@lisabethur8
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Types of Men
Types of Men - Mama's Boy
He will agree with everything you say, and do whatever you want at all times. He is a pleaser, and must always have a woman in his life. He may still live at home.
Types of Men - Sensitive
He wants to talk about his feelings and your feelings, too ... all the time. The rest of us men find this guy incredibly annoying - so don't bring him around us.
Types of Men - Emotionally Disconnected
He does not talk when he is upset, nor does he say "I love you" when he probably does. He keeps it all to himself. When he dumps you, you may never know why.
Types of Men - Slob
He allows everything (including his own body) to run down. He has no clue that his house smells funny, and the litter box needs to be emptied. You will find dirty dishes in his kitchen sink.
Types of Men - Underachiever
He has a college degree but works at a low-paying job. You will probably wind up having to support him financially at some point.
Types of Men - Overachiever
To him, it is all about getting everything he can. He is very work-focused, and has no time for anything else ... especially not for you.
Types of Men - Stalker
He is constantly concerned with where you are, what you are doing, who you are with, and what you are thinking. He will track you without your knowledge. If you find yourself dating a stalker, then you should end the relationship immediately, and possibly seek a restraining order. This is the male equivalent to our Types of Women - Stalker.
Types of Men - Negative
He believes that nothing or no one is any good. The world is against him (and you will be, too, at some point - or so he believes). Everything he loves goes away. Check his medicine cabinet.
Types of Men - Addict
He enjoys his poison ... whether it is alcohol, drugs, or whatever. It is all about the chemicals. If you want to keep him, then try not to interrupt his buzz.
Types of Men - Mentally Ill
Something is wrong with this guy, and you just are not sure what it is at first. He has biochemical problems in his brain, and is on disability or social security. Could also be an Addict. Best to stay away from this guy.
Types of Men - Arrogant
He is better than everyone, looks down upon the world, and looks down upon you ... for whatever reason. This is unlikely to change.
Types of Men - Perfect
He is well-balanced, emotionally- and financially-sound, respectful, and a family-oriented guy. Good luck finding one of these - he may not exist.
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None of the above _—
Perfect doesnt exist - and even if id did.... not sure that I'd want it.
I've dated the cheater in the past, the addict, the negative, and the handy. The majority of those were the same person _—
As long as he's honest and genuine and really cares for me, I dont mind putting up with his silly little quirks.
Because he'll have to put up with mine!
Geez are these our only options lol. For that matter I'll stay single!
I've also been married to/dated a mix of above - gross.
i have the perfect man 🙂
gc, quit playin??_ you want an aries 😉
they are hot. fine specimens of men.
A combination of these 3:
Handy
Big Fish
Sensitive
i would try the online dating thing and screen for the end of march early april babes 😄
yea i did very briefly. i def didn't give it the shot i should have. it's tiring. i don't have as much energy for dating as some do.
you poofed mid date?? HAHAHA! Hey, if you know you're not into it, why linger? I wish I'd had the huevos to do that during some of the dates I've been on.
lol mail order groom.
ya never know??_ he may fall in your lap yet.
i def wouldn't stress about it though. it seems to be on your mind a lot these days, or maybe it seems like it cuz of the misc board thread. whether you're looking at the clock or not, it'll happen when it wants to. so might as well just enjoy life til it does!
by this time next year??_ i wager you're all happy n lovey dovey with some guy that's swept you off your feet. 😉 you assert yourself into life too much not to be.
🙂 Awe you're welcome, dxp bestie xoxo
"It's just that it's spring. And I am horny, lol. Not easy being a woman at her sexual prime:/"
LOL! LOVE this. you're twitterpated 😛
teehee??_ 😄 have you ever dated a chick?
i went on a date with this virgo chick. she was pretty damn aggressive.
Posted by geminicandIe
Posted by CreepyPants
i would try the online dating thing and screen for the end of march early april babes 😄Lol, astro discrimination dating!😄
Hey, so have you ever tried it, creepy? I mean online thingie. I did few years ago and I disappeared on both guys in the middle of the date:/
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with all your fire and air, you should EASILY attract aries men. But i'm not so sure.
Fire men or dominant fire men like alot of earth in women. They seem to love the "grounding" or earth energies from my experience.
what have you attracted in your lifetime, GC? Have you looked at your patterns?
