Irregular periods.

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This is normal .

Menopausal symptoms ya?

no . it is also common in girls in their 20s.

Medical check up is must. Typically its mostly hormonal or stress or life style related or sudden change in life style . It later may or may not lead to cysts . If larger in size they need to be operated so checkup is must . But small cysts are common , need treatment though . PCOD and PCOS is a cause too.

Just one bit of advice, if it is not cyst then a healthy life style helps better then popping hormonal pills .
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Any signs or symptoms that are a clear indication something is up?

I'm going to go ham on the suggest later. Any input is appreciated.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.
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There are just too many reasons and variables of why a woman can miss her period. There’s nothing analytical or logical about it. 🙃
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This is normal .

And to be clear it is possible to come out of a period of stress and periods to have a normal cycle correct?

And Candida.

I am not sure what you asked here but if you asking if it gets normal again then it does for some while not for all. If life style is improved it gets better. It even may get regular after having a child .It varies person to person .
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Ya that is what I'm asking.

On a side note, 75% of the time I talk to a mother, they always says something about themselves change after each baby.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.
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What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.
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Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.

Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.
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My thoughts about Virgos and patterns is that sometimes you can over analyze stuff to the point of it not making sense anymore. You’re better off asking for information instead of building options out of the small amounts of details that you have observed.

There’s a difference in observing then putting it into a theory and observing, collecting information from other sources, including the main one, and making a theory off that.

You guys can be very manipulative when you want something or someone and you have a difficult time with people that don’t cave and see things your way.

You already have some scheme that will affect the way she does things and you know she’s not going to take it well since she hasn’t in the past.

So why not gather all the info you can and just have an open ended conversation with her, instead of presenting it in a way that she needs to fix, because it’s a problem?

What could seem like a problem to you, could be none of your business to her.

Sometimes letting the dice fall is what needs to happen.

You can let her know that you noticed something so if it turns out you were right, you warned her. But trying to guide her decisions could be the wrong way of doing things, if she hasn’t taken to some of the things you’ve told her previously.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.

Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.

My thoughts about Virgos and patterns is that sometimes you can over analyze stuff to the point of it not making sense anymore. You’re better off asking for information instead of building options out of the small amounts of details that you have observed.

There’s a difference in observing then putting it into a theory and observing, collecting information from other sources, including the main one, and making a theory off that.

You guys can be very manipulative when you want something or someone and you have a difficult time with people that don’t cave and see things your way.

You already have some scheme that will affect the way she does things and you know she’s not going to take it well since she hasn’t in the past.

So why not gather all the info you can and just have an open ended conversation with her, instead of presenting it in a way that she needs to fix, because it’s a problem?

What could seem like a problem to you, could be none of your business to her.

Sometimes letting the dice fall is what needs to happen.

You can let her know that you noticed something so if it turns out you were right, you warned her. But trying to guide her decisions could be the wrong way of doing things, if she hasn’t taken to some of the things you’ve told her previously.
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Ya, I've already come to the same conclusion you just said here for different reasons. Virgo is of service, I like that about myself. The problem in the recent past with her came down to trying to balance what I want and her needs. It didn't help we both had our own issues. Caused a lot of confusion. When we flowing it was amazing, those times were rare yet I can't tell you how much I enjoyed those moments with her.

Hmm With my hobbies and my professional experience as a manager, trainer, problem solver at work...I apply it all and am really good at what I do. I guess you could say I shouldn't have taken it home with me?

I say it's still useful just I applied it wrong. For her or with her. Would have been more appropriate.

She called me out before and it took me a bit to consider what she had to say from her perspective.

Lol it's actually one of the reasons I like her even more. Asked her to speak her mind more multiple timed yet she refused because of the experience with her ex. I'm not her ex and I appreciate honesty even if it's something I don't want to accept, I always consider what she has to say even if not at that moment.

