When a woman says maybe

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by RamOfPeace on Friday, December 16, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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@RamOfPeace
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To a man who asks her out

What does it mean when you do it, ladies? We're all different, so I want to poll us and see what answer is predominant.

For me, saying maybe is typically a nice way of blowing a guy off.

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@ladylibra21
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Depends on the tone and how I was approached. If I already know the person and they ask me out and I am into them a little I will say "we can do that." I only give a maybe if I don't know a person or if I'm not interested. And the 2 sound different. If I am into you and you get a maybe it is because I want to research you a bit lol.

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@Fragrance
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Lol, for me maybe means most likely! Makes no sense I know

When I don't want to I say "I don't feel like it" or "I can't"

mostly "I can't" actually

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@Teena
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I'd say maybe coz I've a tendency to cancel the plans many times.I just don't wanna give a word already.If it's a no,i most likely wouldn't say a no or even maybe. I'll just laugh it off 😛

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@EvatheDiva
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Posted by RamOfPeace
To a man who asks her out

What does it mean when you do it, ladies? We're all different, so I want to poll us and see what answer is predominant.

For me, saying maybe is typically a nice way of blowing a guy off.

I don't play around and I don't play games. If I want to go out with you I will give you one of two responses: Yes or NO. Plain and simple. 🤗 Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I expect the man (my date) to pick me up (not be late), smell good, and open doors for me.