I know alot of us attract ALL types, even the ones we don't want attracting to us,
but you can weed them out and don't lead them on.
I know you mentioned you had that deal with a scorpio man over a year ago, but what dominant energies did he have? was he an airy, watery ect type of scorpio?
Posted by CreepyPants
teehee??_ 😄 have you ever dated a chick?i went on a date with this virgo chick. she was pretty damn aggressive.
dayum....creepy. lol
i'm not into ladies. Sorry. I love my men. RAW and masculine. Mmmmmm. Good thing I married my sexually hot husband. lmao. Sometimes i get ahead of myself. 😛
Posted by geminicandIe
No, I never dated one properly, but hell, I've been so close to many women that it was almost as dating.I find intimacy with women easier. That emotional closeness. No pressure, the warmth, the closeness, the energy flow.
Not sure about sex though, lol.
Are you attracted to women?
some yea. i mean??_ we're pretty 😄
i def prefer men and have a hard time considering myself bi, but some of my friends do. i'm not really good at fence sitting or labeling myself. and i figure i've spent all my life so far trying to figure them out, why change things up now? LOL
I'm with lisa??_ masculinity and it's fine displays get me going. MORE. lol which is why i can see how you have a thing for aries guys. 😄
the bf's numerology is no. 9 with ruling planet Mars??_ so he def has that tenacious and aggressive quality to him.
Posted by lisabethur8
Mmmmmm. Good thing I married my sexually hot husband. lmao. Sometimes i get ahead of myself. 😛
Lest we forget. lol
You're funny, lisabeth 😛
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by lisabethur8
Mmmmmm. Good thing I married my sexually hot husband. lmao. Sometimes i get ahead of myself. 😛
Lest we forget. lol
You're funny, lisabeth 😛
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😛 😛
lmao! 😛 😛
Posted by CreepyPants
Posted by geminicandIe
No, I never dated one properly, but hell, I've been so close to many women that it was almost as dating.
I find intimacy with women easier. That emotional closeness. No pressure, the warmth, the closeness, the energy flow.
Not sure about sex though, lol.
Are you attracted to women?
some yea. i mean??_ we're pretty 😄
i def prefer men and have a hard time considering myself bi, but some of my friends do. i'm not really good at fence sitting or labeling myself. and i figure i've spent all my life so far trying to figure them out, why change things up now? LOL
I'm with lisa??_ masculinity and it's fine displays get me going. MORE. lol which is why i can see how you have a thing for aries guys. 😄
the bf's numerology is no. 9 with ruling planet Mars??_ so he def has that tenacious and aggressive quality to him.click to expand
oh what's his sign?? you mentioned he's a square to you. Sooooo...... 😄
How about "not a douchebag."
Posted by PVandJelleh
Dear Universe,Please send me a handyman, who is also an expert at laying pipe. I don't even care if he's sensitive. Thanks a bunch.
Sincerely,
PVAF
LMAOffff
Posted by Fox
Mmm a dictator.
lmao!
dear god,
thank you for sending me a man who rules over me, heart, body and soul. yours truly, lisabeth
--que sappy songs and lovey dovey romance--
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by CreepyPants
Posted by geminicandIe
No, I never dated one properly, but hell, I've been so close to many women that it was almost as dating.
I find intimacy with women easier. That emotional closeness. No pressure, the warmth, the closeness, the energy flow.
Not sure about sex though, lol.
Are you attracted to women?
some yea. i mean??_ we're pretty 😄
i def prefer men and have a hard time considering myself bi, but some of my friends do. i'm not really good at fence sitting or labeling myself. and i figure i've spent all my life so far trying to figure them out, why change things up now? LOL
I'm with lisa??_ masculinity and it's fine displays get me going. MORE. lol which is why i can see how you have a thing for aries guys. 😄
the bf's numerology is no. 9 with ruling planet Mars??_ so he def has that tenacious and aggressive quality to him.
oh what's his sign?? you mentioned he's a square to you. Sooooo...... 😄
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i'm so weird??_ i don't wanna share his chart yet. 😢
it's ok. you might get persecuted that you're dating him perhaps.
it's your relationship, share however you feel comfy with.
ya get persecuted no matter what, it seems. i'm really not concerned about that at all. i'm actually dying to post his chart, but...
i feel like i might jinx myself if I spill it! LOL!
very superstitious 😄
Posted by CreepyPants
ya get persecuted no matter what, it seems. i'm really not concerned about that at all. i'm actually dying to post his chart, but...i feel like i might jinx myself if I spill it! LOL!
very superstitious 😄
i'm superstitious too 😛
this year you "might" post his sun, then next year, his venus.....then the year after that...you might do the rising. lmao!!