I believe she is someone I can be completely honest with and share everything. Someone to call me on my shit and who I can be completely open with. A partner in crime dynamic is what I see with her.

Right now in the present, It's not my intention to be manipulative nor influence her for my own sake. I'm trying to undo and make up for the past. A fresh start with her. Whatever she wants to do I'll support her. I want her in my life. That's my goal. Everything else is up for grabs.



Let the dice fall were they may.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.

Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.

My thoughts about Virgos and patterns is that sometimes you can over analyze stuff to the point of it not making sense anymore. You’re better off asking for information instead of building options out of the small amounts of details that you have observed.

There’s a difference in observing then putting it into a theory and observing, collecting information from other sources, including the main one, and making a theory off that.

You guys can be very manipulative when you want something or someone and you have a difficult time with people that don’t cave and see things your way.

You already have some scheme that will affect the way she does things and you know she’s not going to take it well since she hasn’t in the past.

So why not gather all the info you can and just have an open ended conversation with her, instead of presenting it in a way that she needs to fix, because it’s a problem?

What could seem like a problem to you, could be none of your business to her.

Sometimes letting the dice fall is what needs to happen.

You can let her know that you noticed something so if it turns out you were right, you warned her. But trying to guide her decisions could be the wrong way of doing things, if she hasn’t taken to some of the things you’ve told her previously.

Ya, I've already come to the same conclusion you just said here for different reasons. Virgo is of service, I like that about myself. The problem in the recent past with her came down to trying to balance what I want and her needs. It didn't help we both had our own issues. Caused a lot of confusion. When we flowing it was amazing, those times were rare yet I can't tell you how much I enjoyed those moments with her.

Hmm With my hobbies and my professional experience as a manager, trainer, problem solver at work...I apply it all and am really good at what I do. I guess you could say I shouldn't have taken it home with me?

I say it's still useful just I applied it wrong. For her or with her. Would have been more appropriate.

She called me out before and it took me a bit to consider what she had to say from her perspective.

Lol it's actually one of the reasons I like her even more. Asked her to speak her mind more multiple timed yet she refused because of the experience with her ex. I'm not her ex and I appreciate honesty even if it's something I don't want to accept, I always consider what she has to say even if not at that moment.

I believe she is someone I can be completely honest with and share everything. Someone to call me on my shit and who I can be completely open with. A partner in crime dynamic is what I see with her.

Right now in the present, It's not my intention to be manipulative nor influence her for my own sake. I'm trying to undo and make up for the past. A fresh start with her. Whatever she wants to do I'll support her. I want her in my life. That's my goal. Everything else is up for grabs.



Let the dice fall were they may.
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Then you should have an open discussion about it with her, without assuming she knows how you feel. You side stepping what you really want doesn't have to happen. If you want her in your life, speak up. You're already sleeping with her and have been familiar with her for a while and how she is.

No point in remaining dreamy about it in your head, where has that got you so far?

Stake your claim and then let the cards fall as it may. A missed opportunity is just what it sounds like-Missed. So speak up.
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This is normal .

Menopausal symptoms ya?

no . it is also common in girls in their 20s.

Medical check up is must. Typically its mostly hormonal or stress or life style related or sudden change in life style . It later may or may not lead to cysts . If larger in size they need to be operated so checkup is must . But small cysts are common , need treatment though . PCOD and PCOS is a cause too.

Just one bit of advice, if it is not cyst then a healthy life style helps better then popping hormonal pills .

Any signs or symptoms that are a clear indication something is up?

I'm going to go ham on the suggest later. Any input is appreciated.

Could also be related to thyroid. I have a thyroid disorder (Hashimoto’s) my periods have always been wacky.
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I remember reading about hashimoto's. Have you looked into any diety and herbalist treatments?
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.

Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.

My thoughts about Virgos and patterns is that sometimes you can over analyze stuff to the point of it not making sense anymore. You’re better off asking for information instead of building options out of the small amounts of details that you have observed.

