Hi i have been seeing this guy for six months, very intense to start with up until 1 month ago..confessed feelings for each other ect(im having major ex-husband issues where he keeps contacting myself and has started on new partner). Anyway, we had a difference of opinion,and neither of us likes conflict (Im Taurean) he went home and we havent seen each other since and that was 10 days ago. We have had very minimal phone contact, other then 1 night of quite intense comments about how we felt at that time, mainly initiated by me and very brief responses from him. So today i msn (instant messaged) him and his reply was cant talk right now but will talk after lunch, he said that we had heaps to discuss just not right now and for me to please not worry. Well i havent heard from him since (mind you this was while he was at work). Im am completely confused and what does this mean—?? it is now 8 hrs later... Should i forget this guy or just completely back off and give him his space—
Space, Space, Space.....lmk3:-) - as the great male Virgosquared would often say...."Don't be the forever chaser" and as I say...no-one likes to be the only available source...and as the great Freebrid says..men respond to lack of contact rather than words....you've said what you want - now let him come to you in his own time - and in the meantime.....you go out and play and have good times:-) and do a little social butterflying to take your mind off him....and then when you least expect it, he'll be back:-)
...Alas (or Alana-s)...I second what she said, apart from the casual sex innuendo hehe
Seriously now, wait for about 1 day and then give up on him. Sounds to me like he has made up his mind, and all that bullshit of not getting back to you shows lack of cojones. Excuse the directness/bluntness, but I was dumped and so I have the right to be super cynical for about a week and then return to my normal loving self 🙂
Wait for a while, short while. You cannot do all the chasing, unless he likes to be chased because his mother never wiped his bottom properly when he was 3 or some crap like that hehe.
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Anyway, we had a difference of opinion,and neither of us likes conflict (Im Taurean) he went home and we havent seen each other since and that was 10 days ago. We have had very minimal phone contact, other then 1 night of quite intense comments about how we felt at that time, mainly initiated by me and very brief responses from him. So today i msn (instant messaged) him and his reply was cant talk right now but will talk after lunch, he said that we had heaps to discuss just not right now and for me to please not worry. Well i havent heard from him since (mind you this was while he was at work). Im am completely confused and what does this mean—?? it is now 8 hrs later...
Should i forget this guy or just completely back off and give him his space—