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by CreepyPants
ya get persecuted no matter what, it seems. i'm really not concerned about that at all. i'm actually dying to post his chart, but...i feel like i might jinx myself if I spill it! LOL!
very superstitious 😄
i'm superstitious too 😛
this year you "might" post his sun, then next year, his venus.....then the year after that...you might do the rising. lmao!!
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HAHA! just slip it in randomly in some unsuspecting thread??_ amidst a 6 person argument lololol. then later say, "i told you guys already. you didn't see?!"
hrmmm this could work. 😛
Posted by Gobshite
*slowly and discretely powders face, before applying some lipstick*
lolololol. as long as you're applying make up??_ i suppose you can hang out in the powder room.
but i swear??_ if you put on the wrong shade of lipstick??_. you're out!
Posted by CreepyPants
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by CreepyPants
ya get persecuted no matter what, it seems. i'm really not concerned about that at all. i'm actually dying to post his chart, but...
i feel like i might jinx myself if I spill it! LOL!
very superstitious 😄
i'm superstitious too 😛
this year you "might" post his sun, then next year, his venus.....then the year after that...you might do the rising. lmao!!
HAHA! just slip it in randomly in some unsuspecting thread??_ amidst a 6 person argument lololol. then later say, "i told you guys already. you didn't see?!"
hrmmm this could work. 😛
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lmao hey that's a good idea. didn't think of that really, but yeah, you got that lightbulb going 😛
I don't know..I just want someone sane I can mesh well with. Granted my definition on sanity is a bit lax but..yeah.
Someone I can laugh with, experience things with, build something with, flow with.
Someone who'd meet me half way, who'd allow me acces in their universe and would play well in mine.
^^^If all the people never meet, all the better. lol.
But seriously, that's about as close as I can come up with a definition.
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So many single women here, and ladies, what is it that you really want? Here are the types ----What types do you like?
http://www.midlifebachelor.com/articles/types-of-men.html
"Just for the ladies - here is a good list of different TYPES OF MEN out there in the dating world.
Men can be more than one of these "types", and can exhibit these tendencies to varying degrees ...
Types of Men - Handy
He will paint your home, fix your appliances and / or your car, etc., and love doing it. Put this guy to work while you've got him.
Types of Men - Parasite
He needs you to pay for your dates with him, and he may be in a hurry to move in with you. He is most likely to be Handy (see above, Types of Men -
Handy) ... although not all Handy men are Parasites.
Types of Men - Sports Fanatic
He will always watch the game, no matter what. Don't mess with his TV, or with him when the game is on!
Types of Men - Cheap
He can make a penny scream for mercy. If the two of you are ever homeless, then he will be a real asset to have around.
Types of Men - Hedonist or Self-Gratifier
He is dedicated to all pleasures the world can offer him. He can be mild or extreme. A "mild" case might enjoy a good cigar, or maybe a $ 100 bottle of wine. A "severe" case might enjoy hookers and cocaine.
Types of Men - Big Fish
He runs a major business or corporation or similar, and has enormous financial resources at his disposal. Could have Hedonist tendencies.
Types of Men - Cheater
He will cheat on you, no matter what. May or may not be a Big Fish. Definitely a Hedonist. Try not to take his cheating personally ... he cheats on everyone. He lies to you all the time - whether you realize it, or not.
Types of Men - Dictator
He runs the show, period ... at work, at home, and in a relationship. It is "his way or the highway" all the time.
Types of Men - Bully
A "Bully" is a "Dictator" with a very bad temper. He will yell or threaten, and/or go into a fit of rage. He has a lot of testosterone, and likes to physically fight. This could be a male equivalent of our Types of Women - Psycho.