There’s a difference in observing then putting it into a theory and observing, collecting information from other sources, including the main one, and making a theory off that.

You guys can be very manipulative when you want something or someone and you have a difficult time with people that don’t cave and see things your way.

You already have some scheme that will affect the way she does things and you know she’s not going to take it well since she hasn’t in the past.

So why not gather all the info you can and just have an open ended conversation with her, instead of presenting it in a way that she needs to fix, because it’s a problem?

What could seem like a problem to you, could be none of your business to her.

Sometimes letting the dice fall is what needs to happen.

You can let her know that you noticed something so if it turns out you were right, you warned her. But trying to guide her decisions could be the wrong way of doing things, if she hasn’t taken to some of the things you’ve told her previously.

Ya, I've already come to the same conclusion you just said here for different reasons. Virgo is of service, I like that about myself. The problem in the recent past with her came down to trying to balance what I want and her needs. It didn't help we both had our own issues. Caused a lot of confusion. When we flowing it was amazing, those times were rare yet I can't tell you how much I enjoyed those moments with her.

Hmm With my hobbies and my professional experience as a manager, trainer, problem solver at work...I apply it all and am really good at what I do. I guess you could say I shouldn't have taken it home with me?

I say it's still useful just I applied it wrong. For her or with her. Would have been more appropriate.

She called me out before and it took me a bit to consider what she had to say from her perspective.

Lol it's actually one of the reasons I like her even more. Asked her to speak her mind more multiple timed yet she refused because of the experience with her ex. I'm not her ex and I appreciate honesty even if it's something I don't want to accept, I always consider what she has to say even if not at that moment.

I believe she is someone I can be completely honest with and share everything. Someone to call me on my shit and who I can be completely open with. A partner in crime dynamic is what I see with her.

Right now in the present, It's not my intention to be manipulative nor influence her for my own sake. I'm trying to undo and make up for the past. A fresh start with her. Whatever she wants to do I'll support her. I want her in my life. That's my goal. Everything else is up for grabs.



Let the dice fall were they may.

Then you should have an open discussion about it with her, without assuming she knows how you feel. You side stepping what you really want doesn't have to happen. If you want her in your life, speak up. You're already sleeping with her and have been familiar with her for a while and how she is.

No point in remaining dreamy about it in your head, where has that got you so far?

Stake your claim and then let the cards fall as it may. A missed opportunity is just what it sounds like-Missed. So speak up.
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We have not sleep together. If we did none of this would be happening 😂

We have ridiculous chemistry and there were times there was a invitation yet I didn't for 2 stupid reason at different times. First she was under my care and in a vulnerable position. Another time we were drunk and I am not ok with that...at least the first time. I perfer a conscious choice. The other reason was I was afraid to because I know it would rapidly escalate our relationship because it would cause a strong attachment. Which wouldn't change anything for me other then great sex but she had made it clear back then many times she has issues with developing too strong of attachment. Honestly I over thought things back then, we would have been fine. Just talk about it before hand like mature adults Lmao.
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This is normal .

Menopausal symptoms ya?

no . it is also common in girls in their 20s.

Medical check up is must. Typically its mostly hormonal or stress or life style related or sudden change in life style . It later may or may not lead to cysts . If larger in size they need to be operated so checkup is must . But small cysts are common , need treatment though . PCOD and PCOS is a cause too.

Just one bit of advice, if it is not cyst then a healthy life style helps better then popping hormonal pills .

Any signs or symptoms that are a clear indication something is up?

I'm going to go ham on the suggest later. Any input is appreciated.

Could also be related to thyroid. I have a thyroid disorder (Hashimoto’s) my periods have always been wacky.
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It's possible for her. I would have to talk to her and see if she has the full symptoms.

I looked into in further and became curious about yours. Spent some time looking at all the research papers of what exactly it is and different triggers.

