time even with other women....

but agree to disagree.

and while again it may not be necessary for you that is your own personal opinion based on your own experiences.

if you're willing to be open to this idea enough to learn about it at a later date and maybe challenge some of your assumptions you can read an article posted on vice and the services they provide here :

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/594wzz/what-ive-learned-from-working-as-a-lesbian-escort

i've had quite a lot of first hand experience with women who work as prostitutes. they're not doing it because it's fun and it's their first choice of occupation.

but yeah agree to disagree. i could never support such an industry.

I agree with you there but I'm assuming the conversations you had were with heterosexual women catering especially to men and couples which is a bit different.

In Europe in some counties where prostitution is legal..... some sex therapist-coaches and tantric masseuses who work

exclusively with queer clients, sexual minorities, people with body dysmorphia or gender dysphoria etc fall under the same jurisdiction as prostitution and after extensive research , reading interviews...i can say in a lot of these cases for these sex therapist/coaches and masseuses their occupation was their first choice!

It wasn't something they just fell into ...especially since the occupations I outlined above take at least 1-2 years of training at an institution with tuition.

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so you are hiring a sex-therapist coach?

Posted by hippiecrite

Personal feelings about sex work aside, don’t go for the one with only one nipple piercing. My OCD’s acting up just thinking about it. 😄

I've always wanted a nipple ring!

which is why i was leaning towards choosing a girl with one

Posted by jeane

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Posted by jeane

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Posted by jeane

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Posted by jeane

e. none. buying a person for your birthday sounds like a ghastly idea.

i think about it more as taking someone out on a date and knowing how much it's going to cost in advance

instead of buying a person

then ask someone out on a date and have a great time.

you've listed sales notices of women listed like they are in a catalogue then you are paying them to take an interest in you and then sleep with you. it's a transaction.

a common misconception that all forms of consent ( from both parties including the one is paying) is freely given

when a date is arranged with an escort



also

there are advantages for women to hire escorts especially if they have experienced some sort of sexual trauma in the past

just fyi...it's actually really common.

hiring an escort provides an extremely controlled situation



vs trying to go and pick someone up at a bar and having to say no to someone who may not and is not often understanding.....also a very weird thing to do when just meeting someone

in other words, I feel more comfortable saying NO and STOP with an escort vs some person I asked out or picked up in a bar

a common misconception is that consent is freely given? shouldn't consent be freely given? are you advocating otherwise?

you can justify being a consumer of prostitution however you like. it's my opinion that it's distasteful to purchase another person in this way.

i don't agree with comparison that sex outside of prostitution is far more dangerous which means that buying an escort is necessary.

consent isn't freely given in non escort scenarios.

that was my point.

women feel pressured to do things they don't want all the time even with other women....

but agree to disagree.

and while again it may not be necessary for you that is your own personal opinion based on your own experiences.

if you're willing to be open to this idea enough to learn about it at a later date and maybe challenge some of your assumptions you can read an article posted on vice and the services they provide here :

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/594wzz/what-ive-learned-from-working-as-a-lesbian-escort

i've had quite a lot of first hand experience with women who work as prostitutes. they're not doing it because it's fun and it's their first choice of occupation.

but yeah agree to disagree. i could never support such an industry.

I agree with you there but I'm assuming the conversations you had were with heterosexual women catering especially to men and couples which is a bit different.

In Europe in some counties where prostitution is legal..... some sex therapist-coaches and tantric masseuses who work

exclusively with queer clients, sexual minorities, people with body dysmorphia or gender dysphoria etc fall under the same jurisdiction as prostitution and after extensive research , reading interviews...i can say in a lot of these cases for these sex therapist/coaches and masseuses their occupation was their first choice!

It wasn't something they just fell into ...especially since the occupations I outlined above take at least 1-2 years of training at an institution with tuition.

so you are hiring a sex-therapist coach?

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one of the girls listed is i believe..not sure

i'm looking into it....

but again hiring a coach-therapist gives me anxiety because of the guarantee of some sort of sexual contact as that is the purpose of a session.

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Posted by hippiecrite

Personal feelings about sex work aside, don’t go for the one with only one nipple piercing. My OCD’s acting up just thinking about it. 😄

I've always wanted a nipple ring!

which is why i was leaning towards choosing a girl with one

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I’d probably get used to it eventually, but the asymmetry of only having one would be an initial issue for me.

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Posted by hippiecrite

Personal feelings about sex work aside, don’t go for the one with only one nipple piercing. My OCD’s acting up just thinking about it. 😄

I've always wanted a nipple ring!

which is why i was leaning towards choosing a girl with one

I’d probably get used to it eventually, but the asymmetry of only having one would be an initial issue for me.

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LMAO

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Posted by MademoiselleFisk

I thought you were demisexual or something? You gonna pay an extra hour for have some deep emo conversation before doing da nastay?

probably not emo.....

more like an ethnography in Amsterdam......

i'm currently taking this neuroscience/anthro class entitled "sex and human nature"

maybe we will get high , eat a doner kebab with fries , and or get ice cream

and walk around the canals and talk about sex

This sounds achievable with hooking up a local. Granted the sex is not guaranteed and you can't hand-pick what she looks like... and you can't really be 100% certain she's also gay.

K. Forget I said anything. Good luck. God speed. Be safe.

LOL

do you want me to bring you anything back?

Weed, a pair of clogs and a bouquet of tulips.

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i gotchu

***update**** so i have been emailing the escort company

trying to narrow down my pick

and i thought of THE MOST IMPORTANT thing which would help me decide......

What is the girl's sun sign ( venus and mars too).

But the madam/owner of this escort company is being evasive as fuck

How do i get them to tell me more details....i need tips.