Are Virgo guys clingy?

I am a leo and was seeing this virgo guy early this year. It was good,we hanged out a lot and he introduced me to his friends and flatmate. Until he thought I was still active on tinder and he kinda backed off. I did say I like him and he likes me too. The hanging out came back and he suddenly said he is looking for something casual coz he tends to travel a lot. I wasn't ok with that but i just said i was going with the flow so I can save my face. He went back to France and when he came back to Singapore he txted me "how are you?" and trying to ask me for updates with my life. It felt awkward and he didn't reply back after. Then he went back to France to celebrate his bday. He likes chess and we haven't played for a long time. While he was in France,he suddenly sent me an online request for a.chess match 2x on different dates. And I check the time difference,it was like 1am in France when he sent it.

I didn't entertain him that much this time because i wanted more and he is like mentally torturing me. Then over the weekend,he txted around 1.45am saying "hey" I replied nonchalantly later that day. And he suddenly sent photos of him (he knows i like it when I see his face) and asking if we can hangout. He then updated me that he moved in in a new flat and is staying longer in Singapore. He wanted to meetup,I said i was going to a party and he could come. I didn't really bother on what he wanted but its like he is trying to get my attention. And recently out of nowhere,he sent me a video of a guy playing piano. He knows I'm a music teacher and he suddenly sent me this video. I thought it was him so I replied and said I wanted to see him play. Unfortunately it was his flatmate playing the Piano. We then talked to seeing eachother that night but I felt like I was doing all the effort since he just txted me his address and expected me to come over like before. I said its too far and let's do a raincheck on that. I sent him a txt and.deleted it and he got furious I deleted it.

I mean, I don't know what his deal is but its like he is becoming clingy and trying to get my attention for what? If he likes me or just want sex,he can just say it. What's up with all this games? I want something serious and I dont know what he wants

I’m confused

First of all he’s putting all this energy out trying to get ur attention then you say “ your doing all the work”😂

Ur defly a leo

Anyway he likes you...if u wanna know wat he wants ask....then tell him wat u want...if it doesn’t match tell him ur not interested in wat he wants ( as rudely as possible) this will run a Virgo off for good-trust me.

But after reading this whole thing. I’ve decided ( don’t care if you disagree) that u just enjoy his subtle chase. You like the attention. He wanted to be just friends and now maybe ur making him pay for it....idk

But one thing is clear to me. Ur just as timid and as childish as he is by not being up front about wat u want. Either shit or get off the pot🤷🏽‍♀️

Your welcome🙂

Posted by Earthy

I’m confused

First of all he’s putting all this energy out trying to get ur attention then you say “ your doing all the work”😂

Ur defly a leo

Anyway he likes you...if u wanna know wat he wants ask....then tell him wat u want...if it doesn’t match tell him ur not interested in wat he wants ( as rudely as possible) this will run a Virgo off for good-trust me.

But after reading this whole thing. I’ve decided ( don’t care if you disagree) that u just enjoy his subtle chase. You like the attention. He wanted to be just friends and now maybe ur making him pay for it....idk

But one thing is clear to me. Ur just as timid and as childish as he is by not being up front about wat u want. Either shit or get off the pot🤷🏽‍♀️

Your welcome🙂

Thanks for your thoughts @earthy

In the beginning,I was putting all the effort. If he wanted to see me,I will go,travel to his place or to a restaurant,while have a 30mins cab drive to the venue,he will just walk 10mins coz it is super near his place. Then after every meetup,I always txt him and thank him for his time and he doesn't respond. I did ask him for a meetup after that and he will say,he will confirm and doesn't txt back. There was a time he was so tired and he asked me to accompany him while he sleeps,weird,I know. But I am so nice so I brought him food and accompanied him while he slept. Those are some of the efforts that i have been doing..and he hasn't given that much so far. He even scolds me if i am late,like hello! I work so far and u ask me to go this far,you didn't even give an effort for this🙄

Now I am noticing he tries to get my attention coz maybe he felt that I am losing interest,unlike before.

I actually don't like confrontations,and just wanted to ghost him but he keeps txting every now and then,giving some excuse to talk or start a conversation. I want him to be bold and exert effort.

But you are.right, time will come that i will ask him what he wants! For now i will leave it be,just weird that he tries to get my attention for what?? He should really man up and not just be clingy weird. He asked me to play chess

Clingy aaaaaahh maybe?

When I was younger I was extremely clingy, I also wanted to make who ever I dated perfect. The older I got the more I respected personal space, I also understood imperfections are what makes us all different. Seeing some one for who they are and loving them for every flaw and them doing the same gives us both a special feeling.

If he's trying he likes you or really likes your friendship. FYI Virgos are natural born chasers it's the thrill of the chase...make it easy then you loose, play hard to get and he wants you more.

Posted by MrHandsome

Clingy aaaaaahh maybe?

When I was younger I was extremely clingy, I also wanted to make who ever I dated perfect. The older I got the more I respected personal space, I also understood imperfections are what makes us all different. Seeing some one for who they are and loving them for every flaw and them doing the same gives us both a special feeling.

If he's trying he likes you or really likes your friendship. FYI Virgos are natural born chasers it's the thrill of the chase...make it easy then you loose, play hard to get and he wants you more.

Hey there @MrHandsome,

Thanks for your opinion. Glad you respected the personal space 🙂

Yeah,I noticed they like the chase and us leos like the challenge. But sometimes the mindgames are manipulating. I do like him but I wish he will give more effort to it and not just texting --wanna meetup later?-- or--wanna play chess?-- coz its giving me mixed signals.

And so after months of not meeting. We met up last night. He cooked pasta and his flatmate joined us for dinner. It was chill and very relaxed. I think he does like me.he just arrived from Amsterdam yesterday and he still had the energy to see me. I did ask him to bring me something from Amsterdam and he did remember and surprised me this morning. I hope he got into his senses and now wants more and hopefully a relationship soon

Posted by AneemA04

Screw him.

Do as many as you can that doesn't involve him.

What do you mean? @AneemA04

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Posted by siopaowiks

Posted by AneemA04

Screw him.

Do as many as you can that doesn't involve him.

What do you mean? @AneemA04

Do your own thing. What else?

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Haha true that @ AneenA04

I just wish he will pursue and want more or take it to the next level haha

Posted by JanMayMarry

Just wanna drop by at the same time prayin' that you and I, aren't friends, since we came from the same Country. LooooL!

Singapore is freaking small, if ya know what I mean. 😆

Hahaha