From what I understand at some point the thyroid was damaged and wasn't able to trigger it's own cell recycling process. So the bodies anti bodies did so instead, which the thyroid would normal supress.Yet didn't or couldn't at the time(genetic abnormality or active infection reducing function). Being the dumb soldiers they are, they didn't know when to quite and started attacking indiscriminately. Causing more damage and a feedback loop.

There is a very clear established link between estrogen and the production of anti-thyriod antibodies. What's interesting about HT is, all the symptoms of HT also correlate to high estrogen levels. A feedback loop is created with high free estrogen levels being used to produce the anti bodies.

High BMI fat cells increase production of estrogen. cortisol(stress hormone) also has correlation with estrogen production. The fatigue with HT can lead to high BMI and mental stress produces cortisol, which having the condition in it's self can cause mental stress, another feedback loop.

HT is basically a entanglement of feedback loops intertwining to create the condition. You could say if HT was a physical object it would be a hollow ball of yarn. HT is a trap, Like deep depression. The very things that would bring you out of depression, depression keeps you from doing😌



At the end of the day tho the point of treatment would be to reduce antibody production through reducing free estrogen and accelerating natural estrogen break down thro increasing certain vitamin and mineral intake and things known to break down free estrogen in the body. Hell it's quite possible for woman the trigger was high levels of estrogen causing a form of toxicity that damage the thyroid.

First reduce estrogen in the body and diet: Excerise(cardio especially), reduce body fat, vhigh fiber(every meal), and other stuff I will link will either reduce free estrogen or cortisol. Avoid phytoestrogen( acts similar to estrogen in the body) rich food like the plague. No soy or processed foods. No skipping breakfast(it raises cortisol) or simple sugars and simple carbohydrates. Anything that helps the liver too, as it helps break down estrogen.

While Increasing healthy thyroid : vitamins zinc, Magnisim, A, E, D, fengreek, and selenium.

https://shop.forefronthealth.com/pages/hashimotos?utm_source=google&utm_medium=ppc&utm_campaign=search&utm_content=hashimotos-thyroiditis&utm_term=Gen1_H5D2&wickedsource=google&wickedid=Cj0KCQjw1ZeUBhDyARIsAOzAqQJubGdGKdyOJggDdnjwjIdWjcoPX2QGLxt-lTK0pvLag4cd4akV8gEaAiX_EALw_wcB&wickedid=431951209678&wcid=9900722625&wv=4&&&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1ZeUBhDyARIsAOzAqQJubGdGKdyOJggDdnjwjIdWjcoPX2QGLxt-lTK0pvLag4cd4akV8gEaAiX_EALw_wcB

https://www.palomahealth.com/learn/hashimotos-blood-sugar

Spent about 10 hours reading research studies and identifying and learning about each system in play causing this feed back loop, the above is a summary of everything I read and a generalization of everything about the condition and causes and possible treatment. I will happily link all the pages and studies for all of them. Lol If you want a detailed breakdown with citations you will have to pay me.

Take my word for it or show your specialist my post for confirmation of everything I said.
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.

Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.

My thoughts about Virgos and patterns is that sometimes you can over analyze stuff to the point of it not making sense anymore. You’re better off asking for information instead of building options out of the small amounts of details that you have observed.

There’s a difference in observing then putting it into a theory and observing, collecting information from other sources, including the main one, and making a theory off that.

You guys can be very manipulative when you want something or someone and you have a difficult time with people that don’t cave and see things your way.

You already have some scheme that will affect the way she does things and you know she’s not going to take it well since she hasn’t in the past.

So why not gather all the info you can and just have an open ended conversation with her, instead of presenting it in a way that she needs to fix, because it’s a problem?

What could seem like a problem to you, could be none of your business to her.

Sometimes letting the dice fall is what needs to happen.

You can let her know that you noticed something so if it turns out you were right, you warned her. But trying to guide her decisions could be the wrong way of doing things, if she hasn’t taken to some of the things you’ve told her previously.

