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Bi-lesbian coworker groped one of my colleagues
Was the pregnant girl offended? and I've let plenty of gay men grab my boobs because they wanted to see if they were real. I would never even think to let a guy or lesbian girl do that. Such weird things people rationalize 😆
What’s the big deal? Really?
What’s the big deal? Really?
The hypocracy
What’s the big deal? Really?
The hypocracy
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Hupocracy isn’t federal offense.
Was prego offended, hurt, scared?
What’s the issue? Did she run to you crying?
Depends on whether consent was given or not.
Irregardless its incredibly inappropriate to grope a coworker at work even if they invited it imo.
Consent wasn't asked. She just went for it, probably on account that they've worked together for years and bc of that she figured the colleague would just shrug it off which she did. Now if a straight guy took the same liberties under similar circumstances we're talking whole different ballgame. And yes I know she gets to say who gropes her and who doesn't regardless of their sexuality, that's beyond my point.
But me coming from a friendly place and getting my dick hard by groping a long-time acquaintance, and a lesbian doing the same and getting her clit hard .. should surely be viewed is the same light, no?
Same bi-lesbian has been drunkenly groping and fondling my gf on more than one occassion when we're out clubbing, also professed she was way more lesbian than straight which is also how we know where her interest lies.
I don't mind it bc I don't get jealous over other women interningling with my gf, but she too is now starting to think the bi-lesbian is becoming kind of a handful.
Depends on whether consent was given or not.
Irregardless its incredibly inappropriate to grope a coworker at work even if they invited it imo.
Regardless
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Yeah, that one
Women go to the same restroom together. Men not allowed.
Same principal. Woman can grab other women boobs if another woman is a food friend and don’t mind and apparently she didn’t.
Is this all because you wanted to grab as well? Lmao
Women go to the same restroom together. Men not allowed.
Same principal. Woman can grab other women boobs if another woman is a food friend and don’t mind and apparently she didn’t.
Is this all because you wanted to grab as well? Lmao
No you're really not getting my point.
apparently grabee was fine with it...
She could be a bi as well. I am not a bi and I wouldn’t be. I would laugh...
I think it depends on how offended other people are at work.
Yeah but to do you think a straight male and a lesbian should be held to the same standards in these matters? Why / why not?
Isn't the difference ultimately a question of perception and (lesbian) women are for some reason perceived as less shady and creepy, when they're just as calculating as guys in their advances as this example illustrates.
Personally, I hate getting attention for someone else’s attention seeking behaviour.
So I’d be telling her she’s fucking annoying and her pathetic attempt at fondeling me is going to get her a black eye if she doesn’t fuck off.
I’d probably get shamed and called a homophobe by her and her allies.
So much for #metoo white bitch movement
According to OP she didn’t know that grabber was a bi...
Personally, I hate getting attention for someone else’s attention seeking behaviour.
So I’d be telling her she’s fucking annoying and her pathetic attempt at fondeling me is going to get her a black eye if she doesn’t fuck off.
I’d probably get shamed and called a homophobe by her and her allies.
So much for #metoo white bitch movement
According to OP she didn’t know that grabber was a bi...
That’s irrelevant
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It is. Relevant to be called homophobe. If you didn’t know you wouldn’t be called homophobe.
According to OP she didn’t know that grabber was a bi...
What I'm partially wondering, if she did know, would she rush home and assume the fetus position in the shower and feel all victimized like she would if a long-time guy colleague did it... or would it be different? If so, why? What's the difference?
According to OP she didn’t know that grabber was a bi...
What I'm partially wondering, if she did know, would she rush home and assume the fetus position in the shower and feel all victimized like she would if a long-time guy colleague did it... or would it be different? If so, why? What's the difference?
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One would, another wouldn’t. It comes to woman grabbed women’s boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently it’s only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Man, what the fuck is a bi-lesbian.
She's either bi or lesbian.
One would, another wouldn’t. It comes to woman grabbed women’s boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently it’s only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
Man, what the fuck is a bi-lesbian.
She's either bi or lesbian.
Lol
Ok so she has a child by a penis, and she isn't sure if she's bi or lesbian. She's leaning more towards the latter nowdays, according to what she disclosed to my gf
One would, another wouldn’t. It comes to woman grabbed women’s boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently it’s only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
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I don’t give a fuck about meeto. Most of those are money extortionists.
But at least I finally proved something...like your point...is it really pointy?
