The spark vs the full blown feelings

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virgowithasoul
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I was having a chat with a gal friend and we broached on the topic of having the spark as the start of the r/s vs one that was so smooth that both of them went into it so easily. I was confused by it and wanted to get some thoughts.

Ladies, what were your experiences of your transitions into various relationships and did it start seamlessly or with a spark and tension. which ended with a happier ending?
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Damnata
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I have to feel a lightning bolt course down my spine..it doesn't matter at which point, be it beginning or later.

As far as the spark goes...I once thought it wasn't there at the beginning...but looking back it was. I just glanced past it obliviously.

So yes, all of mine were sparks, it was a manner of translating it to myself because in one case it was really subdued.