Ya, I've already come to the same conclusion you just said here for different reasons. Virgo is of service, I like that about myself. The problem in the recent past with her came down to trying to balance what I want and her needs. It didn't help we both had our own issues. Caused a lot of confusion. When we flowing it was amazing, those times were rare yet I can't tell you how much I enjoyed those moments with her.

Hmm With my hobbies and my professional experience as a manager, trainer, problem solver at work...I apply it all and am really good at what I do. I guess you could say I shouldn't have taken it home with me?

I say it's still useful just I applied it wrong. For her or with her. Would have been more appropriate.

She called me out before and it took me a bit to consider what she had to say from her perspective.

Lol it's actually one of the reasons I like her even more. Asked her to speak her mind more multiple timed yet she refused because of the experience with her ex. I'm not her ex and I appreciate honesty even if it's something I don't want to accept, I always consider what she has to say even if not at that moment.

I believe she is someone I can be completely honest with and share everything. Someone to call me on my shit and who I can be completely open with. A partner in crime dynamic is what I see with her.

Right now in the present, It's not my intention to be manipulative nor influence her for my own sake. I'm trying to undo and make up for the past. A fresh start with her. Whatever she wants to do I'll support her. I want her in my life. That's my goal. Everything else is up for grabs.



Let the dice fall were they may.

Then you should have an open discussion about it with her, without assuming she knows how you feel. You side stepping what you really want doesn't have to happen. If you want her in your life, speak up. You're already sleeping with her and have been familiar with her for a while and how she is.

No point in remaining dreamy about it in your head, where has that got you so far?

Stake your claim and then let the cards fall as it may. A missed opportunity is just what it sounds like-Missed. So speak up.

We have not sleep together. If we did none of this would be happening 😂

We have ridiculous chemistry and there were times there was a invitation yet I didn't for 2 stupid reason at different times. First she was under my care and in a vulnerable position. Another time we were drunk and I am not ok with that...at least the first time. I perfer a conscious choice. The other reason was I was afraid to because I know it would rapidly escalate our relationship because it would cause a strong attachment. Which wouldn't change anything for me other then great sex but she had made it clear back then many times she has issues with developing too strong of attachment. Honestly I over thought things back then, we would have been fine. Just talk about it before hand like mature adults Lmao.
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I don't have much to say if you guys haven't been intimate, I thought that I read that you had. This type of thing is hard especially since you Virgos can be just as dreamy as your opposite Pisces.

Good Luck with whatever you are trying to accomplish with her 🙂
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My period did this after not having it for years because if an IUD. So it's stabilized and I get it every month even though I just switched out my old IUD for a new one. I didn't have a period for a good 10 years and now it won't go away.

I do skip it if I'm stressed out by boys.

As far as danger areas. It's harder to conceive once a women hits 35 + so danger areas are hit or miss. I think it drops off to like 50% chance of conceiving, once you are past this age.

Menopause is for like age 50 plus, I think. Sometimes it can happen sooner but I think it's genetic.

Use condoms if you're worried about a pregnancy, not even the pullout method is 100 percent effective.

Why are you stressed about her period cycles?

You know what your right, as much as I care, not my business.

Yet I care about her, love her quite a lot. I have a desire to take care her and look out for her. And I'm fighting a bit of selfishness wanting to do this. Ya that's right a bit of selfishness I can't quite kick.

What are you wanting you do? You mentioned before you go ham on her, if I remember correctly?

Are you thinking she's cheating? Candida? Women can get yeast infections by wearing pants too tight, this isn't a way to tell anything either.

You seem to be looking for a problem. A woman's body and mother nature are not gonna give you any clues to what you're searching for.

Not cheating. Cheating implies a relationship with title and expectation. We have nothing atm. I'm human so I still feel it though.

She is someone that keeps popping in and out of my life like a stupid romantic movie. I'm stuck on what I see in her eyes. She feels right to me. A no matter what feeling.