One would, another wouldn’t. It comes to woman grabbed women’s boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently it’s only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
Facts.
Inappropriate is inappropriate.
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Women touch pregnant women! It’s like a ok! Stomach. Boobs. It’s OK!
And prego was OK with it.
What’s inappropriate?
Women touch pregnant women! It’s like a ok!
.
Even if she's a lesbian? Even if she secretly gets off on it... like a guy would?
And she didn't touch her stomach to "feel" if she's pregnant, she only felt up her boobs.
One would, another wouldn’t. It comes to woman grabbed women’s boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently it’s only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
Facts.
Inappropriate is inappropriate.
Women touch pregnant women! It’s like a ok! Stomach. Boobs. It’s OK!
And prego was OK with it.
What’s inappropriate?
No the fuck it is not ok. Speak for yourself.
If any bitch at work touches my boobs OR belly, they’re getting knocked the fuck out. Whatever happened to “keep your hands to yourself”? Wtf ?! That’s sexual harassment, regardless if it’s coming from a man or woman.
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No it isn’t.
Dead 😂😂😂😭😭😭
I'd say there is a difference, a bit if a double standard but not necessarily hypocritical.
First off, consent is the golden rule regardless of gender or sexual orientation. If the two are really close this might not apply. But besides that yeah people should ask if it's ok before touching.
However there is a difference being a woman groped by another woman and a woman groped by a man. Normally it has to do with safety. If you don't want random people touching you you'll be uncomfortable but men will tend to come off as more threatening. Which is understandable since a lot of times men who are gropey w/o consent will push that into something more violent.
Has your girlfriend ever just said hey don't touch me without asking first? Maybe this woman doesn't understand boundaries.
And personally I've been groped a lot of women co-workers and I won't lie, it does make me a bit uncomfortable (not in a bad way) but it's not the same if it was a guy, who would automatically receive a punch to the face.🤷
I dont allow women or men to fondle me.
I would have been totally offended.
Even if they are cute? Lol
*trigger warning*
The colleague is preggers and the bi-lesbian figured she'd feel and fondle her tits to "determine" this. And on the job aswell. I am not sure the colleague knows the bi-lesbian is bi-lesbian. Would that make any difference do you think?
Is this a metoo thing or does it only apply if I'd have groped the colleague's tits to determine her pregnancy? Do bi-lesbians get away with more?
Asking for a friend.
You're turning into an old white man waaaay too soon.
Sincerely,
Harriet Tubman
Dem pregnant titties tho.
No lies
Consent wasn't asked. She just went for it, probably on account that they've worked together for years and bc of that she figured the colleague would just shrug it off which she did. Now if a straight guy took the same liberties under similar circumstances we're talking whole different ballgame. And yes I know she gets to say who gropes her and who doesn't regardless of their sexuality, that's beyond my point.
But me coming from a friendly place and getting my dick hard by groping a long-time acquaintance, and a lesbian doing the same and getting her clit hard .. should surely be viewed is the same light, no?
Same bi-lesbian has been drunkenly groping and fondling my gf on more than one occassion when we're out clubbing, also professed she was way more lesbian than straight which is also how we know where her interest lies.
I don't mind it bc I don't get jealous over other women interningling with my gf, but she too is now starting to think the bi-lesbian is becoming kind of a handful.
LOL - I find it bizarre, I would never let anyone touch me like that unless I wanted them too JFC! If that was me, someone would get their nose pushed in AND reported !
I think it depends on how offended other people are at work.
Yeah but to do you think a straight male and a lesbian should be held to the same standards in these matters? Why / why not?
Isn't the difference ultimately a question of perception and (lesbian) women are for some reason perceived as less shady and creepy, when they're just as calculating as guys in their advances as this example illustrates.
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yes imo everyone should have the same standards no matter what
Are you her attorney?
Is anyone the attorney of any grope/assault victim except their actual attorney? No, it doesn't prevent ppl from acknowledging or speaking up about shit.
But by all means, keep deflecting from the actual issue. 👍
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*trigger warning*
The colleague is preggers and the bi-lesbian figured she'd feel and fondle her tits to "determine" this. And on the job aswell. I am not sure the colleague knows the bi-lesbian is bi-lesbian. Would that make any difference do you think?
Is this a metoo thing or does it only apply if I'd have groped the colleague's tits to determine her pregnancy? Do bi-lesbians get away with more?
Asking for a friend.