Are Virgos as unforgiving as I am ?

There is a private passage on stairs of my office, I use these stairs rarely. It happened about 5 years back that I called my bf while coming down from office standing on that passage of stairs. We had a fight and talked to me very rudely. I was deeply hurt but said nothing. He later said sorry for his behavior and I forgave him.

About 2 years back, our relation ended and both of us moved on in our lives.

Still whenever I use those stairs then looking at passage just refreshes that conversation in my mind, the rude tone of his voice, each & every word he said refreshes in my mind and I feel as if my blood is boiling. I feel so much anger that it surprises me that how unforgiving person I am. After so many years still I am not able to forget and forgive for the hurt someone made me feel.

What about you —

Yes, I know exactly how you feel. I met who I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with three years ago. We were with each other ALL THE TIME. We never argued, disagreed or anything of the like. I was so much in love with him and he said he was so much in love with me. A little over nine months into the relationship he ended it abruptly with no explanation given BUT told he me thought very highly of me and wanted to remain friends. I could not vision myself remaining friends with him due to the emotional attachment. I was really torn for about two years. Although I have dealt with the above, I still feel if I was to run into him, that I would not be able to converse with him at all..... that it would probably just stir up emotions again.

Yes I can be. Really depends on the situation and who it is...but I am working on just letting it all go. The more you hold onto things, the more it consumes your soul...and for me I'm trying to free mine.

Hahaha yes, absolutely.
My Boyf and I had a huge fight at our most favourite cafe in the world... its two minutes from home and does the best breakfast and coffee hands down...
Well after he blew up at me there, I have never gone back since! Not once not even for a juice not even for parking to run into the shops nearby.
It brings it all back, it's like- I forgave him but not the venue lol