I don't know what kind of relationship we will end up having at this point but it doesn't matter. However it seems shit went south and I'm trying to repair our relationship.

As far as going going ham goes, I focus and learn about whatever catches my attention. I love learning new things. The category I swim in is anything that had to do with life and us humans. I enjoy helping people too and anything to do with her I feel particularly motived to look into.

As for looking for a problem...not quite

Not looking for a problem, I see a possible one and want to correct it or plug that whole.

Fimiliar with Murphy's law? My philosophy is to reduce the chances of unwanted outcomes. I have a nack for seeing patterns, to the point of being intuitive. It has served me very well. There are details missing here so I maybe wrong.

I saw something I wish I hadn't Monday after midnight, I'm not comfortable telling her about, even tho I believe she will understand, it's happened to her too. Adding the other things going on I see something lining up.i want to confirm it.

I am trying to look out for her in my own way.

She hates "spoilers." I did before and she didn't react well. Bit of a free spirit. So telling her straight out risks resentment and there is a high chance she has others whispering in her ear. I want to assist her making conscious choice from a point of awareness. She doesn't want that, so screw it.

It's already been 3 days. If she took my advice about this way back when she will be fine. If not,🤷

This so much I want to say to her and I think she knows it and is actively avoiding me. I love her very deeply. I will never give up on her. Atm, this situation...I'm about to say wish granted and let the dice fall were ever the may land.

My thoughts about Virgos and patterns is that sometimes you can over analyze stuff to the point of it not making sense anymore. You’re better off asking for information instead of building options out of the small amounts of details that you have observed.

There’s a difference in observing then putting it into a theory and observing, collecting information from other sources, including the main one, and making a theory off that.

You guys can be very manipulative when you want something or someone and you have a difficult time with people that don’t cave and see things your way.

You already have some scheme that will affect the way she does things and you know she’s not going to take it well since she hasn’t in the past.

So why not gather all the info you can and just have an open ended conversation with her, instead of presenting it in a way that she needs to fix, because it’s a problem?

What could seem like a problem to you, could be none of your business to her.

Sometimes letting the dice fall is what needs to happen.

You can let her know that you noticed something so if it turns out you were right, you warned her. But trying to guide her decisions could be the wrong way of doing things, if she hasn’t taken to some of the things you’ve told her previously.

Ya, I've already come to the same conclusion you just said here for different reasons. Virgo is of service, I like that about myself. The problem in the recent past with her came down to trying to balance what I want and her needs. It didn't help we both had our own issues. Caused a lot of confusion. When we flowing it was amazing, those times were rare yet I can't tell you how much I enjoyed those moments with her.

Hmm With my hobbies and my professional experience as a manager, trainer, problem solver at work...I apply it all and am really good at what I do. I guess you could say I shouldn't have taken it home with me?

I say it's still useful just I applied it wrong. For her or with her. Would have been more appropriate.

She called me out before and it took me a bit to consider what she had to say from her perspective.

Lol it's actually one of the reasons I like her even more. Asked her to speak her mind more multiple timed yet she refused because of the experience with her ex. I'm not her ex and I appreciate honesty even if it's something I don't want to accept, I always consider what she has to say even if not at that moment.

I believe she is someone I can be completely honest with and share everything. Someone to call me on my shit and who I can be completely open with. A partner in crime dynamic is what I see with her.

Right now in the present, It's not my intention to be manipulative nor influence her for my own sake. I'm trying to undo and make up for the past. A fresh start with her. Whatever she wants to do I'll support her. I want her in my life. That's my goal. Everything else is up for grabs.



Let the dice fall were they may.

Then you should have an open discussion about it with her, without assuming she knows how you feel. You side stepping what you really want doesn't have to happen. If you want her in your life, speak up. You're already sleeping with her and have been familiar with her for a while and how she is.

No point in remaining dreamy about it in your head, where has that got you so far?

Stake your claim and then let the cards fall as it may. A missed opportunity is just what it sounds like-Missed. So speak up.

