Any truth behind Pillow Talk

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by hellosaggy on Tuesday, October 26, 2021 and has 8 replies.

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I was having a debate with a few friends and wanted some anon feedback.

Is there any truth behind pillow talk? not just the you like that you like this.... but when people blurt out I love you etc. I know hormones are flying but. Should you take any of what's said for truth.... kind of like being drunk?

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Posted by hellosaggy

I was having a debate with a few friends and wanted some anon feedback.

Is there any truth behind pillow talk? not just the you like that you like this.... but when people blurt out I love you etc. I know hormones are flying but. Should you take any of what's said for truth.... kind of like being drunk?


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Depends on the two people sharing the pillow. I don't allow liars in my bed, so....

On a side note, I think I am using pillow talk wrong lol...

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Pillow talk as in afterwards? Or before, during. Sometimes those afterwards moments are where our guard is down and truth comes out. But of course, it depends on the person. If you’re the type who holds your feelings back, perhaps. Yes kinda like being drunk.

If you’re the sloppy drunk who says you love everyone just cuz you’re feeling it, not so much.

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That type of talk usually is about "I love what you've just done to me", it's the high from the endorphins, especially if it's during sex or right after an orgasm.

If you guys are talking while laying there after, and sex was had like 30 minutes previously, then I would think it had a little more meaning.

It also depends on the context of new feelings and feeling safe enough to express them once things start progressing in a relationship.