I've been reading a lot about Virgos and there is one piece of advice that seems to be given over and over again. Why is it that the girl has to wait until Virgo makes up his mind or when he's ready he'll get back to her? I've read some girls wait weeks or they never hear from their Virgo ever again. I'm very curious about this. Can anyone explain it?
Advice that is given....

its not so much as a catering to virgos as it is virgos necessity for space to be in right mind.. some dont need that much space and prefer close quarters dealing with matters..though virgos are mutable as am I so its really a person to person condition.. some react without the space they want or need..others refuse nething BUT it..for even an inkling of a response..This is not exclusive to Virgos as it is those who are fairly self absorbed..thats not an insult.. its an awareness...virgos seem to project this more so its taken in the wrong context by either the emotionally immature, unresponse or unreceptive partner,associate, whatever..but my point.. its less virgo trait as it belongs to everyone outside Star sign logic..
Thanks Hopelessdreamr. I just found it very odd how the girl seems to have to like wait and wait for some guy to make up their mind if they want to be with the girl or not. Seems weird to me. I always read the Virgo will come back if they love or care for you or whatever. The advice that's always given is let Virgo guy come back if he wants.

Mystic,
That is a really good question.
I think it goes back to the commitment issues that Virgos carry. I have had two very close female Virgo friends who would cancel every date they made because it was too much of a commitment. Even if it was only one date. Other Virgo girls flip back and forth like crazy if they are in a relationship, trying to decide if it is worth it.
I won't even touch on the men. lol!
Virgo is the last sign before Libra which represents marriage. They are the last of the single signs. All the signs following are people oriented. In some respects, they are the bachelor sign.
Virgos are very critical. They are also one of the most sensitive signs in the zodiac.
I have yet to meet a Virgo and I know MANY who is not terrified of being hurt. In order to get over their fear, they need the time and space to make the decision. It has to feel worse not having you in their life, than having you there.
Even if they disappear for four weeks, if they love you, they come back.
That is a really good question.
I think it goes back to the commitment issues that Virgos carry. I have had two very close female Virgo friends who would cancel every date they made because it was too much of a commitment. Even if it was only one date. Other Virgo girls flip back and forth like crazy if they are in a relationship, trying to decide if it is worth it.
I won't even touch on the men. lol!
Virgo is the last sign before Libra which represents marriage. They are the last of the single signs. All the signs following are people oriented. In some respects, they are the bachelor sign.
Virgos are very critical. They are also one of the most sensitive signs in the zodiac.
I have yet to meet a Virgo and I know MANY who is not terrified of being hurt. In order to get over their fear, they need the time and space to make the decision. It has to feel worse not having you in their life, than having you there.
Even if they disappear for four weeks, if they love you, they come back.
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