We have not sleep together. If we did none of this would be happening 😂

We have ridiculous chemistry and there were times there was a invitation yet I didn't for 2 stupid reason at different times. First she was under my care and in a vulnerable position. Another time we were drunk and I am not ok with that...at least the first time. I perfer a conscious choice. The other reason was I was afraid to because I know it would rapidly escalate our relationship because it would cause a strong attachment. Which wouldn't change anything for me other then great sex but she had made it clear back then many times she has issues with developing too strong of attachment. Honestly I over thought things back then, we would have been fine. Just talk about it before hand like mature adults Lmao.

I don't have much to say if you guys haven't been intimate, I thought that I read that you had. This type of thing is hard especially since you Virgos can be just as dreamy as your opposite Pisces.

Good Luck with whatever you are trying to accomplish with her 🙂
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Lmao thank you.

We can be and it's the best expression of Virgo when we find balance with our opposition. Ashley was a dear friend double pieces sun and mercury to my Virgo. She passed away last year to covid.
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This is normal .

Menopausal symptoms ya?

no . it is also common in girls in their 20s.

Medical check up is must. Typically its mostly hormonal or stress or life style related or sudden change in life style . It later may or may not lead to cysts . If larger in size they need to be operated so checkup is must . But small cysts are common , need treatment though . PCOD and PCOS is a cause too.

Just one bit of advice, if it is not cyst then a healthy life style helps better then popping hormonal pills .

Any signs or symptoms that are a clear indication something is up?

I'm going to go ham on the suggest later. Any input is appreciated.

Could also be related to thyroid. I have a thyroid disorder (Hashimoto’s) my periods have always been wacky.

It's possible for her. I would have to talk to her and see if she has the full symptoms.

I looked into in further and became curious about yours. Spent some time looking at all the research papers of what exactly it is and different triggers.

From what I understand at some point the thyroid was damaged and wasn't able to trigger it's own cell recycling process. So the bodies anti bodies did so instead, which the thyroid would normal supress.Yet didn't or couldn't at the time(genetic abnormality or active infection reducing function). Being the dumb soldiers they are, they didn't know when to quite and started attacking indiscriminately. Causing more damage and a feedback loop.

There is a very clear established link between estrogen and the production of anti-thyriod antibodies. What's interesting about HT is, all the symptoms of HT also correlate to high estrogen levels. A feedback loop is created with high free estrogen levels being used to produce the anti bodies.

High BMI fat cells increase production of estrogen. cortisol(stress hormone) also has correlation with estrogen production. The fatigue with HT can lead to high BMI and mental stress produces cortisol, which having the condition in it's self can cause mental stress, another feedback loop.

HT is basically a entanglement of feedback loops intertwining to create the condition. You could say if HT was a physical object it would be a hollow ball of yarn. HT is a trap, Like deep depression. The very things that would bring you out of depression, depression keeps you from doing😌



At the end of the day tho the point of treatment would be to reduce antibody production through reducing free estrogen and accelerating natural estrogen break down thro increasing certain vitamin and mineral intake and things known to break down free estrogen in the body. Hell it's quite possible for woman the trigger was high levels of estrogen causing a form of toxicity that damage the thyroid.

First reduce estrogen in the body and diet: Excerise(cardio especially), reduce body fat, vhigh fiber(every meal), and other stuff I will link will either reduce free estrogen or cortisol. Avoid phytoestrogen( acts similar to estrogen in the body) rich food like the plague. No soy or processed foods. No skipping breakfast(it raises cortisol) or simple sugars and simple carbohydrates. Anything that helps the liver too, as it helps break down estrogen.

