Am I just weird? Or is it the Scorpios?

ok so I'm a virgo, he's scorp, we both enjoy long walks on the beach, yatta yatta.

i cant help but feel like there's this thing dividing us. It's completely irrational, but i feel disconnected with him somehow. its driving me nuts. i have no idea why, but i feel like hes hiding from me emotionally. but only with the bad things. he tells me he loves me and he tells me how awesome/(generic good adjective here) i am, but something just feels so off balance and out of place. im getting the feeling that theres something that really bothers him about us, but wont tell me what it is. im going out of my mind now trying to figure out whats wrong with us or me so i can fix it. insert feelings of complete inadequacy, stres, & mild depression here. i want to go with my intuition and think that im right, but im probably far off base with it all. is this just a virgoan paranoia? does the avoidance/detatchment sound like a scorp thing? or am I just crazy?

Gravity,

Have you asked him? How long have you known this guy? Are you sure he's not involved with someone else? His heart might be engaged elsewhere? Just an observation.

no i havent asked him... that would take some sort of assertiveness. ive known him for almost 6 years, and we've been together for 5, so he had better not be ivolved with anyone else :-p

Hi Gravity,

I just have to say It's not your job to fix it. Get that out of your mind. It's his problem to work out on his own. The more you pressure him about it the further away he will go. If he says nothing is wrong then believe him and ignore it and make yourself busy with something for yourself that makes you happy and go back to that person he first met and fell in love with and watch him come back full force.

I'm a Scorpio! Scorpio's like a challenge. Let him wonder what is going on with you. Let him be the one to worry about why you aren't worrying anymore. :-)

Virgotme, I'm not telling Gravity to play any games. I'm telling her to stop trying to fix him and do things for herself. He has probably lost interest because she has changed from who she used to be when they first met because of her trying to make this relationship work. C'mon everybody can make this mistake at least once in thier life. Gravity, correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds as though you have already tried to directly communicate with him and do whatever it is that you think will get his attention and it hasn't worked. If so then take my advice and stop worrying about him and do something for yourself. That's not a game. Let him work out his own problems. My guess is that whatever is going on with him has nothing to do with you anyway, but if you keep nagging at him he will have no choice but to make it about you. Just try giving it a little space and see if it doesn't make him come closer.