While Increasing healthy thyroid : vitamins zinc, Magnisim, A, E, D, fengreek, and selenium.

https://shop.forefronthealth.com/pages/hashimotos?utm_source=google&utm_medium=ppc&utm_campaign=search&utm_content=hashimotos-thyroiditis&utm_term=Gen1_H5D2&wickedsource=google&wickedid=Cj0KCQjw1ZeUBhDyARIsAOzAqQJubGdGKdyOJggDdnjwjIdWjcoPX2QGLxt-lTK0pvLag4cd4akV8gEaAiX_EALw_wcB&wickedid=431951209678&wcid=9900722625&wv=4&&&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1ZeUBhDyARIsAOzAqQJubGdGKdyOJggDdnjwjIdWjcoPX2QGLxt-lTK0pvLag4cd4akV8gEaAiX_EALw_wcB

https://www.palomahealth.com/learn/hashimotos-blood-sugar

Spent about 10 hours reading research studies and identifying and learning about each system in play causing this feed back loop, the above is a summary of everything I read and a generalization of everything about the condition and causes and possible treatment. I will happily link all the pages and studies for all of them. Lol If you want a detailed breakdown with citations you will have to pay me.

Take my word for it or show your specialist my post for confirmation of everything I said.

Thank you for this!! Yes I’ve also researched it quite a bit.. I’m a registered nurse and I actually diagnosed myself with it because of my symptoms. Then made an appt with my primary doctor and asked for a referral to an endocrinologist so that I could get treatment from a specialist. I have started taking supplements like magnesium, selenium , vitamin D etc.. but I also need to make some changes to my diet which is the tricky part. 😬 my diet isn’t horrible and I’m not overweight, but processed foods makes me even more sluggish, lazy and depressed.
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One thing I would like to add about vitamin supplments. There is something called bioavalibilty. There are different chemical make ups of said supplements. Bioavalibilty is how much and well your body can utilize it. Anything with "oxidized" is low quality with less then 25% your body can actually use.

A course the best way to get nutritions is through actual whole foods. Look into the best forms of and supplements you take.

I am having good results from plant based nutritional powereds. Spurilina and etc.
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There's also perimenopause which come before full menopause symptoms and can start in late 30's or 40's. It also can depend on birth control that's been used, stress, diet...put bodies, like our minds and emotions, rarely make sense 😜😂

Nah the human an body is a massive multilayered ecosystem. It makes sense to me in away. I enjoy exploring the complexity of it.

I see a few things going on at once for her. I have no new information though so.. 🤷

. This topic was based on intuition and observation. Without her going to the doctor or being completely open to me there is no way to tell.
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Posted by Findingbalance

There's also perimenopause which come before full menopause symptoms and can start in late 30's or 40's. It also can depend on birth control that's been used, stress, diet...put bodies, like our minds and emotions, rarely make sense 😜😂

Nah the human an body is a massive multilayered ecosystem. It makes sense to me in away. I enjoy exploring the complexity of it.

I see a few things going on at once for her. I have no new information though so.. 🤷

. This topic was based on intuition and observation. Without her going to the doctor or being completely open to me there is no way to tell.
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@Lostthoughts
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Comments: 461 · Posts: 2949 · Topics: 30
Posted by Findingbalance
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Findingbalance

There's also perimenopause which come before full menopause symptoms and can start in late 30's or 40's. It also can depend on birth control that's been used, stress, diet...put bodies, like our minds and emotions, rarely make sense 😜😂

Nah the human an body is a massive multilayered ecosystem. It makes sense to me in away. I enjoy exploring the complexity of it.

I see a few things going on at once for her. I have no new information though so.. 🤷

. This topic was based on intuition and observation. Without her going to the doctor or being completely open to me there is no way to tell.

Lol my last sentence was tongue in cheek. It's super complex, and the slightest variable can upset the whole apple cart. And it's highly individual. Basically of you're really tuned in to yourself you can sort out what's up and why usually better than a Dr.
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Yes I believe so 100% just have to keep a certain level of skepticism to verify what's actually going on so you don't miss something and get stuck on the wrong thing. The different possibilities mentioned in this thread is a great example of that.